Beyond The Chaos

Parental preference is a real thing, and can be really tough on both sides of the fence. Today, Amy and Gen address a question from a listener who's child seems to really prefer his dad, and is feeling understandably sensitive about it.  Plus, Gen has a win with her teenager, and Amy reminisces about dabbling in Mary Jane when she was younger. Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm...

On this week's AMEN rant, it's the school holidays juggle. From finding things for kids to keep them occupied, too someone to look after them so you can leave the house, and then everything else involved in running a house. If you feel like you're struggling- you're not alone! Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm/beyondthechaos Get your pack of High Low Buffalo cards here Order Amy Ge...

We all know that good kids can act out or have trouble at school, and emotional dysregulation might be what is causing these issues. Today, Amy and Gen answer a question from a mum worried about her 6 year old, and provide some tips on supporting them through this tough time. Plus, an iPad win and the constant juggle of school holidays. Get your pack of High Low Buffalo cards here , and use the co...

High Low Buffalo; it's a communication tool Gen has mentioned on the podcast many times to connect with your kid of any age. And now Gen has some exciting news: she's created her own High Low Buffalo conversation cards! This episode, Gen talks about why she created these cards, exactly how they can help your family dynamic and get your kids to open up, and Amy and Gen give the cards a spin! Get yo...

This week on BTC, we hear from a mum who's daughter has turned up the clinginess to 100, but the reason behind a child not leaving you alone might surprise you. Gen has some tips for working through this with your clingy kid. Plus, does your partner say they're going to be home at a certain time, only to waltz in an hour late? You're not alone. Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm/bey...

Last week Amy had the flu and was sicker than she had ever been in her life...but the parenting overwhelm never stops. On this week's AMEN rant, Amy and Gen discuss parenting while being ill, partners stepping up (or not), and how you can prioritise self care. Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm/beyondthechaos Order Amy Gerard's book 'Strap Yourself In' HERE Order Gen Muir's book 'Li...

It's pretty common that at some point, your tween might start withdrawing from things like family outings, meals and plans. But that doesn't mean it's not hard for parents, and the rest of the family. Today on Beyond The Chaos, Amy and Gen discuss a question from a listener struggling with exactly this. Plus, our wins and fails that, unsurprisingly, revolve around screens. Leave your question for...

While we never want our kids to go through something as hard as losing a pet or someone else special to them, how you guide you child through grief can help them build important skills and face a normal part of life. This week, Gen walks us through how to explain death to your kid and help them through tough times. Plus, the highs and lows of spending time away from your kids and the benefits to l...

On this week's AMEN rant, we have a bone to pick with school correspondence. On top of the 14 different apps you need, we're sick of the emails, Whatsapp messages, texts and newsletters, and reckon there has to be better way. Plus, Gen is undie-shamed in the gym. Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm/beyondthechaos Order Amy Gerard's book 'Strap Yourself In' HERE Order Gen Muir's book...

If you have a tween or teen who is perfectly sweet one second and a raging jerk the next, you're not alone. Today we hear from a parent who is at her wit's end with her daughter's behaviour, but Gen is here to tell you why her that's actually not a bad thing... Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm/beyondthechaos Order Amy Gerard's book 'Strap Yourself In' HERE Order Gen Muir's book 'L...

Stealing, swearing, lying...these are all things most kids will do at one point or another. But at what point should you be worried, and is there anything you can do to manage a 'sneaky' child? Plus, is it really a big deal if we let ChatGPT do some of the parenting sometimes? Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm/beyondthechaos Order Amy Gerard's book 'Strap Yourself In' HERE Order Ge...

This week on an AMEN episode of Beyond The Chaos (AMy and gEN, of course), we tackle to topic of parental overwhelm. With so much information out there aimed to help parents, how do we know what to listen to? And how do you stay kind to yourself when we all know, most parents are just trying their best? Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm/beyondthechaos Order Amy Gerard's book 'Strap...

To celebrate Breastfeeding Awareness Month, Amy and Gen are joined by obstetrician Dr Hugh Porter  and midwife and lactation specialist Megan Hangan to chat about everything to do with breastfeeding- the highs, the lows, and the sore nipples. This episode is proudly brought to you by Haakaa. August is Breastfeeding Awareness Month, and Haakaa’s all about supporting mums through every st...

How do you teach your child that while winning feels great, it's also ok to lose? And how to teach them right and wrong if they're ultra sensitive? Gen and Amy tackle these tricky topics and more on today's episode. Plus, Gen's bike riding fail and Amy's little mini-me. Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm/beyondthechaos Order Amy Gerard's book 'Strap Yourself In' HERE Order Gen Muir'...

Welcome back to Beyond The Chaos, where due to popular demand we're back to weekly episodes! Every few weeks, we'll be releasing episodes like this one that are a more casual chat between Amy and Gen! This week, they chat about getting on the same page as your parenting when it comes to your partner- easier said than done! Amy speaks about her own experiences while Gen has some sound advice. Email...

Do you find your child is excited for a big moment or performance, only to fall apart when they see you there to support them? It's way more common than you think. This episode, we hear from a mum experiencing this with her 6 year old, and Gen and Amy have some surprising advice. Plus, a (kind of gross) hack for bedtime nosebleeds from Amy. Email your voicemail parenting question to Gen and Amy HE...

Standing up to a bully picking on someone is not easy, even for grown ups, especially when you can just walk away. But when is the right time to step in, and how? Gen and Amy answer a question from a mum asking about this tricky topic.  Plus, never ending school holidays and a hack for birthdays. Email your voicemail parenting question to Gen and Amy HERE Order Amy Gerard's book 'Strap Yourse...

If your child has ever acted out unexpectedly, it can be hard to know why and how to handle the situation. This week we hear from a parent in this situation and give them some gentle advice. Plus, spending quality time with your kids and Amy and Gen's highs and lows of the week. Email your voicemail parenting question to Gen and Amy HERE Order Amy Gerard's book 'Strap Yourself In' HERE Order Gen M...

Driving them to school and trying to get them to drink water; just two of the things that have caused our kids to melt down at us recently. So we want to hear what 'terrible' things you've done recently to make your child furious at you? Plus, we hear from a parent whose child is struggling with basic things like getting dressed, and the answer might be in choice paralysis. This episode is brought...

Has your kid ever had a meltdown about going to school or daycare, and then had another meltdown when you've arrived to pick them up? Well 'transition overwhelm' might be to blame, and Gen has some very practical tips for mitigating it. Plus, we hear from a single mum who actually had a great mother's day! And Gen and Amy go through their weekly nails and fails. This episode is brought to you by A...

On the weekend it was Mother's Day, but in some houses across the country, you wouldn't know it. Amy and Gen had to jump into the studio for an special unedited bonus episode about their dud Mother's Days, and why it's always on mums to take on the mental load. Email your voicemail parenting question to Gen and Amy  HERE Order Amy Gerard's book 'Strap Yourself In' HERE Order Gen Muir's book '...

Most kids have some sensory habits, from twirling their hair to pinching their private parts. Today on the show, we hear from a mum who's daughter's habits are causing her to pull out her hair, and she wants to know if there's anything she can do. Plus, Amy has a sh*tty fail this week, and Gen's been influenced by Amy to buy some life changing boots. Email your voicemail parenting question to Gen...

Your kid's life will be full of big changes; some out of their control like when they start school, but some are up to you to decide, like moving from a cot to a bed. So when is the right time to make these big decisions? We answer a question from a mum who is trying to figure this out. Plus, a solution for screen addiction, and Gen's PT win. Email your voicemail parenting question to Gen and Amy...

Most kids like to make up stories at times, but how is the best way to react to their porky pies without shutting them down? Gen has some sound advice for a mum who has a very imaginative child. Plus, Amy's shoelace frustrations and Gen's weekend away....sans children! Email your voicemail parenting question to Gen and Amy HERE Order Amy Gerard's book 'Strap Yourself In' HERE Order Gen Muir's book...

Most kids have trouble controlling their volume at times, but what do you do if yours are just way too loud! An overstimulated parent gets in touch with Gen and Amy to get some advice. Plus, Gen confesses she's been struggling with mum guilt, and Amy nails some solo parenting.  Email your voicemail parenting question to Gen and Amy HERE Order Amy Gerard's book 'Strap Yourself In' HERE Order G...