Around The Way Curls

For this episode, Shanti tries to understand the difference between rewards and treats in her life, while Antoinette escapes into "white people saving the world". For politics we talk tariffs, the U.S. stance on Ukraine and Russia, and the political dynamics surrounding recent events, including Zelensky's meeting with Trump and the State of the Union address. For pop culture, we pay tributes to mu...

This episode explores the complexities of womanhood and identity, focusing on our experiences of being raised by white mothers. We reflect on our childhoods and discuss the influence our mothers had on our perceptions of beauty, relationships and sense of responsibility. We highlight the importance of understanding and communication between parents and children when raising biracial children, as w...

For this episode, Shanti questions Spike Lee's film making decisions while Antoinette battles an ongoing cold and develops a new obsession for a pop star. For politics, we discuss the many moving parts of politics at this moment, highlighting ICE deportations, Palestine, the influence of Andrew Tate, the implications of a measles outbreak, and discuss the recent shakeup at MSNBC with Joy Ann Reid....

In this episode, Antoinette goes to a modern art museum and doesn't like the art, while Shanti thinks human existence is the equivalent of surviving a plane crash. After listening to voicemails, we talk with Maurice Mitchell, the National Director of the Working Families Party. Together, we discuss the need for a third political party that truly represents the interests of working people. Maurice...

In this episode, Shanti is touched by the spiritual journey of an angler fish while Antoinette pushes her nail tech to his highest artistic potential. For politics, we discuss the recent crisis in aviation, the impact of mass terminations of federal workers, recent changes in education policy regarding race, and the somewhat radical health policy reforms proposed by Robert F. Kennedy Jr. For pop c...

What happens when two best friends record a podcast inebriated? In this episode, Antoinette and Shanti crash out. Using the questions and prompts from our listeners, we follow a completely unscripted, unstructured episode. Together, we get carried away on topics such as what we would do if we swapped genders, which canceled artists we are still loyal to, the origins of our friendship, how we would...

In this episode Antoinette and Shanti celebrate the Eagles' Super Bowl victory! We discuss the team's performance, the strategic decisions made, and the cultural significance of the win. For our Black History highlight, Shanti shares the legacy of Dr. Frances Cress-Welsing. For politics, we discuss concerns about Trump's political maneuvers and legal troubles, emphasizing the importance of checks...

In this episode, Shanti discovers Raising Caine's Chicken Fingers on a dark, cold night while Antoinette pays her condolences to Irv Gotti. We focus on our main topic after listening to very insightful listener voicemails about US farming and biracial coupling. Shanti poses the question: is modern mating in direct conflict with how we are biologically wired to select our partners? Is it wrong to w...

In this episode, Antoinette and Shanti share their recent experiences at New York theaters thanks to The Culture LP. For politics, we discuss the implications of Trump's statements on Gaza, Elon Musk's influence on the government, and the impact of USAID on global relations. For pop culture, we share our Super Bowl plans, Onijah in Pakistan, and the recent Grammys. We celebrate the achievements of...

In this episode, Shanti deepens her love of Bad Bunny and Puerto Rico while Antoinette shares another musical gem with the people. For our main topic, Antoinette kicks off Black History Month, celebrating the life of Dr. Martin Luther King. The conversation explores the political weaponization of King's teachings in an attempt to soften his radical ideologies. The discussion highlights the role of...

In this episode, Shanti realizes she is the mother of an angsty teenager while Antoinette continues to celebrate the Eagles going to the Super Bowl. For Black History Month, Shanti highlights the complicated legacy of Lucy Parsons. This week we merge pop culture with politics and discuss the recent DEI rollback decisions made by major corporations. We share our thoughts about the reactions of majo...

In this week's reflective episode, we start the episode off in finest English accents! We get serious with our main topic which is inspired by the teachings of Dr. Joe Dispenza. Together, we talk about the science of neuroplasticity which is the brain's ability to change and adapt throughout life. We discuss how our thoughts, emotions, and behaviors shape our reality and can lead to healing or ill...

In this episode, Shanti gets closer to mastering fried chicken while Antoinette considers a monthly crash-out episode for the people. For politics, we discuss the barrage of executive orders and policies enacted by the Trump administration, focusing on their implications for immigration, energy, law enforcement, gender identity, and global agreements. We also question if both the ADL and Snoop Dog...

In this episode, Shanti talks about the recent girl's trip in ATL and her growing love for Bad Bunny while Antoinette considers how she will emotionally manage the next four years with Trump as President. After answering caller voicemails, we dive into our main topic. Shanti shares the conflicting roles of being both a mother and a lover. Together they work through her personal struggles with comp...

We are celebrating 400 episodes! With the help of our listeners, we let loose with a completely unstructured, free-flowing episode. Together, we answer listener questions and talk about any and everything such as circumcision, The Star Spangled Banner, biblical prophesies, why female orgasms are better than males, the growth of our podcast, and our personal predictions for 2025. Join us for an Aro...

In this episode, Shanti is excited about a coming girl's trip, while Antoinette feels dismayed over her recent dental visit. Together, we respond to caller voicemails and dive into our main topic: how does one offer real support to loved ones? In the wake of the recent LA fires, we discuss how to provide sincere support and concern without putting ourselves first or feeling performative. Join us.....

In this episode, we spend time on the devastating destruction of the recent wildfires in Los Angeles. We share our feelings amongst the collective grief. We try to understand the environmental causes of the wildfires, and the confusing political responses to this disaster. We recognize climate change as our new reality and begin to consider how to best prepare for future disasters. For pop culture...

Happy New Year! We start by catching up on our personal lives including a milestone in parenting for Shanti as well as a milestone in Antoinette's love life. For politics, we share the actual medical benefits to a "Dry January" as we are learning more about the link between cancer and alcohol, and the implications of New York City's new congestion pricing measure. For pop culture, we share our rea...

In this episode, Shanti wrestles with her inner voice as revealed to her by her "morning pages" and Antoinette reflects on a lesson in faith from her beloved Godson. Together and with the help of psychotherapist Esther Perel, they explore the  Paradox of Security vs. Freedom  within their personal and working relationship. This brings Shanti to a sort of revelation about partnership. Joi...

In this week's episode Shanti finds comfort in old "Insecure" episodes while Antoinette faces some backlash from family members concerning her stance on Palestine. Together, we discuss the GOP's newest Speaker of the House Mike Johnson, the Ebony Alert system, and Barack Obama's recent statement on Israel and Palestine. For pop culture, Antoinette celebrates the life of Richard Roundtree and we tr...

We want to wish everyone safe, restful, and joyous Holidays! Thank you so much for rocking with us this year! We will return next year! Lots of love, Shanti and Antoinette. Contact Us: Hotline: (215) 948-2780 Email: aroundthewaycurls@gmail.com Patreon: www.patreon.com/aroundthewaycurls for exclusive videos & bonus episodes See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy...

In this episode, Shanti confesses that she is failing in an area of her life. We use the book "Failing Forward" by John Maxwell as a guide for the conversation, and together we reflect on our relationships with failure. We attempt to embrace failure as an opportunity for growth and redefine what success and failure mean to each of us. We hope this episode resonates with anyone feeling like giving...

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In this week's episode, Shanti shares a Holiday discount code with ATWC listeners, while Antoinette inherits clothing from her boyfriend and doesn't know how she feels about it. For our main topic, we discuss the inevitability of our parents aging and how we can begin to prepare for their decline. We explore the ways in which roles change, responsibilities shift, and the importance of having diffi...

In this week's episode, Shanti regrets a recent hair cut from her mom while Antoinette recalls her 3 day Thanksgiving marathon and baking success. For politics, we share our thoughts about Biden pardoning his son and the recent murder of United Healthcare's CEO. For pop culture, we rate Kendrick Lamar's new album GNX, his coming tour with SZA, and Drake suing Universal Music. Lastly, we comment on...