Insights With P.T

Temi and Pastor T explore how placing God at the center strengthens marriage, focusing on a husband’s role to spiritually lead, challenge, and gently uplift his wife. The episode covers communication, emotional engagement, practical steps like shared fasting and scripture conversations, and encourages patience, gentleness, and growth through faith.

Hosts Temi and PT dive into real marriage challenges through a faith-based lens. They discuss opposite-sex friendships and emotional affairs, how to rebuild trust after betrayal, and how same-sex friendships and single friends can affect a marriage. The episode also tackles practical conflicts, like choosing to work or stay home after children—while urging couples to keep God at the center and use...

Welcome back to Insights with P.T. Temi and P.T. tackle tough marriage issues: dealing with pregnancy loss and postpartum depression, differing desires about having more children after a traumatic birth, how to support each other through grief, whether to involve parents in marital problems, and balancing family traditions with creating your own. P.T. emphasizes counseling, church/fellowship suppo...

This episode unpacks Matthew 19:3–10, exploring Jesus’ teaching on divorce, the exception of sexual immorality, and how hardness of heart leads to resentment and spiritual immaturity. The speaker urges listeners to seek God’s guidance directly and emphasizes God’s provision for forgiveness. Practical guidance is given on cleaving to your spouse, handling in‑laws, financial unity versus uniformity,...

This episode teaches biblical principles for healthy marriages: seeking wisdom from above, answering gently to defuse anger, and tending to your spouse with care and attention. It warns against persistent anger, secrecy, and infidelity, and encourages honesty, apology for mistakes, and honoring your partner so relationships can grow and find peace.

This episode lays a scriptural foundation for Christian marriage, focusing on submission as responsible leadership, humility modeled by Christ, and the need for mutual honor. It emphasizes understanding your spouse, choosing your battles, seeking godly wisdom, and rejecting worldly approaches so marriages can endure and flourish.

In this episode PT presents a scriptural foundation for Christian marriage, drawing on Ephesians and 1 Corinthians. He urges husbands to love their wives sacrificially as Christ loved the church and calls wives to submit unto the Lord. The message warns against using headship as control, emphasizes spiritual leadership and cleansing by the Word, and encourages couples to pursue unconditional, pati...

This episode offers down-to-earth advice for couples on managing money and preserving their relationship: agree on a budget, create a joint account for shared expenses funded proportionally, and let the partner who is best at money management handle payments while keeping transparency. It also covers emotional connection and intimacy—how daily attention matters, why sex and romance require communi...

This episode explores practical marriage guidance about repeated conversations—how to understand your partner's rhythm, ask for grace, and avoid trying to overrun or dominate them. Speakers discuss respecting differences, trusting intuition about children, and resolving parenting disagreements. It also covers balancing ministry and fatherhood, time management strategies, and honest talk about...

This episode explores how culture and word choice shape communication in marriage, showing how phrases like "don't be a fool" can be heard very differently depending on background. Guests discuss distinguishing surface arguments from deeper unresolved issues, practical steps to deescalate conflict (backing off, revisiting issues calmly), and deciding whether something is worth fighti...

This episode offers blunt, practical advice on choosing a partner, emphasizing that the fear of God matters most as it shapes respect, fidelity, and character. It also covers conflict resolution and communication techniques for couples: knowing when to let go, avoiding public interference, using written notes to de-escalate, and understanding how men and women communicate differently.

This episode offers practical marriage advice, emphasizing friendship and commitment as the foundation that outlasts romantic feelings. Pastor Tola stresses the importance of mutual respect, choosing your battles, and avoiding rigid "red lines" that can damage a relationship. Through personal anecdotes and simple rules don't insist on always being right, prioritize partnership over p...

This episode explains why marriage matters from a biblical perspective: God created marriage for companionship, mutual strength, and as a template to shape families and society. It emphasizes the spiritual mystery of becoming one, and the power that two people bring when they unite. It also contrasts the spiritual and cultural aspects of marriage, highlighting the importance of shared values, coun...

This episode explores whether to remarry, urging listeners to seek God’s guidance and learn from past mistakes rather than follow quick advice. Pastors Tola and Kofo discuss the changing phases of marriage, the need for respect, peace of mind, financial and emotional balance, and the importance of being intentional about intimacy and communication. The message encourages personal conviction, praye...

This episode explores common marriage struggles: when efforts to show affection don’t land, dealing with postpartum depression and body image, and how unresolved past relationships can affect current partners. Pastors Tola and Kofo offer practical advice: improve communication, seek medical or pastoral help when needed, join your partner in solutions, avoid body-shaming, and address past trauma ho...

Insights with PT collabs with Jesus House Baltimore Marriage Course as Pastor T and Pastor Kofo tackle tough marriage issues: physical boundaries and abuse, expectations around provision, mutual submission, and the pain of feeling dismissed. The episode blends scripture-based guidance with real-life scenarios—job loss, changing roles, communication breakdowns—and practical advice for couples seeki...

Insights with PT teams up with JHB's Marriage Course for an honest, scripture-based conversation about marriage. Hosts and pastors Tola and Kofo discuss intimacy after long marriages, the role of communication, and practical reasons why physical desire changes over time. The episode also covers forgiveness, finding joy beyond feelings, handling unhappiness without abuse, and how believers can...

In this Special Episode of Insights with PT, Pastor Tola and Pastor Kofo from the Jesus House Baltimore Marriage Course discuss real relationship questions about arguing, communication, and keeping romance alive. They offer scripture-based, practical advice on resolving conflict, handling high emotions, deciding whether to 'go to bed angry,' recognizing deal-breakers before marriage, and s...

In this episode of Insights with P.T., Temi and Pastor P.T. tackle real relationship issues from a Christian counseling perspective — divorce, forgiveness, and the dangers of hardened hearts. They discuss why divorce shouldn’t be the default, how premarital counseling helps (but doesn’t guarantee) a strong marriage, and the risks of cohabitation before marriage. The hosts also break down money mat...

Hosts Temi and PT dive into Christian-based counseling on relationships, covering how clear communication and tone can prevent fights, understanding controlling behavior and marital roles, and handling silent treatment. PT offer practical, scripture-informed advice on forgiving, moving on, and daily habits for singles and couples to build healthier, more secure relationships.

Temi  and Pastor Tola return with a scripture-based discussion on relationships, marriage, and dating, sharing practical Christian counsel for young adults and married couples. They cover how marriage requires selflessness and a committed mindset, how differing personalities (extrovert vs. introvert) can be balanced, and how to identify and restore lost intimacy. Key takeaways include relying on G...

Pastor Tola unpacks biblical principles for marriage, discussing the significance of oneness, name and identity in marriage, handling family input, setting boundaries, and resolving conflicts in healthy ways. This episode offers practical, scripture-based guidance for couples, singles, husbands, and wives seeking to strengthen relationships through faith and clear communication.

Insights with PT explores how couples can rebuild trust and improve communication using biblical principles. Pastor Tola discuss differences in strengths between spouses, the importance of repentance and forgiveness, and when separation may be necessary for safety. The episode offers practical, scripture-based advice on speaking kindly, understanding different communication styles, delegating resp...

To all couples, singles, wives and husbands: this episode shares biblical wisdom on relationships and marriage, emphasizing hearing God, walking in covenant, and building a God-centered foundation rather than following social trends. Pastor PT and Anu discuss readiness for marriage, overcoming fear, patience, seeing your spouse as a joint heir with Christ, and practical principles—faith, flexibili...

Pastor Tola offer a frank, scripture-based conversation about dating, marriage, and relationships for Gen Z and Millennials. They address unrealistic expectations in dating, the pressures of premarital sex, and how modern dating habits can clash with lifelong marriage. PT emphasizes obedience to God, hearing God’s guidance before entering relationships, personal holiness, and practical steps like...