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We live in a world where "how to manifest" has become almost a cliche. We're told that there are "secrets" and strategies to follow in order to manifest. In my reality however, manifestation is not a strategy. You cannot will your way into manifestation. You cannot "om" your way into manifestation. You cannot act to manifest that which you want if you don't understand how the Predictable Structure...

Self-manipulation is an interesting thing. It is so easy to never have to notice, because, of course, there are far too many external manipulations going on -- all of which are easier to notice than those we have internalized against ourselves. Yet, notice, we must, if we are to free ourselves from the confines of our own imprisoned minds. If you’re curious and you seek to deepen your exploration...

Decloaking is a process of Self discovery -- how you came to be who you are, AND who you are capable of becoming once you notice that your perceptual filters can (must!) be shifted. In this intensive, I guide you through a reliable and replicable process that gives you the opportunity to practice what it means to discover ... There are lots of ways to get to evolution; if you're seeking a shor...

When we live authentically, we are safe inside our own beings, and therefore safe in the world. Everything else that pulls us away from our own deep inner knowings is bound to lead to a life of struggle. End of the day, I've discovered: it's all a choice. How to make congruent choices that propel you toward your authentic life? That's a great question. If you’re curious but not quite c...

A recording from the monthly Unapologeticaly Unfuckwithable conversation with a small group of women exploring what it means to reclaim our power, and how to do that. A critical conversation about fire involves how we came to cultivate the mindset that we have around 'fire', and how that functions to keep us small, OR how it can be used to help us become unfuckwithable. In this episode, I...

Sometimes, the easy stuff becomes the most 'challenging' stuff, mainly because noone has taught us how to stay in the simplicity of what it means to be alive, in the here and now. So that's a mindset we must cultivate, time and again ... until it becomes our new habit. In this introduction to the "Intentional Choices" workshop, I delve into the six fundamentals that help us s...

I am always so intrigued and in love with the expressed sensuality of little ones. To be in the presence of that expression of Innocence, rejoicing in discovery, is a sacred gift. It is a reminder of how simple it could be, how joyous, how immensely precious.  And, simultaneously, it is a reminder of just how fucking few people are allowed to rejoice in it. It is a reminder of everything that has...

Drama means different things to different people. There is the soap-opera drama of messing in everyone's life; then there's the drama of being alive. For those who know WEL-Systems and what above the choice point means, this will make more sense: To me, drama above the choice point converts to intensity, definiteness, clarity of intention, honesty, directness. I know what I know, and I am...

Today I speak with Karina Evangelista, a woman who has been an active participant in the WEL-Systems® experiences for almost 25 years. In her early days through this paradigm, she cured herself of Crohns, a disease the medical model says is incurable. If you're curious to find out more, check it out here. Karina is a powerful and courageous woman who stays in the tough conversations, no matter...

This is an excerpt from the Unapologetically Unfuckwithable: Embracing the Crone that I AM yearlong. In it, I share with a client my thoughts around the illusion we keep feeding that the women in our lives should have cared . Maybe they did, maybe they didn't. Fact is: when we allow ourselves to be depleted, all that is left is a shell of what was ... And, it's never too late. If, as you l...

Today on Sparking the Sacred podcast, we are in conversation with Jennifer Hatt. Jennifer is a CODE Model Coach™, an author and a publicist. As a fellow colleague and an enthusiast of the WEL-Systems® original experiences, Jennifer has agreed to be my guest in this episode where we explore what it was like for her to engage the Whispers from Within experience with me. That is, a ten day stream of...

On this third birthday, I invite you to be YOU!  My promise to you is to never allow that to happen, as long as I am responsible for the quality of your life and the shaping of your mind. My promise to you is to give you full permission to evolve into the greatest version of yourself that you were always meant to be. I don't want you to lose that and discover it as you go along, I want you to...

Who am I if I am not someone's mother? Sister? Or daughter?  Who am I if I am not someone's wife? Friend? Or lover?  Who am I if I am not a worker? A contributor? Or a mentor? How many of us know ourselves outside of the relationships we have with the roles which help define us? Whether it's the infamous mother-daughter relationship or the sister-sister relationship or the wife-husband r...

This is a reading of my latest blog post, titled the same as the podcast episode.  "If I achieve one goal in my lifetime, I wish it to be that you grow up knowing your true Self, your essence, your I AM. It is only by knowing this that you do not fall victim to another's construction of the world. If you notice the patterns playing out in the world and choose mindfully that which is meaningfu...

This is a reading of my blog post: WEL-Systems® conversations: The ticket to freedom.  The WEL-Systems® experiences that I facilitate and participate in are not courses or programs; they are experiences . Their purpose is individualized  integration of the historical habits that keep us stagnated in a particular way of thinking, out of our awareness. They are sacred conversations among e...

It can be terrifying to find ones life purpose...the intention behind the manifestation of ones being... This is why most people avoid it. We've been taught to seek, to a certain extent, and then just do as we're told. We're told it's best if move through life not making any waves, sustain the default, the status quo. At some point, we begin to believe the lie more than we believe the truth in our...

From my blog post: Choice: The bridge between the past and the future I am profoundly aware of the fact that there are lots of different ways to see and move through the world. Like most people, I spent the majority of my adult life believing that there was something wrong with me and the way to heal is to find a new strategy that would help me with the quality of my life. I tried everything: from...

"The greatest gift you can give another human being is the depth of your own clarity." - Louise LeBrun This is a reading of my latest blog post: Letting go to get clear: FEEL! inspired by a writing email exchange developed by Louise LeBrun called "Whispers From Within".  * When we begin to let go of what we've been grasping so tightly on, our whole world begins to feel different ... we discov...

A must-talk about topic for women: reclaiming our ability to set boundaries, with conviction!  Because ...that fire that we work so hard to shut down and minimize, always comes out in ways we haven't imagined. Women have learned well how to spew their fire instead of own it. We have become master manipulators within ourselves . We lie to ourselves to protect the illusion. Think for a moment,...

I don't always read my blog posts, however there's something about this one that invited me to read it and share it. In this piece of intuitive writing, I express my thoughts around truth, reality, and choice. I often wonder ...How else, might i choose to live my life, today?

Welcome to this series of conversations I am facilitating around the question of What is Woman ?  In this first episode, myself and a small group of women gathered to explore what is sovereignty?  Over the last ten thousand years of patriarchy as the paradigm we operate from women have known systemic and systematic silencing well. We have been imprisoned by the cultural and familial mess...

In order to come out transformed, we must be courageous enough to be willing to shed the unfitting skin of our former life — the life that simply no longer fits us. We have to become willing and able to shapeshift into who we are , before culture indoctrinated us and broke us into something we were never meant to be to begin with.  If you feel the mad woman rising within you, know that you are not...

"There is no use in going back to yesterday, I was a different person then." - Alice in Wonderland