Having A Pulse By Zandile Melissa

Jealous and envy are not proof that you are a bad person—they are clues. Zandile M Luthuli breaks down the real difference between wanting what someone has and wanting to protect what you already have, and why both emotions can reveal exactly what you value, fear, and desire. If you’ve ever felt that tightening in your chest when someone else wins, or that uneasy sting when a friend gets what you’...

Zandile M. Luthuli makes a compelling case that ambition can drive you forward, but it cannot give you identity, worth, or peace. If you have ever tied your happiness to views, money, career wins, or being seen as “successful,” this episode will hit hard. On Having a Pulse , Zandile reflects on the gap between what we chase and what actually sustains us. She unpacks the pressure to keep creating f...

A brutally honest goodbye, a fresh beginning, and a reminder that failure is not the end of your story. Zandile M Luthuli opens up about the heartbreak of building a podcast for years with little traction, what she learned from publicly stumbling, and why this “messy” chapter is actually the start of something bigger. If you’ve ever poured your heart into something that didn’t grow the way you hop...

In this episode we discuss the challenge we face when we disobey God. The feelings it awakens and how connecting the mind body and soul can help us.

In this episode we look into the fact that success does not always look like what we imagine it to be

This episode explores the power of understanding emotions and who we are

In this episode Zandile goes into detail about the four lessons she wants to share with her younger self to survive being in your 20s

I am grateful to every person that has listened to the podcast.

In this episode Zandile talks about how to heal from the things that trigger us. How being honest about our insecurities can heal us and help us take back our power

In this episode Zandile discuses what is true. How to live and find truth in this world.

In this episode Zandile discusses how potential can be good and bad if it is not manged. How thriving to become can lead to not making your dreams come true.

In this episode Zandile discusses how shame can make not live upto your potantial. Being shameful takes away ones ability to live an authentic life.

In this episode Zandile shares the struggle between purpose and survival. Most people are lost and are looking for the reason to live because they are stuck on jobs that dont build their passion. She shares lessons that have helped her.

In this episode Zandile shares her struggle with comparison. It is holding her back from achieving her goals. She brings into light the things that we struggle with in life.

In this episode Zandile fights back by allowing herself to be in-perfect in a world that requires it. She introduces her struggle with shame and hopes that by the end of this journey she would create a safe space to make mistakes.

In this episode Zandile Melissa dives into the topic of being able to truly be yourself. She shares how her life was shaped by events that led her to be confident and be unapologetic. The stages of confidence are shared and motivation is also given to the listeners.

In this episode Zandile Melissa discuses the challenge between enabling and empowering. She evaluates how relationships can be better and how people can be better versions of themselves if they spoke the truth. She dives into better friendips, better lovers and better selves through working to empower and not enable.

What if every word you spoke took on a life of its own? In this episode, we explore the unseen power of the tongue — how the things we say shape the worlds we live in. From self-talk to conversations with others, words build, break, and breathe life. It’s time to start speaking like your words have skin — because they do

In this episode of Having a Pulse, Zandile explores the power of words. The ones we speak over ourselves and the names we answer to. This conversation dives into how identity is shaped not just by what we believe, but by what we declare. Who are you calling yourself when no one is watching? And what would happen if you started speaking from the version of you thats already whole?

In this episode of Having a Pulse, Zandile Melissa explores how to find your spark and reignite your passion for life. Inspired by Disney's Soul and grounded in real-life reflection, this conversation helps you reconnect with what truly makes you come alive. Learn how to live with meaning, align with your calling, and start walking in purpose again.

I this episode, l dive into the big questions: Who am l and What am l here for. This episode does not answer the questions, but it is an introduction to the upcoming conversations that we will have. l hope that this episode prepares you for what is to come. Thank you for listening.

This episode is me just saying my thoughts . It can be helpful to anyone who is trying to figure out their lives . I published it so l don’t lose it ❤️

We dive more into understanding your power. In this episode we speak about the blocks that keep us from being the best versions of ourselves. The criticism, the fear , the resentment and the guilt. We learn to say no to being consumed by these feelings and running away from victim mentality.

In this episode, we dive into the topic of being the best versions of ourselves. We look into how choices play a role in creating or destroying the lives we see and have as well as those that we desire. This week we dive into the mysteries of alternative universes and what God says about the best versions of ourselves.

In this episode, we get into the famous saying "Protect your peace". Everyone is talking about it, in this episode the host gets into how we can protect our peace, respect ourselves, and know that boundaries are biblical. We dive deep into having boundaries and letting go of the people that do not serve us anymore.