Thanks For Your Concern

We’ve all been given  questionable  advice, but some of it? Truly unhinged. This week, Berenice and Ella break down the worst advice they’ve ever received—from being told these are “the best years of your life” (LIES) to trusting a degree program to fully prepare them for the workforce. They also unpack the unsolicited “relationship wisdom” that should’ve been left in the drafts. Tune in for laugh...

Life is all about the long game, and the girls are here to remind you that temporary discomfort is better than long-term angst. Whether it’s making a big career move, ditching the pressure of New Year’s resolutions, or deciding if a relationship is worth the effort—some things just aren’t end game (and that’s okay!). They’re also breaking down the “long con” of friendships—why closeness ebbs and f...

This week, the girls are giving the villains their flowers and diving into the best origin stories—both fictional and real. From being cheated on in the 6th grade to moms who didn’t give enough hugs, everyone’s got their own villain era. They’re talking iconic takedown of marriages, queen-level hustle, and commitment to the plan. Plus, the girls reflect on perspective: are you the hero, or are you...

This week, the girls are getting personal and diving into the pivotal moments that shaped them into who they are today. From eye-opening travels to Guatemala and Mexico to unforgettable lessons learned in the first corporate job review, they reflect on how these experiences molded their perspectives. Expect stories about blending in, thriving in unexpected situations (like a frat basement apartmen...

In this hilarious and reflective episode, the girls are diving into all the things they’ve had a change of heart about. From retracting questionable “I love yous” to rethinking plastic surgery and dating rosters, it’s all about growth and seeing things in a new light. They also discuss why some ex stories should stay in the archives and how not to judge reactions when you don’t know the full story...

What’s in, what’s out, and what’s  definitely  coming in 2025? This week, the girls dive into their bold predictions and trends for the year ahead. From “nuance” being the word on everyone’s lips to the rise of the wirkin’ (aka the Walmart Birkin), and even the era of Pre-Recession Core—2025 is about to get  interesting . They also chat about setting firmer boundaries, owning the narrative of your...

New year, new updates, and a whole new vibe for 2025! This episode is all about becoming the best version of yourself, reflecting on the surprises and wins of 2024, and stepping into the new year with upgraded habits and fresh energy. From celebrating personal growth to setting realistic goals for the year ahead, this episode will have you feeling inspired and ready to thrive. Join the conversatio...

The holidays are here, and so are the hometown hookups! This week, the Thanks for Your Concern duo is spilling the tea on holiday icks, signs someone might not be worth the hype, and things they’ve learned now that they’re 30. Tune in for laughs, lessons, and all the vibes. Follow along for more fun on IG: @thanks4urconcern @berenicediazm @ellaltudor, TikTok: @thanks4yourconcern @berenicediazm @el...

It’s Winter Arc season, and the Thanks for Your Concern duo is here to guide you through three months of personal growth before the new year! They’re diving into mental health routines (because we all need an anti-depressy moment), physical goal-setting hacks, and spiritual wellness tips—like grounding yourself in nature or vibing with a heron (yes, really). Tune in for honest reflections, goal re...

In this episode of  Thanks for Your Concern , Ella and Berenice are diving into their all-time favorite motivational quotes that keep them pushing forward and leveling up. From the iconic "I'm too pretty for this" mindset to the empowering "Pussy up!" philosophy, the hosts unpack the deeper meaning behind these quotes and how they fuel confidence, resilience, and self-love. Plu...

Be Careful What You Wish For!  Sometimes the universe delivers exactly what you asked for—but not in the way you imagined. You wanted strength? Here’s a challenge. You dreamed of a specific career path? Here’s a different route that aligns with your values. This week, the hosts dive into how detaching from  outcomes  and focusing on what you  truly  want can open unexpected doors. Spoiler: It’s no...

This week, it’s Accountability SZN, and the hosts are here to spill some  hard truths . Are you the common denominator in your failed relationships? Are your toxic patterns holding you back? They dive into cleaning up your side of the street, breaking out of old cycles, and owning your peace. Plus, they chat about why it’s okay to acknowledge where your parents fell short—but now it’s on you to pu...

In this episode, the hosts dive into the importance of expecting  more  – whether it's from family, significant others, or even in your career. From wanting more support from your parents to raising the bar in relationships and refusing to settle for a paycheck-only job, they talk about why it's okay (and healthy!) to hold people, and yourself, to higher standards. Tune in for some laughs,...

In this episode, Ella and Berenice dive into the things they’d totally try again and the lessons from life’s “been there, done that” moments. From hopping on a plane with zero itinerary to picking up a hobby just to realize it’s  not  the one, they’re all about embracing happy accidents and unexpected joys. Plus, they reflect on those wild child days, maxed-out credit cards, and mistakes that were...

In this  spook-tacular  episode, Ella and Berenice get into the Halloween spirit with a super spooky special! They chat about their favorite costumes, the ultimate debate between spooky cute vs. spooky scary, and share spine-tingling dating stories that’ll have you double-checking your dating app matches. Plus, with spooky election season creeping in, they discuss the chills and thrills of voting...

Are you in your unbothered era, or are you secretly  bothered  by all the BS? In this episode, we’re diving into the art of minding your own business and embracing the unbothered lifestyle—until something pulls you back in. From prioritizing yourself to realizing that it's okay to care sometimes, this conversation is packed with laughs, reflections, and relatable moments. Follow us on IG: @tha...

In this episode, Ella and Berenice tackle the hilarious reality of  running out of time —literally and figuratively. From funny moments like scrambling to get ready in 30 minutes flat, to realizing you're in your 30s and still trying to figure it all out, the pressure is on! Whether it’s a friend’s boyfriend thinking they’re just "playing," or when your boyfriend can’t quite keep up wi...

In this episode, Berenice and Ella dive into the big questions that shape your life, relationships, and everything in between! They’re talking about  dreams , goals , and what you  really  want from love, life, and even your ideal partner. With fun, reflective questions to ask yourself and the people you date, this episode will have you rethinking everything from your five-year plan to what kind o...

In this episode, Berenice and Ella take you on an  Odyssey of Recollection , where they explore how we romanticize people, memories, and even the toughest situations. From holding onto selective good memories of exes (even when things were a disaster) to realizing that sometimes your brain sugarcoats the past to protect you from the trauma, they dive deep into how and why we choose to remember thi...

In this episode, Berenice and Ella dive headfirst into the chaotic world of dating—this time with a focus on using your brain, not your heart (or other parts). From navigating the infamous "sauce" to figuring out if you're on cloud nine or just delusional, the girls break down dating traps like emotional attachments, red flags, and knowing when it's time to let go. It's all abo...

Get ready for a hilarious deep dive into the "concepts of a plan" era of life! This week, Ella and Berenice chat about dating dudes with  big  ideas but no follow-through, chaotic travel plans, and starting hobbies that might just fizzle out. From failed camping trips to spur-of-the-moment life decisions, it's all about embracing the journey—even when it's just a concept. Tune in f...

In this episode, Ella and Berenice take on their own version of the infamous Pepe Silvia conspiracy from It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia! Inspired by the chaos and confusion of Charlie’s mailroom breakdown, the girls dive into hilarious stories of piecing together the truth from shady exes, bad vibes, and all-around messy situations. From finding wallets to deciphering cryptic texts, it’s li...

In this episode of  Thanks for Your Concern , Ella and Berenice talk about finding that perfect fit in all aspects of life—whether it's a relationship, career, or hobby. They discuss the importance of non-negotiables, boundaries, and understanding when something just isn't working. Tune in as they remind us that it's okay to let go of things that don't bring joy and to be patient w...

In this episode of  Thanks for Your Concern , Ella and Berenice are channeling their inner mindfulness with a twist of demure, inspired by @JoolsLeBron. They dive into the world of ballroom shout-outs, trans rights, and the mindful movement, but don’t get it twisted—open-toed sandals in the office and billionaires? That’s where the demure vibes hit a snag. Tune in for a blend of grace and the unhi...

In this episode of  Thanks For Your Concern , Berenice and Ella are celebrating the magical moment when their frontal lobes are finally fully developed! 🧠✨ They're feeling calmer, more rational, but also realizing that being a full-blown adult comes with higher stakes (and time flying by way too fast). They dive into healing emotional wounds, embracing spirituality, and navigating friendship...