High Level Wife Podcast with Chelsey Holm

Send us Fan Mail God gave you emotions, but He never intended them to lead your life. Learn how to acknowledge your feelings without allowing them to determine your direction. Support the show Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coach " I lead Christian wives  to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the enemy has stolen. To live by God’s design in marriage through right order, repentance...

Send us Fan Mail Many marriage struggles aren’t really marriage problems- they’re worship problems. Discover why putting Christ first changes everything else. Support the show Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coach " I lead Christian wives  to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the enemy has stolen. To live by God’s design in marriage through right order, repentance & radical obe...

Send us Fan Mail Healing begins with honesty. In this Espresso Shot, learn why bringing hidden wounds into the light is the first step toward the transformation God desires. Support the show Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coach " I lead Christian wives  to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the enemy has stolen. To live by God’s design in marriage through right order, repentance &a...

Send us Fan Mail Do you know the difference between the voice of the Holy Spirit and the voice of shame? Discover how conviction leads to freedom while condemnation keeps you stuck. Support the show Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coach " I lead Christian wives  to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the enemy has stolen. To live by God’s design in marriage through right order, repen...

Send us Fan Mail What if your frustration is actually revealing something deeper? In this episode, we’ll uncover how unmet expectations often point to areas where God is inviting us to surrender. Support the show Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coach " I lead Christian wives  to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the enemy has stolen. To live by God’s design in marriage through righ...

Send us Fan Mail Most conflict doesn’t begin with facts- it begins with assumptions. Learn how choosing curiosity over conclusions can transform your marriage and strengthen your relationships. Support the show Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coach " I lead Christian wives  to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the enemy has stolen. To live by God’s design in marriage through right...

Send us Fan Mail Are you trying to fix behaviors while missing the heart? In this quick Espresso Shot (5 min or less!), discover why lasting transformation starts at the root, not the fruit, and how God changes us from the inside out. Support the show Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coach " I lead Christian wives  to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the enemy has stolen. To live b...

Send us Fan Mail What does it really mean to be a tender wife? Our culture often equates tenderness with weakness, passivity, or being easily hurt. But the Bible paints a completely different picture. A tender heart is one that remains soft before God, compassionate toward others, and responsive to the Holy Spirit—even in a hard world. In this episode, we’ll explore the biblical meaning of tendern...

Send us Fan Mail Right Order. Repentance. Mission. Core values. Daily, weekly, and monthly disciplines, rhythms, and habits.  This is how a high level family does it God’s way and flourishes forward together!  Support the show Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coach " I lead Christian wives  to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the enemy has stolen. To live by God’s design in marriag...

Send us Fan Mail Don’t know how to pray or what to pray? This episode dives into exactly how I use God’s own written word to form and guide my prayers back to Him. It’s so simple but so powerful!  Support the show Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coach " I lead Christian wives  to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the enemy has stolen. To live by God’s design in marriage through rig...

Send us Fan Mail God corrected us and redirected us onto a path that has and is requiring bold, audacious faith and radical obedience to Him.  Come listen as I throw the curtains wide open to our household and see God work!  Support the show Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coach " I lead Christian wives  to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the enemy has stolen. To live by God’s de...

Send us Fan Mail What if the goal of your marriage isn't simply a better relationship—but becoming more like Jesus? In this final episode, we bring the entire series together by looking at the heart of biblical marriage: daily surrender. Through John 3:30, Galatians 2:20, and the Gospel, you'll discover that flourishing isn't found in demanding more from your spouse but in giving mo...

Send us Fan Mail Have you unknowingly asked your spouse to do what only God can do? In this episode, we uncover one of the greatest obstacles to intimacy: expecting our spouse to become our source of peace, security, identity, or worth. Marriage is a beautiful gift from God, but it makes a terrible god. Discover how putting Christ back on the throne frees you to delight in your spouse instead of d...

Send us Fan Mail Who goes first in marriage? The Gospel has already answered that question. Jesus did. In this practical episode, we'll explore why waiting keeps marriages stuck, how Christ's pursuit of us frees us to pursue our spouse without keeping score, and what it looks like to love first—not because our spouse deserves it, but because Christ first loved us. Healthy marriages aren&...

Send us Fan Mail Have we reduced intimacy to something far smaller than God intended? In this episode, we dive into the biblical meaning of becoming "one flesh" by unpacking the rich Hebrew and Greek words behind God's design for marriage. You'll discover that intimacy is far more than physical—it is covenant, unity, faithfulness, and being fully known. When we understand God&a...

Send us Fan Mail Why is it so hard to fully trust and open your heart in marriage? In this episode, we explore how fear, shame, and past wounds lead us to build walls that keep intimacy out. Through Scripture, you'll discover how God's perfect love casts out fear, why self-protection and oneness cannot coexist, and how surrendering your heart to Christ gives you the freedom to love your...

Send us Fan Mail Before your spouse can faithfully hold your heart, God must have it first. In this opening episode, we uncover the foundation of every thriving marriage: a heart fully surrendered to Christ. Discover why God isn't after your performance but your heart, how we've unknowingly asked our spouses to carry what only God can, and why right order changes everything. When Christ...

Send us Fan Mail  Why God's Design Was Always Bigger Than You  What if God's ultimate purpose for your marriage isn't simply your happiness—but His glory? In this final episode of the series, we discover that marriage has always been about something greater than two people. Through Ephesians 5, you'll see how God's design for husbands and wives is a living picture of Chris...

Send us Fan Mail What does biblical submission actually look like on an ordinary Tuesday? In this practical episode, we’re moving beyond misconceptions to discover how submission is lived out in everyday marriage. We’ll talk about respect, honor, influence instead of control, making specific requests, handling disagreement, and why your obedience is an act of worship- not a strategy to change your...

Send us Fan Mail What if the goal of your marriage isn't simply a better relationship—but becoming more like Jesus? In this final episode, we bring the entire series together by looking at the heart of biblical marriage: daily surrender. Through John 3:30, Galatians 2:20, and the Gospel, you'll discover that flourishing isn't found in demanding more from your spouse but in giving mo...

Send us Fan Mail Submission has become one of the most misunderstood words in the Church. But before it was ever about marriage, it was about trusting God. In this episode, we’ll explore why God is a God of order, why Ephesians 5 begins with reverence for Christ, and why obedience always comes before the outcome we’re praying for. Discover why biblical submission isn’t about losing your voice- it’...

Send us Fan Mail Have you unknowingly asked your spouse to do what only God can do? In this episode, we uncover one of the greatest obstacles to intimacy: expecting our spouse to become our source of peace, security, identity, or worth. Marriage is a beautiful gift from God, but it makes a terrible god. Discover how putting Christ back on the throne frees you to delight in your spouse instead of d...

Send us Fan Mail We’re always just one generation away from forgetting God. And wives are no different. In this episode, we’ll explore how God’s people went from readying for war against their brothers across the Jordan to forgetting about what He had done for them in just ONE generation. Discover how this impacts marriage and also future generations.  Support the show Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coac...

Send us Fan Mail Modern culture has discipled women to believe freedom is found in rejecting God’s design. Scripture teaches the opposite. In this episode, we’re asking one question: Who defines womanhood- culture or Christ? We’ll explore how competing worldviews have shaped marriage, why God’s design isn’t oppressive but protective, and why Christian wives cannot build flourishing marriages on a...

Send us Fan Mail Why do we ask God to restore what we’re unwilling to surrender? In this episode, we’re opening the book of Judges to uncover a sobering pattern: partial obedience always leads to compromise. The Israelites entered the Promised Land but refused to fully obey God’s commands, and one generation later they had forgotten the Lord and were living according to their own ways. What does t...