IMPACT: Parenting with Perspective

"Send Ben a text" Life with teens is like a constantly turning wheel - sometimes you're on top, sometimes you're underneath. In this powerful episode, learn how to use these natural ups and downs to become a better parent. You'll discover:  • Why some moments with your teen feel easy while others feel impossible  • How to use the good moments to prepare for the challenging...

"Send Ben a text" Want to become a better parent? Just like athletes watch game tapes to improve, parents can look back at their parenting moments to get better too! In this eye-opening episode, we'll introduce you to a powerful tool called the 'parent debrief.' We'll explore:  • What a parent debrief is and why every parent needs one  • Two different ways to do a deb...

"Send Ben a text" Think of your parenting style like a thermostat - it's set to run at a certain temperature no matter what. In this eye-opening episode, we explore how these 'parenting presets' work and, more importantly, how to change them. We'll cover:  • What parenting presets are (using a simple thermostat example)  • How to spot your own parenting patterns  • Fo...

"Send Ben a text" Ever told someone 'I know, I know' when they try to help you? We all do it - but this simple phrase might be stopping us from becoming better parents. In this eye-opening episode, we talk about:  • What happens when we think we already know everything  • How to spot when we're stuck in the 'I know' trap  • Why being curious is better than being...

"Send Ben a text" In this eye-opening episode, we dive deep into the pervasive blame culture and its detrimental effects on personal growth and relationships. Through two compelling football stories, we explore how blame, complaining, and making excuses can lead to a disempowering victim mentality. Key points covered: The impact of blame culture on team dynamics and personal performance...

"Send Ben a text" In this eye-opening episode, Ben introduces the game-changing book "Leadership and Self-Deception" and explains why it's his top recommendation for parents struggling with their teens. Discover: Why this book is a must-read for anyone seeking to improve family relationships The concept of "being in the box" and how it affects your interactions w...

"Send Ben a text" In this empowering episode, Ben challenges the widespread belief that there's a magical, external solution to parenting struggles. Discover why you already possess the wisdom and strength to be the parent your teen needs. Learn about: The societal conditioning that leads parents to seek external solutions Why relying on "experts" can sometimes undermine y...

"Send Ben a text" In this eye-opening episode, Ben, an experienced parenting coach, challenges the common parental instinct to shield teens from failure. Discover why allowing your teen to experience setbacks is crucial for their personal growth and future success. Learn about: The societal pressures driving parents to protect teens from failure Why failure is a vital component in develo...

"Send Ben a text" Are you struggling to connect with your teenager? In this insightful episode, Ben, an experienced parenting coach, tackles the widespread issue of parent-teen disconnection and offers a transformative approach to rebuilding your relationship. Discover why the disconnect between parents and teens is so common and learn about: The societal and cultural factors contributin...

"Send Ben a text" Are you caught in the trap of blaming your teen for your parenting struggles? In this eye-opening episode, Ben, an experienced parenting coach, challenges the common myth that your teen's behavior is responsible for how you parent. Discover why this belief is not only disempowering but also prevents you from becoming the parent you aspire to be. In this episode, yo...

"Send Ben a text" Are you frustrated by parenting advice that promises to make your teen obey or trust you? In this eye-opening episode, Ben, a former foster parent and experienced coach, challenges the myth of teen control and offers a transformative perspective on parenting. Discover why trying to control your teen is counterproductive and learn about: The T-Chart of Control: A simple...

"Send Ben a text" Are you a parent struggling to set effective boundaries with your teenager? In this eye-opening podcast, Ben, a former high school principal and experienced parent coach, reveals how you can transform your approach to boundaries and consequences, leading to a more harmonious relationship with your teen. Ben introduces a powerful tool called The Consequence Quadrant, whi...

"Send Ben a text" Are you feeling like you're on the "struggle bus" with your teenager? You're not alone. In this eye-opening episode, we dive deep into the single most significant factor causing friction between parents and teens worldwide. Drawing from my experience coaching parents across five continents, I reveal why traditional parenting advice often misses the m...

"Send Ben a text" As the school year kicks off, are you and your teen feeling overwhelmed? In this episode, we're uncovering 7 little-known secrets that can transform your back-to-school experience. Drawing from years of experience as a parent, foster parent, and former high school principal, I'm sharing insights that have helped countless teens and families navigate the challe...

"Send Ben a text" In this powerful episode rewind, we dive into ten game-changing daily habits that can revolutionize your parenting approach and strengthen your bond with your teenager. These practical, actionable strategies will help you navigate the challenges of raising teens with confidence and purpose. We'll explore: Setting daily intentions to guide your parenting Committing...

"Send Ben a text" In this eye-opening episode, we challenge the common parenting instinct to fix, change, or control our teens. Instead, we explore a transformative approach that puts the power of change right where it belongs - with you. We'll dive into: • Why trying to fix others, especially your teen, backfires • The cultural trap of attempting to control others • How shifting yo...

"Send Ben a text" In this thought-provoking episode, we challenge common misconceptions about trauma and empower you to take control of your healing journey. Discover why there's no need for 'trauma police' and how understanding trauma as programming can be a game-changer. We'll explore: • The personal nature of trauma and why comparisons are futile • Two crucial aspe...

"Send Ben a text" This week, we're turning back the clock to bring you one of our most beloved episodes. Get ready to revisit a fan favorite that had everyone talking! Are You Caught in the Parent Trap? Discover the hidden patterns that are keeping you stuck—and how to break free. Take this quick (and eye-opening) quiz to uncover which common parenting trap you’re falling into with...

"Send Ben a text" Join us as we dive deep into the often misunderstood world of attachment disorders. In this eye-opening episode, we'll separate fact from fiction and explore the real impact of attachment issues on both teens and parents. Discover why healing your own wounds is crucial before attempting to address your teen's challenges. Learn practical strategies to navigate...

"Send Ben a text" Are you a parent who feels like you're constantly overcomplicating things when it comes to raising your teenager? In this insightful podcast episode, Ben, a parenting expert and coach, shares his perspective on how to simplify your approach by focusing on three key areas: mindset, skillset, and habits. Ben explains that parents often fall into the trap of creating...

"Send Ben a text" Are you finding yourself at your wit's end with your teenage child? Do their actions and behaviors push you to the brink of frustration and disappointment? If you've ever thought, "I can't stand my teen," then this podcast episode is for you. In this raw and honest conversation, Ben, a parent and expert in emotional intelligence, shares his pers...

"Send Ben a text" Are you ready to make this summer the most unforgettable one yet for you and your teen? In this exciting episode, join Ben as he shares his top tips and strategies for creating a summer filled with laughter, adventure, and bonding experiences that will leave a lasting impact on your teen's life. Discover the power of a fun summer and how it can help your teen build...

"Send Ben a text" Are you unintentionally modeling behaviors that may be holding your teen back? In this eye-opening episode of the podcast, Ben Pugh reveals the secret most parents miss when it comes to influencing their teenagers: your teen may not be listening to you, but they are watching you! Discover the five crucial areas where your actions speak louder than words, and learn how t...

"Send Ben a text" 🙋‍♀️ Ready for the second part of our game-changing series on what impactful parents of teens do differently? In this episode, we're diving into three more powerful strategies that will transform your parenting journey! 🌟 First up, these parents know how to focus on what they CAN control, instead of stressing about what they CAN'T. 🎯 They use a simple but e...

"Send Ben a text" Are you ready to elevate your parenting game? 🚀 Well, buckle up, because we've got a two-part series that's going to introduce you to a whole new way of thinking about parenting! In this episode, we'll unveil four of the seven things that parents who make a real impact do differently. From finding joy in unexpected places to prioritizing something that m...