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Anonymous has been single for two years. He can't get over the woman he used to date for four years before that. He took care of all her and her child's financial needs. She cut ties with him completely but will pop-up like a "Jack In The Box" once in a while when she needs to finesse him for more money. 

Anonymous thinks his fiance' is cheating on him since he lost his job. She has a strange new male bestie that just popped up. They met at a pub and have been meeting up in secret ever since

Anonymous is in a financially abusive relationship. When he was a stay at home partner cooking,cleaning, ironing etc there was never any boyfriend allowance. Anonymous has now been driving an e-hailing taxi for his partner and he hasn't seen a cent since. 

Anonymous is in a situationship. Her man recently got married and it's left her in a state of confusion. She wasn't even aware that he was in another relationship. She's still in-love with him and she says if he wanted a second wife she's putting her hands up for the position

Anonymous feels neglected by her man who just received custody of his child. He has just asked her to cancel birthday plans she made for him because he has full custody of his child and that's where his time will be spent. Does she fully understand the emotional rollercoaster that her man is on at the moment?

Anonymous has accepted that her man is a babymaking machine, not only in their marriage but outside as well. Her issue is that her husband keeps her in the dark when he builds these relationships with his other kids. She feels disrespected and isolated by this, could he be hiding other children?

Anonymous has been with her man for over 13 years. His addiction to drugs let to their separation. Their time apart let to anonymous ending up as a side chick to a high profile man. She hasn't broken it off with the high profile guy but feels her ex is getting better so she's considering on going back

Anonymous has been in a relationship for over a year. The first 6 months were beautiful, since then it's been downhill. She's been chasing him for attention,love, affection etc

This is an Ask A Man first. Anonymous says his wife is filthy and it's starting to frustrate him. The house stays messy, her hygiene also leaves much to be desired. He is scared to bring visitors home because he knows it's always in a horrendous state. How much longer will he stay in this relationship?

Anonymous feels that he's losing his woman because he's not romantic enough. He doesn't make effort as much she would love him to. They don't go out often, he doesn't pay her compliments often. Does he deserve to be alone?

Anonymous is worried that her sexually charged man is going to cheat on her once he moves to the USA in May.

Anonymous still wants to pay lobola for his girlfriend even though things aren't as rosey as he'd like them to be. She moved into his house uninvited, she's abusive and controlling. Find out why anonymous called into ASK A Man today. Listen here

Anonymous is in the pits. Her marriage certificate should be torn into a thousand pieces because her husband unrepentantly cheats. Imagine your partner coming home with a "hicky" week in week out. She has also slept with a minimum of 3 men just so that she can forget about her painful marriage. She still loves him but can this marriage be saved?

Anonymous is going through the most. She married a man and then later on found out that he not only has one child that she knew about there are four more from four different women. They were married in community of property so she became liable to pay child maintenance for all these children. 

Anonymous is in a relationship but he missed his ex. The ex is also in a relationship and she just gave birth to her new man's child. Anonymous is still positive that she is the one for him, she's the one that got away and he wants her back.

Anonymous moved in with his girl and her child after two months of dating. He made it a norm to give the girlfriend's mother money too. Now that he's unemployed things have changed. 

Anonymous broke up with his girlfriend of 4 years 6 months ago, he can't let go. He visited a prophet and was told that the girl is into dark magic. This news hasn't convinced him to let go. He still wants her back

Anonymous has been married for 17 years. She's tired of going through her husband's phone only to find videos and nudes from sex workers.  The neglect is killing her self esteem because they are no longer as intimate as she would like.

Anonymous is a second time caller. She left her previous relationship and is now blessed with a man that wants to marry her after a month of dating. He also wants them to relocate to the US. That's right, no more load shedding.

Anonymous has dated a man for 20 years. This man has now made her his side chick. After their turbulent years together she's decided that she wants out but doesn't know how to tell him

Enough is enough, anonymous has chosen to keep her baby, she didn't terminate this one as she did with the previous one. Her ex now wants to be part of her son's life but on condition that they don't tell his family. He wants this child kept a secret.

After knowing his partner for over 15 years, married for 10 of them, anonymous's partner no longer engages with him intimately. She will sometimes touch herself in bed while he's sleeping right there next to her. What should he do?

Anonymous is dating a man that has decided to choose to "Pimp His Car" first before paying the remainder of her lobala as promised to her family. She thinks he might have cold feet or has found somebody else. If you feel a man no longer wants to make an honest woman of you should you force him into marriage?