High Level Wife Podcast with Chelsey Holm

Send us Fan Mail 1 Kings 11 gives us the harrowing account of Solomon’s demise: wives who drew his heart away from God and turned him toward pagan practice and idol worship. So I did a deep dive on these old gods: Asteroth, Moleck, Chemosh… Guess what I found? These are commonplace today but show up much more frequently in your life than you might think. Let’s dive in… Support the show Chelsey Hol...

Send us Fan Mail James 5:7-11 commands us to be patient and wait- to be steadfast, compassionate and merciful as the Lord is doing a thing. Are you trying to force God’s timing and plan for your own growth or your spouse’s?  Support the show Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coach " I lead Christian wives  to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the enemy has stolen. To live by God’s de...

Send us Fan Mail You cannot claim godly wife and practice these 4 things in your marriage. First, let’s identify, then get to the underlying root, and finally obediently walk in correction by Holy Spirit within us.  Support the show Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coach " I lead Christian wives  to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the enemy has stolen. To live by God’s design in m...

Send us Fan Mail Every single convo I’ve ever had with a wife has had this ONE thing in common even though nearly every situation was unique. And it’s this key that unlocks what God wants to do in and through your marriage. Support the show Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coach " I lead Christian wives  to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the enemy has stolen. To live by God’s des...

Send us Fan Mail The kid got benched 2 games! Do you know how to battle and when and for what? Learn what God taught me more deeply on this and also how it applies to marriage, parenting and being a follower of Christ.  Support the show Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coach " I lead Christian wives  to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the enemy has stolen. To live by God’s design...

Send us Fan Mail Last night as I record this episode, my oldest son had a football game. The opposing team wiped the floor with us in a 0 to 30 something whooping. The game is down to the final 50 seconds and a kid twice the size of my son tackles late and then pushes him hard into the ground (stepping on his arm and his thigh). A flag was thrown, but this mama wanted more.  Let’s talk about walki...

Send us Fan Mail We got notice of the packing/moving company coming in 72 hours, and as you might imagine, my brain started running wild with the list of everything I still needed to do to be ready.  Here’s how it looks in practical action to take thoughts captive to Christ, renewing your mind. A high level wife is not one who worries about tomorrow nor does she allow overwhelm or anxiety to be he...

Send us Fan Mail God blew my mind today! I wanted to invite you into the process of real-time battle for my mind and how I walked through to receive a double portion from God.  You can do this too!  Support the show Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coach " I lead Christian wives  to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the enemy has stolen. To live by God’s design in marriage through r...

Send us Fan Mail This episode is for the wife who is exhausted from trying so hard to walk with the Lord and wants to know how God leads and provides and grows us in real time, uniquely as you are.  Support the show Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coach " I lead Christian wives  to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the enemy has stolen. To live by God’s design in marriage through r...

Send us Fan Mail God paid off $78k in debt when we said yes and obeyed Him in 2014. Now He’s doing it again with KY. What could big, bold faith and radical obedience mean for you right now, a year from now, 10 years from now too?  Support the show Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coach " I lead Christian wives  to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the enemy has stolen. To live by Go...

Send us Fan Mail Instagram put out a new feature called “Instants” and this is how I’m inviting you into DAILY right order as a wife with them. Doing these 3 can radically shift your heart posture, dear wife.  Support the show Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coach " I lead Christian wives  to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the enemy has stolen. To live by God’s design in marriag...

Send us Fan Mail Might want to slow the speed down on this one- I’m talking fast and bringing DC Talk’s Jesus Freak back 🙌🏻 Support the show Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coach " I lead Christian wives  to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the enemy has stolen. To live by God’s design in marriage through right order, repentance & radical obedience. First step? Grab the 30 D...

Send us Fan Mail It’s been a minute since a new episode as we’re in the midst of less than 30 days out until we move and all the pieces that go into the whole process of radical obedience to God and big belief He makes our steps sure.  Let’s dive into how God is teaching me to navigate this season as a godly wife who seeks the Lord FIRST and submits to her husband’s authority while walking as his...

Send us Fan Mail Are you carrying your husband’s emotions? Your children’s disappointment? The tension in your home? Constantly reading the room, smoothing things over, rescuing, fixing, and keeping everyone okay will eventually crush you—and it can prevent the people you love from taking responsibility for their own growth. You can be tender without carrying everyone. Let’s learn the difference b...

Send us Fan Mail When you stop living marriage the world’s way and begin walking as a surrendered disciple of Christ, not everyone will understand—and your own flesh may start asking, “Is this really worth it?” Do it anyway. We’re talking surrender, obedience, giants, impossible circumstances, and the God who is able. We aren’t walking toward victory hoping God pulls it off. We walk from the victo...

Send us Fan Mail The hurt may be real. The offense may need repair. The pattern may genuinely need to change. But you can become so consumed with what’s wrong in your marriage that you forget what your marriage is for. Let’s zoom out from the weeds and recover God’s bigger picture: oneness, multiplication, forward motion, and two people pulling together for His Kingdom. Deal with the weeds—but kee...

Send us Fan Mail If your husband isn’t the enemy, who is? In this episode, we identify the real battle happening beneath so much marital conflict: the flesh, the mind, Satan, and the influence of the world. Learn how each operates, how they can work together to turn you against your husband, and what Scripture tells us to do about each one. Stop aiming your weapons at flesh and blood. Know your en...

Send us Fan Mail You can deeply love God, genuinely love your husband, want the absolute best for him—and still unknowingly fight against him. In this episode, we expose how control can disguise itself as “helping him grow,” why you were never called to be your husband’s Holy Spirit, and the difference between trying to change him and truly warring for him. It’s time to put down the fleshly weapon...

Send us Fan Mail I’m bringing you a framework of 9 actions to war on behalf of your husband. Take up these divine weapons of warfare that DESTROY strongholds over your husband so he is fully free, on fire and filled with love!  This is how High Level Wives fight tenderly, tenaciously and ultimately how we take back territory the enemy has stolen! Support the show Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coach &quo...

Send us Fan Mail Culture teaches us to evaluate marriage like consumers: Am I happy? Are my needs being met? What am I getting from this? Jesus gives us an entirely different model. In this episode, we’re confronting the marriage scorecard, the stalemate of waiting for our spouse to go first, and what happens when our obedience flows from what we’ve already received from Christ. Stop keeping score...

Send us Fan Mail What if the enemy doesn’t have to destroy your marriage if he can simply keep it distracted? When husband and wife become consumed with offenses, scorekeeping, unmet expectations, and fighting each other, two people designed for Kingdom impact lose their shared direction. Let’s expose the strategy of division and remember: your spouse is not your enemy. Support the show Chelsey Ho...

Send us Fan Mail God’s first words to male and female included a command to be fruitful and multiply. What if that principle reaches far beyond simply building a family? In this episode, we’re looking at marriage as a multiplier for discipleship, hospitality, generosity, testimony, service, and Kingdom impact—and asking one powerful question: Who could experience God’s goodness because your marria...

Send us Fan Mail Culture has made marriage about happiness, fulfillment, and getting our needs met—but God’s vision is so much bigger. In this episode, we’re going back to Genesis to uncover why God created marriage, how covenant points beyond husband and wife, and what changes when we stop asking what God can do for our marriage and start asking what He wants to do through it. Support the show Ch...

Send us Fan Mail Here’s an episode from the past that still rings true today for creating ANY change that lasts. It’s what we do CONSISTENTLY over time that creates the results you see today. So what you do today creates the results you see years from now.  What are you creating? What needs to change?  Support the show Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coach " I lead Christian wives  to become TENDER,...

Send us Fan Mail Have we become so familiar with the Gospel that we’ve stopped marveling at it? In this episode, Chelsey shares a moment from church that sparked a deeper question: Why are we often quicker to celebrate human achievement than the miracle of salvation? Together, we’ll explore what Scripture reveals about encountering the holiness of God and why true worship isn’t about personality o...