IMPACT: Parenting with Perspective

"Send Ben a text" Ready to boost your teen’s health without losing your mind? Tune in for a fun, quick guide to improving mental, emotional, and physical well-being. Discover why a simple walk, gym time, or even a pillow fight can make a difference. Learn the secrets to better sleep, whether it’s sleeping in or taking a nap. Find out why eating protein, fats, and staying hydrated are cru...

"Send Ben a text" In this episode, we 're talking about a powerful, yet simple, habit that can transform your relationship with your teen in just 5 minutes a day.  Discover how practicing gratitude reflection can shift your focus from conflicts and challenges to appreciation and positivity. By taking a few moments each day to acknowledge three things you're grateful for about y...

"Send Ben a text" Join me and guest coach, Lindsay Law as we explore the journey of self-love and acceptance in teenagers. In this insightful episode, we delve into the crucial role of parental support, the distinction between belonging and fitting in, and the empowerment of teens to embrace their authentic selves.  Discover practical insights and valuable tips to foster a positive envir...

"Send Ben a text" When it comes to discovering your teen viewing pornography, approach the situation with humor and confidence rather than panic. Focus on open dialogue and empowerment rather than fear. Encourage your teen to separate pornography from solo sexual activity, potentially breaking the habit. Above all, provide support without coercion, respecting your teen's autonomy an...

"Send Ben a text" In this podcast,  we're tackling the difference between rights and privileges. It's a biggie, especially since many teens (and adults!) are a bit fuzzy on the distinction. I'll share insights from my own family life, like how dinner together is non-negotiable (yep, no skipping meals!), but dessert? That's a privilege. And let's talk about earnin...

"Send Ben a text" Are you tired of the endless battle with your teen over boundaries that seem to go nowhere?  Well, guess what? There's a light at the end of the boundary tunnel, and it's not a freight train of frustration! If you've been struggling to set boundaries effectively or if your teen seems to have a PhD in boundary-breaking, fear not! I've got just the rem...

"Send Ben a text" Today's episode is all about boundaries with your teens. It can be tough, right? But here's the thing: you're not alone in this struggle. I've been hearing from a lot of parents who are feeling overwhelmed by the constant battle of setting boundaries with their teens. And honestly, I get it. It's hard to strike that balance between authority and...

"Send Ben a text" In this episode, we're diving deep into setting boundaries with your teen. We're all about making sure these boundaries aren't about control, but instead, they're all about empowering both you and your teen. Here's what we're gonna cover: No Control Games: We're not here to control our teens. We're here to guide them. Let's u...

"Send Ben a text" Join us in this episode as we dive into the complexities of the victim mentality and how it affects not only us but also our teens. Host Ben Pugh unpacks the intricacies of this common human condition and provides valuable insights into understanding and transcending it. Learn why the victim mentality is a natural part of the human experience and how societal influences...

"Send Ben a text" Here are some key takeaways from todays episode. 1. Admitting Ignorance is Powerful : Acknowledging when we don't have all the answers opens the door to learning and growth in parenting. 2. Unlearn Old Beliefs : Let go of outdated parenting beliefs that no longer serve us or our families. Questioning what's not working is the first step towards positive change...

"Send Ben a text" Hey everyone!  Today  we're diving into how we can build better relationships with our teenagers. I'm thrilled to be here to share some insights I've gathered about connecting with teens. You know, it might surprise you, but even though teens sometimes act like they're not interested, they really do want to connect with us parents! So, I've got...

"Send Ben a text" In today's podcast, we're talking about screen time for teens and what we're getting right. Teens really value their screens—they're not just for fun but also for connecting with friends and learning. And while it's important to be cautious about screen time, we don't need to ban it completely. Setting boundaries together with your teen is...

"Send Ben a text" Hey there! Today, we're diving headfirst into the myths surrounding teen screen time. From the belief that all screen time is inherently bad to the fear-driven data shaping our perceptions, we're unpacking it all. Join us as we challenge the status quo and explore how to navigate the digital landscape with a fresh perspective. Get ready to reframe your thinkin...

"Send Ben a text" In this episode, I'm diving deep into the idea that those imperfect parenting moments we all have aren't actually roadblocks – they're chances for us to strengthen our bond with our teens. I'll share some personal stories and lessons that have really hit home for me, showing just how powerful vulnerability and owning up to our mistakes can be in buil...

"Send Ben a text" In this episode, parenting expert Ben shares invaluable insights on empowering teens in today's challenging world. Drawing from his experience as a foster parent, high school principal, and parenting life coach, Ben outlines six simple yet powerful steps to help parents foster independence, resilience, and confidence in their teens. From finding mentors to engaging...

"Send Ben a text" 5 Key Takeaways from my conversation Ashley Supporting Teen Interests: As parents, we should really get behind our teens' passions, even if they don't fit the typical school mold. It's about encouraging what they love and finding ways to make learning meaningful for them. Valuable Skills Outside School: Look at what happened with Ashley's son! He fou...

"Send Ben a text"  I'm super excited about to continue talking about How to help your teen when they hate school. We'll discuss how to shift from the blame game to empowerment, have meaningful conversations, and explore alternatives to traditional education. Trust me, you don't want to miss the insights and practical tips I've got lined up for you. Tune in and let&apo...

"Send Ben a text" Join me on a journey of redefining success for teens in today's world.  In this podcast, we debunk myths about school, explore alternative paths beyond college, and empower teens to thrive.  Let's challenge the status quo, break free from blame, and create an educational experience that truly prepares our teens for a successful future.  It's time to revol...

"Send Ben a text" 🎙️ Ready to break free from outdated parenting patterns?  If your relationship with your teen feels like a struggle, it might be time to reprogram your parenting mindset. 🚀 Key Steps to Parenting Transformation: 1️⃣ Don't Be Ashamed: Learn why there's no need to feel ashamed about your old parenting programming. Discover how gratitude and acceptance can pave...

"Send Ben a text" 🚀 Ready to make 2024 the year you actually achieve your parenting goals? Join Ben in this high-energy episode, as he reveals the secrets to becoming part of the 10% who make their New Year's goals a reality. 🎙️ Episode Insights: 1️⃣ Focus on Habits, Not Just Goals: Dive into the unconventional wisdom of prioritizing habits over big future goals. Learn how identify...

"Send Ben a text" 🎙️ Unlock a Better Connection with Your Teen in 2024! 🌟 Join Ben in our latest episode. Dive into quick, impactful mindset shifts to supercharge your parenting journey. Discover why seeing your teen as amazing and capable, finding joy in parenting, and becoming the change can make 2024 the best year yet. Tune in now for a dose of inspiration and practical tips! 🚀 CLIC...

"Send Ben a text" In this episode, I share three powerful secrets to help parents deal with the common concern of teenagers who seem to hate or want nothing to do with them. By focusing on ourselves, letting go of control, and being the parent of our dreams, we can improve our relationship with our teenager. I also provide two bonus secrets, understanding our teenager's values and n...

"Send Ben a text" In this podcast episode, we dive into the importance of building a strong connection with your teenager, even if they're not meeting your expectations. We chat about how teenagers actually want their parents to connect with them, and how letting go of expectations and attachments to desired outcomes can actually help you connect better with your teen. We also discu...

"Send Ben a text" Today we're discussing the importance of building holiday traditions with your teenagers. Traditions convey values, create connection, and bring joy. To create holiday traditions with teens you need to make it fun, keep it simple, and let the teen lead.  Also, make the tradition meaningful and considering traditions from different families. Set your intention to cr...

"Send Ben a text" In this episode of the Impact Parenting with Perspective podcast, I interview guest Jesse LeBeau, a youth speaker who shares his experiences and delivers messages about being an underdog, overcoming obstacles, and improving attitude and life. Jesse's passion for basketball led him to pursue a career in commercials, movies, and TV shows, but he realized that his pur...