Love On Command

In this powerful Porch Conversation with CJ, I sit down with my son as he shares his wisdom on love, energy, timelines, manifestation, and Awakening the God Within. CJ explains how our thoughts, beliefs, emotions, and environment can shape the reality we experience — especially when it comes to love. We talk about love blocks, money blocks, mirror manifestation, the golden light bubble, and why hi...

In this Porch Conversation with CJ , we're having a real, honest conversation about something most people don't fully understand— love blocks. I asked CJ a question that so many women are silently struggling with: Why is it so hard to love yourself when you weren't loved growing up? And what he shared… changes everything. Together, we break down how your thoughts, behaviors, and beliefs create a s...

In this episode, CJ and I have a deep and thought-provoking conversation about reality, energy, and the power of your belief system. We explore how the way you think and what you believe shapes the life you experience, especially when it comes to love and relationships. I share how many successful women become so used to doing everything on their own that it starts to block the very connection the...

In this episode of Love on Command: Porch Conversations with CJ , we are having one of the most fascinating conversations yet. We talk about reincarnation, the purpose of life, soulmates, and why so many people feel stuck, unhappy, or blocked from the love and life they truly want. CJ shares such a unique perspective on what it means to be here in this human experience. We talk about life as if yo...

In this powerful episode of Love on Command , I sit down with CJ for a raw, eye-opening conversation about what really keeps people stuck in life, love, and the patterns they keep repeating. This is the kind of conversation that makes you stop, reflect, and look at yourself differently. Together, we explore the deeper truth behind identity, pain, visibility, self-worth, and what it actually takes...

This episode is for the woman who feels like she's been doing everything right… and still ends up in the wrong situations in love. Let me talk to you for real—because a lot of what you've been through, you didn't choose. You didn't choose the environment that made you question your worth. You didn't choose the criticism, the emotional absence, or the instability that shaped how you learned to rece...

Ladies, let's talk about something real — there is a science to attraction. If you start dating from a place of loneliness, desperation, or just wanting someone, you're already out of alignment with the kind of love you say you want. The way you start is usually the way you finish. In this episode, I'm breaking down the three steps to mastering ethical seduction and how your feminine energy natura...

Beautiful Boss Divas… In today's episode, I'm breaking down something that every woman needs to understand if she desires lasting, powerful love. Too many women are looking at relationships from the outside and creating fantasies in their minds about what they think love should look like. We put couples on pedestals. We attach our hope to images. And when things fall apart, we internalize fear. Bu...

In today's episode of Love on Command , it gets REAL—and honestly, it's a special one. I'm Shay, your Love Diva , and today I'm sitting down with Jamil Damji —and let me tell you… this episode is a FIRST. Because Jamil isn't just a guest… he's the fiancé of one of my clients , and he is living proof of what happens when a woman is willing to do the inner work and call in real love the right way. W...

Ladies… let's be honest. Most women are out here dating completely backwards. You're asking yourself, "How do I get him to like me?" or "How do I finally find my person?" —but what if I told you the real answer isn't more dating… it's understanding the science. Because love is not just magic. Love is biology. Love is predictable. And when you understand what's happening biochemically in the attrac...

Ladies, we need to talk. If you are successful in your career, disciplined in your life, and powerful in every room you walk into—but somehow keep attracting emotionally unavailable, narcissistic, or weak men—this episode is for you. In this conversation, I'm breaking down the real reason dating keeps hurting you, and it has nothing to do with you being broken. It's about your patterns , your stra...

There are a lot of Build-A-Bears in this world. Loud men. Raggedy men. Men who never learned how to stand on their own two feet because they're still emotionally nursing from their mother. And yet… there are still GOOD men here. Masculine men. Provider men. Men who want to lead, protect, and commit. So why do so many women keep attracting the wrong ones? In this episode, I speak directly to the wo...

In this episode, I'm breaking down the top dating mistakes that keep powerful, intelligent women stuck in cycles of disappointment instead of in the arms of a high-value man who can truly love their soul . I'm going to lovingly—but directly—call out the patterns that sabotage love, including: Believing a man's words instead of his actions Moving too fast with the wrong man and skipping proper vett...

How many of you feel like the clock is ticking? You want marriage. You want a family. You want children. And yet, when you look around at the dating pool, you feel the pressure of time and the frustration of settling for less than you deserve. In this episode, I speak directly to the women who come to me every single day — successful, beautiful, accomplished women who are tired of attracting emoti...

Ma'am… we need to have a grown conversation. In this episode, I'm breaking down something most people don't want to talk about—because it's not "popular," it's not trendy, and it doesn't sound like the feel-good advice floating around online. But it might be the information that saves you. I'm Shay—your Love Diva. I'm a master's certified love strategist, and yes, I'm also a woman of science. I gr...

Hey my loves, it's Shay, your Love Diva , and today we're getting into something real — the Pull Away Phase. You know that moment when everything feels good, the connection is growing, and then boom… they start acting different. Less calls, slower texts, more distance, and you're sitting there trying not to overthink yourself into a stress nap. In this episode, I'm teaching you what the pull away...

In this episode, I'm going to share some science that might surprise you. I break down why your body may not fully "move on" from every man you sleep with, and what research suggests about how past partners could leave biological effects that last longer than we think. I explain: the fly study that brought back the idea of telegony what microchimerism is (male cells staying in a woman's body for y...

Ladies, listen… in today's episode, I'm going to break down something that most women feel , but can't quite put into words. The dating atmosphere has changed — dramatically. Men aren't showing up in their masculine anymore. A lot of them are operating way too far in their feminine energy, and it is stressing women out. I'm going to tell you exactly why this is happening , how we accidentally help...

Hey beautiful Diva, it's your girl Shay, your Love Diva — and in this episode, I'm breaking down why you keep attracting the same kind of man, the same heartbreak, the same story… even after all the therapy, all the journaling, all the healing work. I'm gonna show you how your brain has been trained—just like a ski path that's been carved in the snow—causing you to repeat the same patterns over an...

Let's be honest, babe — how many times have you said, "I just didn't feel the connection," and walked away from someone who could've actually been good for you? Today, we're going to break that pattern — because that "chemistry" you keep chasing? It's not connection. It's your trauma calling. In this episode, we're diving deep into the science and psychology of attraction — what really happens in...

In this episode, we dive deep into the masculine journey — from the playful Knight who's still exploring life, to the Prince who's building his empire, and finally, the King who's ready to love and lead with purpose. You'll learn how to recognize which phase a man is in, why so many women get stuck trying to build with men who aren't yet ready, and how to align your energy with a partner who's pre...

In this episode, we dive deep into the masculine journey — from the playful Knight who's still exploring life, to the Prince who's building his empire, and finally, the King who's ready to love and lead with purpose. You'll learn how to recognize which phase a man is in, why so many women get stuck trying to build with men who aren't yet ready, and how to align your energy with a partner who's pre...

Ma'am, let's be real for a second — have you ever caught yourself falling for a man you  knew wasn't good for you, but something about him just pulled you in anyway? You're not crazy, and it's not because you don't know better — it's because your brain chemistry has been tricking you. In this episode, I'm breaking down the real reason why you keep attracting men who can't meet you at your level. W...

Ladies, let's talk truth. You don't have to settle. You don't have to reward a man just for being a "good guy." That's baseline. In this episode, I'm breaking down the difference between the Build-a-Bear — the man you have to fix, motivate, and carry — and the Elite Man, who's already in his purpose, ready to pour into your life, and equipped to lead, love, and protect you. I'm sharing how I went...

What if finding the love you deserve isn't about luck, but about science and strategy? In this episode, I reveal how a dating experiment with over 100 dates and 4,000 interviews led me to uncover the step-by-step formula for attracting elite, high-value men. You'll hear the truth about why so many successful women settle for less, how hidden love blocks keep you stuck in painful patterns, and the...