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Anonymous started dating her partner about three years ago and says her partner cheated on her, with his ex, early on in their relationship but they overcame this and moved on with their relationship.  She recently found texts on his phone to his friend where he was sharing with his friend about meeting up with another girl.  She confronted him about this and he said it’s not somet...

Anonymous was in a relationship with a lady last year and things were going until she confessed that she was actually in a relationship with an older man that she had previously claimed was her father.  She told anonymous that she was going to break things off with the guy but he’s not sure whether she ever really tried to break up with him.  Fast forward to this year, he found out...

Anonymous has been with her partner for about 5 months now, they are both in their 30s, they have one child each, she lives with her child and he lives at his family home with his parents.  He often visits her place on weekends when they are both free and while this arrangement initially worked she feels like he’s become a major cost to her pocket. She brought this up and ask him to con...

Anonymous has been in an on and off relationship with her high school sweetheart for about 7 years now and they are currently separated. They’ve broken up for various reasons over the years, mostly because he keeps cheating on her with the same woman.  Anonymous and this guy live quite far from each other now, and every time she’s away from their home town (for school) he seems to...

Anonymous met her current partner while she was in varsity, while he was already working and had an established career.  When she was younger she was more interested in building her career in her twenties and then maybe building a family in her early thirties. However, her partner was really keen to get married and have children, something she wasn’t really keen for this early in her li...

Anonymous has been with a man she’s “in love” with for about three years now, and they are both in their 50s.  The relationship is going amazing, however, she has never been to his place and he always comes to his place. She has never met his family either and he never wants to go on extended vacations either. She brought this up and he said she must give him time to figure...

Anonymous has been with his partner and the mother of his children for about 16 years now.  Things were generally fine between them until they had their first child in 2017, and says there was a rift between them and their families. They were able to get through all of that and even had their second child in 2021.  In 2023 he caught her cheating when he saw her kissing another man. She i...

Anonymous met a lady back in 2018 and things moved quickly between them, as they even moved in together after only a month of dating.  He cheated on her at some point in the relationship but they were able to get past this. After she moved to another city her attitude towards him changed, even when she moved back she was just not the same person any more and was very distant.  She broke...

Anonymous has been with her partner for about two years now and they’ve known each other for about 10 years.  She says he’s a great partner and does most things in their relationship right however, the problem they have is social media.  He follows a lot of “baddies” and is always liking pictures of half naked women who are posing provocatively. She notes that it&...

Anonymous and her partner, guy no.1, have been together for about 11 years now.  She says they met at church and when they started dating she didn’t realise that he was dating other women in their church. This complicated things between them and she ended up breaking things off with him and started dating guy no.2, who was dating her guy no.1’s side-girl.  She fell pregnant w...

Anonymous found out last year that her longterm partner had been having an affair with another woman for many years while they were together.  She broke up with him at that point but after months of separation he came back and persuaded her to get back together with him.  Their relationship has been great since getting back together, however, about a week ago, she found out that he&rsquo...

Anonymous started dating a guy in 2017 and their relationship was ok for the most part in the beginning stages. Years later she fell pregnant and says during this time she lost interest in her partner and didn’t even want him to touch her. She believes this behaviour drove him into the arms of another woman and he also ended up impregnating her.  She found out about this, they worked th...

Anonymous is in her early thirties and has been dating her current partner for about 8 months now. She says this partner fits the description of the person a prophet once told her she would meet one day At some point in their relationship she found evidence that he had someone else, and he confessed to this after she confronted him about it.  She tried to break-up with him after this revelati...

Anonymous cheated on his partner two years into their relationship back in 2014. They went through therapy following this incident but the process led to him finding out that she had cheated on him as well.  They moved on with their relationship but he says she continued to bring up his cheating and their relationship broke down, when he took ill, they separated.  Things were fine betwee...

Anonymous says her relationship is generally fine but their sex life is problematic. She says she’s the one who always initiates, but he often rejects her advances towards him. This has been a problem for years in their relationship and she's not sure how to live with his lack of sexual interest. 

The gents are giving advice of a different kind in this instalment of Ask a Man. They have attended so many METRO FM Music Awards over the years and so between the two of them, they know the dos and don’ts of the MMAs, over the next two days they’ll be sharing their 10 ultimate rules for the MMAs.

The gents are giving advice of a different kind in this instalment of Ask a Man. They have attended so many METRO FM Music Awards over the years and so between the two of them, they know the dos and don’ts of the MMAs, over the next two days they’ll be sharing their 10 ultimate rules for the MMAs.

Anonymous lost her husband in 2018, she then dated someone new, but they also passed away in 2025.  Following the passing of her second husband, she found out that he had been unfaithful towards her and had a side. These experiences have affected her perspective on love and relationships, as she wonders whether she’s meant to be in a relationship.

Anonymous has been with her partner for a while now and says their relationship is generally great and he’s a good partner to her.  The problem she has with him is his lack of good personal hygiene, as she says he doesn’t take regular baths, everything smells and he doesn’t even take care of his living environment.

Anonymous is pregnant and she recently found the mother of her partner’s child at his house and was left confused by this situation.  She says they were naked when she arrived in the morning but they were in between taking baths. She confronted him about this but he claimed that it’s the mother of his child, she’s in town because their child is sick and she needed a place to...

Anonymous is in his early 50s and has been married to his wife for 20 years now.  He has been diagnosed with a disease that causes acid refluxes that lead to him choking in his sleep. He spoke to his wife about what to do if this happens while their sleeping but he says there was an instance in which it occurred, however, as he choked, she just looked at him and didn’t assist him. He al...

Anonymous and his partner recently  separated after facing some issues in their relationship. His partner is now back in his life and they are now back together.  The issues that led to the break down of their relationship don’t seem to have been resolved and they keep getting back to into the same conflicts and arguments.  Anonymous says they’ve gone through a lot toget...

Anonymous was previously married for 6 years despite the fact his wife had cheated on him early on in their marriage. He tried to move on but he eventually retaliated and also cheated on his wife.  Their relationship broke down and after his wife cheated on him the second time, they got divorced.  He has since tried to move on, but has struggled to stay in relationships with the other wo...

Anonymous dated a guy back in 2023 for about four months before their relationship ended. They rekindled things last year but it seems his past is haunting their relationship.  He is insecure and never seems to believe that she has good intentions in their relationship, and this has led to them having several altercations…