Insights With P.T

This episode offers practical marriage advice, emphasizing friendship and commitment as the foundation that outlasts romantic feelings. Pastor Tola stresses the importance of mutual respect, choosing your battles, and avoiding rigid "red lines" that can damage a relationship. Through personal anecdotes and simple rules don't insist on always being right, prioritize partnership over p...

This episode explains why marriage matters from a biblical perspective: God created marriage for companionship, mutual strength, and as a template to shape families and society. It emphasizes the spiritual mystery of becoming one, and the power that two people bring when they unite. It also contrasts the spiritual and cultural aspects of marriage, highlighting the importance of shared values, coun...

This episode explores whether to remarry, urging listeners to seek God’s guidance and learn from past mistakes rather than follow quick advice. Pastors Tola and Kofo discuss the changing phases of marriage, the need for respect, peace of mind, financial and emotional balance, and the importance of being intentional about intimacy and communication. The message encourages personal conviction, praye...

This episode explores common marriage struggles: when efforts to show affection don’t land, dealing with postpartum depression and body image, and how unresolved past relationships can affect current partners. Pastors Tola and Kofo offer practical advice: improve communication, seek medical or pastoral help when needed, join your partner in solutions, avoid body-shaming, and address past trauma ho...

Insights with PT collabs with Jesus House Baltimore Marriage Course as Pastor T and Pastor Kofo tackle tough marriage issues: physical boundaries and abuse, expectations around provision, mutual submission, and the pain of feeling dismissed. The episode blends scripture-based guidance with real-life scenarios—job loss, changing roles, communication breakdowns—and practical advice for couples seeki...

Insights with PT teams up with JHB's Marriage Course for an honest, scripture-based conversation about marriage. Hosts and pastors Tola and Kofo discuss intimacy after long marriages, the role of communication, and practical reasons why physical desire changes over time. The episode also covers forgiveness, finding joy beyond feelings, handling unhappiness without abuse, and how believers can...

In this Special Episode of Insights with PT, Pastor Tola and Pastor Kofo from the Jesus House Baltimore Marriage Course discuss real relationship questions about arguing, communication, and keeping romance alive. They offer scripture-based, practical advice on resolving conflict, handling high emotions, deciding whether to 'go to bed angry,' recognizing deal-breakers before marriage, and s...

In this episode of Insights with P.T., Temi and Pastor P.T. tackle real relationship issues from a Christian counseling perspective — divorce, forgiveness, and the dangers of hardened hearts. They discuss why divorce shouldn’t be the default, how premarital counseling helps (but doesn’t guarantee) a strong marriage, and the risks of cohabitation before marriage. The hosts also break down money mat...

Hosts Temi and PT dive into Christian-based counseling on relationships, covering how clear communication and tone can prevent fights, understanding controlling behavior and marital roles, and handling silent treatment. PT offer practical, scripture-informed advice on forgiving, moving on, and daily habits for singles and couples to build healthier, more secure relationships.

Temi  and Pastor Tola return with a scripture-based discussion on relationships, marriage, and dating, sharing practical Christian counsel for young adults and married couples. They cover how marriage requires selflessness and a committed mindset, how differing personalities (extrovert vs. introvert) can be balanced, and how to identify and restore lost intimacy. Key takeaways include relying on G...

Pastor Tola unpacks biblical principles for marriage, discussing the significance of oneness, name and identity in marriage, handling family input, setting boundaries, and resolving conflicts in healthy ways. This episode offers practical, scripture-based guidance for couples, singles, husbands, and wives seeking to strengthen relationships through faith and clear communication.

Insights with PT explores how couples can rebuild trust and improve communication using biblical principles. Pastor Tola discuss differences in strengths between spouses, the importance of repentance and forgiveness, and when separation may be necessary for safety. The episode offers practical, scripture-based advice on speaking kindly, understanding different communication styles, delegating resp...

To all couples, singles, wives and husbands: this episode shares biblical wisdom on relationships and marriage, emphasizing hearing God, walking in covenant, and building a God-centered foundation rather than following social trends. Pastor PT and Anu discuss readiness for marriage, overcoming fear, patience, seeing your spouse as a joint heir with Christ, and practical principles—faith, flexibili...

Pastor Tola offer a frank, scripture-based conversation about dating, marriage, and relationships for Gen Z and Millennials. They address unrealistic expectations in dating, the pressures of premarital sex, and how modern dating habits can clash with lifelong marriage. PT emphasizes obedience to God, hearing God’s guidance before entering relationships, personal holiness, and practical steps like...

Pastor Tola and Temi discuss relationships, dating, and marriage through a scriptural lens, focusing on what it means to be equally yoked in faith, finances, parenting, and lifestyle. They offer practical counsel on handling differences, staying committed, and navigating modern dating influences, and invite viewers to send questions for future episodes.

PT and Temi explore dating, marriage, and singleness through a Christian lens, grounding their advice in Scripture. The episode covers godly dating practices like praying together, discussing long-term goals, healing from past relationship trauma, and forgiving while learning from scars. They also highlight the strengths of singleness, the importance of joy in Christ, and practical steps to prepar...

Pastor Tola recounts facing smear campaigns, betrayals, and cold receptions during a church expansion, explaining how faith and spiritual maturity helped him remain composed and focused on God's calling. He urges listeners to respond with respect, avoid retaliation, and keep pursuing their destiny, trusting that setbacks are temporary and God will raise others and reward perseverance.

In this episode Pastor Tola shares a personal story about losing savings in a business with his brother, choosing forgiveness over legal action, and trusting God to rebuild. He reflects on how that loss shaped his call to full-time ministry and explains why faith and grace guided his decisions. The conversation also covers family conflicts around his wedding, the importance of focusing on the next...

In this episode Temi and Lanre her co-host recap the life story of Pastor Tola who credits God for his success, answers audience questions about showing compassion to former adversaries, and explains how he stays emotionally steady amid opposition. Pastor Tola  shares examples of church growth after setbacks, highlights his highs and lows, and urges listeners to celebrate the many good stories of...

Join Temi, Lanre and Pastor Tola on Insights with PT as they discuss forgiveness, enduring financial struggles while building a ministry, the importance of mentorship, and living by God’s process. Pastor Tola shares personal stories, practical advice for newly married couples, and encouragement to persevere and prioritize faith.

Hosts Temi and Lanre  sits down with Pastor Tola as he reflects on his upbringing, the generational cycles he refused to repeat, and the prayerful intentionality he uses to build strong relationships with his children and congregation. They discuss practical advice while answering questions on spotting patterns, preparing for the future, overcoming trust issues in marriage, and the importance of f...

Pastor Tola joins Temi and Lanre on Insights with PT to answer audience questions about hearing God, recognizing a spouse called by the Holy Spirit, and practical ways to deepen your relationship with the Holy Spirit. He also shares how he overcame childhood hurt, approached forgiveness and reconciliation with boundaries, and why trusting God's shaping of pain can lead to purpose.

In this special edition of "This Is My Story" on Insights with PT, Pastor Tola recounts a life of being underestimated, his unexpected cancer diagnoses, the surgeries and daily radiation treatments, and how unwavering faith in God helped him overcome both battles. His testimony is a reminder that God’s hand can turn hardship into victory—offering hope and encouragement to anyone facing c...

Pastor Tola shares a deeply personal chapter of his life: starting a church with no outside support, leading a congregation that gave sacrificially, and trusting God through every obstacle. Hear how small gifts, a sold car, relentless faith, and a surprising 100‑year family will led to buying land, finishing a sanctuary, and paying off a mortgage even during the 2009 economic crash. This episode i...

Pastor Tola recounts a time of dramatic loss and divine direction: after a large sum of money was stolen, he sought God and heard a clear call to return to America to start ministry. Despite financial hardship, unexpected provision and encouragement led to the founding of a church, and Pastor Tola reflects on trusting God’s guidance through trials.