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Anonymous is in a long distance relationship. His girlfriend lives in a commune and is in a sexual situationship with a married man. He needs advice on how to handle the situation going forward.

Anonymous says he's polygamous the problem is that he only told his fiance a year and a half later when she fell pregnant with is child. He also has another girl on the side who he recently told that he's polygamous too. Can he make these relationships work or has he totally messed up?

Anonymous's family refuses to pay lobola for the woman that he loves, could the reason be that she was his side-chick while he was married?

There's a spiritual war in anonymous' household. Her husband could be conducting rituals on her without her permission. The final straw is when he brought a spiritual husband into the household. She wants to leave but doesn't have the financial backing

Anonymous hacked his woman's phone and found out that she's dating two other men. He still loves her because she completes him

Anonymous has been dating her man for 4 years. All was well until he started abusing drugs, is she able to assist him overcome his addicting?

Anonymous was planning on relocating with his wife overseas. The wife left first and once she settled she told him that it was over because she knew that he was cheating on hi, He's broken and wants his wife back

Anonymous is faced with a huge dilema on today's #AskAMan. She needs to choose between a man she's dating and a relationship with the father of her child.

Anonymous has been dating a married woman and he just can't let go. 

Anonymous claims to be in love with his pregnant fiance but he seems doubtful ever since finding chats on her phone where she communicates with her ex's and other men

Anonymous met his wife in the 90's, she recently filed for divorce because of his financial situation. Anonymous does miss his wife and wants her back

Another man down. Anonymous feels belittled by his wife, she occasionally tells him that he's not man enough

Anonymous is dating a serial cheater. She has seen things that a partner shouldn't see on his phone while he was sleeping. He's now back with the first woman she caught him cheating with. She says she still love him despite all his shenanigans. 

Anonymous has a 3 month old baby with a man she met on social media. They engaged in unprotected coitus the moment they met in person and conceived. the guy seems to be in and out of their relationship, he has paid damages to her family but that's it.

Anonymous knows that her man is seeing his ex behind her back but she simply can't let go because she's still in love with him

Today we deal with the World Cup of all relationships. Anonymous is a foreign national living in South Africa dating a man from Scotland and has a situationship with a man from Germany. She recently signed a contract to go work in the UK now she's confused on what to do going forward. Which man must she choose or should she just choose her career?

Anonymous has been dating her man for 8 months but hasn't ever been to his place. What could he possibly be hiding?

Anonymous is in a tricky situation, his woman of 3 months dumped him last night because she suspects that he's stalking her. Hear how it all went down

Anonymous has been seeing a man for 8 years. They have 2 beautiful children. The issues started recently when he impregnated another woman and wants to pay damages for that child when he hasn't paid lobola or damages for their 2 children

Anonymous has been a shoulder to cry on for her male friend for over 4 years. They tried to make it work as a relationship for the last 4 months but now he's ghosting her. He keeps blue ticking her messages and doesn't return her calls. What could this possibly mean 

Anonymous is struggling to move on after his divorce. His shoulder to cry on is giving him the cold shoulder. He hasn't been intimate with anybody since 2020

Anonymous just moved into his first apartment, he's excited for his new found freedom but there is a challenge, there's a lady in his complex that is endlessly offering herself. She cooks and cleans for him and wants to sleep with him but he's uncomfortable with that arrangement because he might not be able to bring other females to his place.

Anonymous has a problem of letting go of the father of her child, they still spend important holidays together, they sleep in each others omes from time to time. She has not been able to move on because she still loves him 

Anonymous is heartbroken, his woman left after miscarrying their child. He has no idea where she lives now but word on the street right now is that she has moved in with another man. If you would like to reach us for  ASK A MAN you can also send us a quick voicenote on 0608061685

We catch up with anonymous a month after he met a lady online. they had sex on the first date and he was unsure that this could be the one. We find out how things have been going for the last month