Love On Command

Have you been told to "just be yourself" and wait for the right person—yet you continue attracting the same painful relationship patterns? In this episode of Porch Conversation with CJ , we explore why asking for help is not a weakness, why popular dating advice often tells you what you want to hear instead of what you need to heal, and how your unresolved wounds influence the people you attract....

Have you built success in every area of your life—yet still struggle to receive the love, support, and connection you deeply desire? In this episode of Porch Conversation with CJ , CJ and I explore the spiritual roots of love blocks and the Ruby archetype: the accomplished woman who learned that she must do everything by herself. Her independence may have helped her build an empire, but the same s...

Have you ever wondered whether your soul chose your parents, family, and life lessons before you entered this world? In this episode of Porch Conversation with CJ , CJ and I continue answering your questions about the soul's journey before birth. We explore CJ's personal spiritual beliefs about pregnancy, different lifetimes, choosing parents, soul tribes, intuitive gifts, and why certain souls ma...

Have you ever wondered whether children choose their parents before birth—or why some children seem to remember what happened before they entered their physical bodies? In this episode of Porch Conversation with CJ , CJ and I answer questions inspired by his story about choosing me to be his mother. We explore his personal spiritual beliefs about pre-birth memories, soul connections, parent select...

Have you been protecting your heart from pain without realizing that the same wall may also be blocking love? In this episode of Porch Conversation with CJ , CJ and I explore spiritual identity, personal healing, energy, manifestation, and what it means to reconnect with the powerful version of yourself beneath your wounds. We discuss why life's challenges may be opportunities for growth and why t...

What if your child already carries a unique gift—and your own healing determines whether they feel safe enough to express it? In this episode of Porch Conversation with CJ , CJ and I explore past-life memories, spiritual gifts, intuitive energy, parenting, self-belief, and the power every child carries within them. CJ shares why certain technology felt instantly familiar to him and what he believe...

What if fear, love blocks, and even the family you were born into are all part of your soul's journey toward growth? In this episode of Porch Conversation with CJ , CJ and I explore what it takes to change your life, why love and money blocks may be connected, and how fear can keep you trapped inside an illusion. We also have a deeply spiritual conversation about God, divine protection, death, mot...

Are the people, thoughts, and beliefs surrounding you shaping the love and life you are creating without you even realizing it? In this episode of Porch Conversation with CJ , CJ and I explore the connection between your thoughts, energy, relationships, personal growth, and spiritual beliefs. We discuss how the voices you listen to can influence your expectations, why "I am" statements are powerfu...

Have you ever wondered whether the pain we carry in life can affect our families—and even our spiritual journey after death? In this episode of Porch Conversation with CJ , CJ and I explore chakra alignment, healthy love, God, grief, the afterlife, and generational healing. We discuss how each chakra may influence your ability to feel safe, stand in your power, speak your truth, trust your intuiti...

Have you spent your life seeing yourself through other people's judgments instead of recognizing your true worth? In this episode of Porch Conversation with CJ , CJ and I explore how masculine and feminine energy influence dating, attraction, and emotional well-being. We discuss why successful women often overperform in relationships, how childhood conditioning shapes the way you see yourself, and...

What if the very heartbreak you've been trying to avoid is actually the doorway to the life and love you've been praying for? In this deeply thought-provoking conversation, CJ and I explore one of the greatest paradoxes of life: sometimes the greatest blessings are born from our greatest pain. We discuss why reaching the moment of saying, "I'm done," can become the turning point that shifts your e...

In this episode of Love on Command: Porch Conversation with CJ , I sit down with CJ for one of our deepest conversations yet about why some people keep attracting painful relationships while others experience healthy, lasting love. Together, we explore the connection between the way you treat yourself and the relationships you attract. We talk about how childhood experiences shape your subconsciou...

There comes a point in life where you have to decide what is truly worth your energy. For years, I've watched incredible women spend their hearts trying to change people who were never willing to change. The truth is, sometimes the greatest act of self-love is knowing when to walk away—and knowing when something is truly worth fighting for. In this episode, I sit down with my son, Mensa Genius CJ,...

So many people think the battle is happening outside of them. It's not. The greatest battle you'll ever fight is the one between your higher self and your fear. In this Porch Conversation with CJ , we dive into one of the most eye-opening conversations we've ever had. We talk about the voice that keeps you stuck, why fear sounds so convincing, how your daily decisions shape your future, and what i...

Welcome back to Love on Command! If you're a successful, accomplished woman who has mastered your career but still feels like dating elite, marriage-minded men is harder than building your business, this episode is for you. For years, I've been searching for an etiquette expert who truly understands the world high-achieving women navigate, and I finally found her. In this episode, I'm joined by El...

In today's Porch Conversation with CJ , we're diving into one of the biggest misconceptions about money, love, relationships, and personal growth. Does the Bible really say money is the root of all evil? Why do so many successful women wait until they're in pain before they seek guidance in love? Is marriage something we should prepare for before we ever say "I do"? And how can parents nurture the...

Have you ever experienced something that couldn't be explained... but you knew it changed your life forever? In this episode of Porch Conversation with CJ , CJ and I have one of our deepest conversations yet. We explore miracles, healing, faith, intuition, and what it really means to step into the power God has placed within each of us. I share some of the most personal moments of my journey—inclu...

What if the reason love, money, or abundance hasn't arrived yet is not because it is not coming… but because the water has not turned on yet? In this powerful Porch Conversation with CJ, we talk about patience, manifestation, surrender, money, love, receiving, and becoming prepared for the life you are asking God to give you. CJ uses the metaphor of a water slide to explain why forcing the outcome...

What if the thing that broke your heart was actually the thing that set you free? In this episode of Porch Conversation with CJ , CJ and I explore one of the most powerful lessons in life: your perspective determines your reality. Most people spend their lives focused on what's missing, what's wrong, and what they've lost. But what if every setback contains a blessing? What if rejection is protect...

What if the very qualities that helped you build your success are also the things keeping you exhausted, overwhelmed, and disconnected from love? In this episode of Love on Command , I sit down with Dr. Michelle Brown , enterprise-wide business strategist, leadership consultant, author, and former SWAT operator, to have a powerful conversation about what happens when ambitious women become trapped...

I believe one of the greatest misunderstandings in personal growth is that people think they're searching for love when they're actually protecting themselves from it. In this powerful Porch Conversation with CJ, we dive deep into what I've spent years teaching women around the world: the very thing you desire most may be the very thing you're unconsciously blocking. CJ shares profound wisdom on c...

What if the biggest thing blocking you from love, abundance, and happiness isn't what happened to you... but the identity you've built around it? In this powerful Porch Conversation with CJ, we explore childhood programming, love blocks, manifestation, quantum entanglement, self-worth, trauma, and why some people remain trapped in cycles of pain while others completely transform their lives. CJ sh...

What if the relationships you attract are not random… but reflections of the frequency you're vibrating at? In this deeply powerful Porch Conversation with CJ, we explore prayer, manifestation, love blocks, emotional pain, trauma, vibrational frequency, and the spiritual patterns that influence love, abundance, and healing. One of the most profound things CJ said: "Prayer doesn't work with what yo...

What if the reason you haven't manifested the love, money, or life you desire… isn't because it's unavailable to you? What if it's because you haven't yet become the version of yourself who can fully hold it? In this deeply powerful Porch Conversation with CJ, my son CJ and I talk about lucid dreaming, alternate realities, meditation, manifestation, feminine energy, love blocks, and why so many su...

In this Porch Conversation with CJ, I share one of the biggest discoveries that changed the way I understand love, heartbreak, healing, and the feminine nervous system. For years, women have been told they're "too much," "too emotional," "too guarded," or "too broken" to receive healthy love. But what if the issue isn't weakness… What if the pain of heartbreak, rejection, abandonment, and emotiona...