The UNcivilized Podcast with Traver Boehm

Considering the fact that it’s reason the species perpetuates, the difference between friendships and romantic relationships, as well as a MASSIVE source of both life’s pleasures and pain — it’s shocking that we don’t have more open and honest conversations about sex. In this episode I get to ask Dr. Kelly all the questions you men ask me, covering such topics and erectile disfunction, premature e...

Michael Gay is Uncivilized royalty, having been there from the beginning and is one of our co-leaders in our workshops. He’s also a licensed therapist and would probably be happiest living in the woods. In this episode we explore the ways men and women both can create a deeper relationship with your intuition and the parts of your body and knowings that the civilized world divorces you from. This...

Chris is an old friend of The Uncivilized Podcast and in his third appearance with us speaks to the ways that we all numb and disconnect from our bodies, and the truth we’re so afraid to acknowledge. In this potent exercise we speak of potent ways to be in your body, to live more powerfully, and experience who we are underneath lives shackled with fear and contraction. Stick around to the end of t...

NAME YOUR YEAR—START YOURS NOW It’s February. Too late. (No it's not.) For years, men and women around the world have kicked off their journeys with my powerful ritual— Naming Your Year . It’s not a resolution. Not a wish list. Not another empty promise. It’s a stake in the ground. A declaration. A call to something greater. In this recorded call, Traver and the uncivilized crew walk you throu...

Let’s talk tantric sex, full body non ejaculatory orgasms, psychedelics, and the dark masculine… In this episode with renowned Men’s Leader Adayemi Adayosoye we get into all of it. We cover the conditioning and patterning that leads men to live lives of drudgery and quiet misery rather than truth and ecstatic joy. This is a powerful episode for men who are ready to live in a completely separate re...

In this episode you get to peak behind the coaching curtain and watch me work one-on-one with a man who’s struggling bringing structure into his life. This is showing up in his challenge around meal planning and workout programming, as well as the deeper issue at hand: — This is a protection mechanism keeping him from getting what he really wants. What does he really want? A deep connection with t...

I’m a True Crime dork, and if you are too, then this episode is for you. Hell, even if you’re not this episode will show the path of a man who was deep in a music career, had a hiccup, then on a whim after a single conversation decided to try something new. Millions and millions of downloads later with popular shows such as In The Red Clay, Drowning Creek, Fox Hunter, and In The Land of Lies — Sea...

If you’re a Nice Guy, or someone who is going through a breakup or divorce — then this episode is for you. In this edition of the UNcivilized Podcast, I have a man from my Kill The Nice Guy community who asked me a straight up question: How do I heal these Nice Guy parts of me? And boy do we get into it. As someone who figured out he was a Nice Guy during my own divorce, I had a lot to say on this...

Gavin Meenan is a world-class men’s coach in Ireland. But he wasn’t always. At one point, he was a porn-addicted young father, buried in grief and shame. And it wasn’t until his porn use became public when videos of him in chat rooms made their way around the internet that he was able to shift his life forever. In his candid and open conversation, Gavin and I discuss the secret addiction so many m...

In this episode Hendrix and I dive into the ways men end up trapped with money, stuck in debt, and otherwise feeling disempowered when it comes to their finances. We talk about common stories men hold and how to break them — mostly by creating an actual relationship with money they’ve never had before. We also dig into why so many men who say they want to make millions and millions of dollars are...

The connection we create around us will always be the key to building relationships where we can be ourselves without the need to hide any feelings. In this episode, I had a pleasant conversation with another exceptional man, my friend Mark Groves. Mark will explain what all these connections are about and why it is so important for us, as men, to establish strong relationships with other people....

I stumbled upon David’s work just a short time ago and was immediately hooked. After leaving a successful acting career in Hollywood, David did what very few actors do and became a therapist! And a brilliant one at that. In this episode we talk about following the path of your soul, about the ways men trip themselves up, and the common challenges found int relationship. This is a powerful episode...

This is a big topic and one that often gets overlooked or misunderstood by most men. And, here at UNcivilized we’re interested in supporting you in becoming unlike most men. Radically so. In this solo episode I give you four concrete ways you can shift your own ways to help everyone around you feel safer, especially any woman in your life. They’re powerful. They’re field tested. And they work. Enj...

Raj Jana is wears many hats. CEO of a tech company, teacher, speaker, podcast host, and seeker. Getting to sit down with him here in Boulder was an incredible experience as we dove into his journey from running a coffee startup to his now leading a team of entrepreneurs creating digital mapping of our emotional lives. This is a great episode if you're curious about how humans operate, the power of...

Bonner Rinn is an extraordinary man and he’s a man with Cerebral Palsy. But honestly that’s not what’s interesting about him.  What is interesting is what he’s done with his life going from a home where his condition wasn’t able to be spoken about to running a world wide organization brining awareness and resources to kids with disabilities in developing countries. Along the way he’s had to do his...

If you’re a Nice Guy, or someone who struggles with either finding or fully embodying your purpose — then this episode is for you. In this edition of the UNcivilized Podcast, I have a man from my Kill The Nice Guy community who shares his pattern of struggling with believing he’s worth doing what he really wants in the world. He’s a massage therapist who wants to shift to providing bigger and bett...

In this episode I sit down with 10 time author Sylvester McNutt. Sly is a good friend and brother who I’ve known for years now. His new book is all about crafting the life you want to live and letting go of all the things that stand in your way. You’ll get to hear us dive into how he now has to organize his life since becoming a father, what he sees as the biggest roadblocks people have to creatin...

I met Nicky at a dinner in London two months ago and knew immediately I wanted to interview her. She runs a world wide company working with people at the deepest levels of their healing. Her work is life changing. And — her story is equally fascinating. Going from a drug addicted twenty year old to a business powerhouse, then having to rebuild her entire life from the ground up after a freak accid...

If you’re a Nice Guy, or someone who works in a service profession like coaching, teaching, or parenting — then this episode is for you. In this edition of the UNcivilized Podcast, I have a man from my Kill The Nice Guy community who shares his pattern of struggling with discipline when it come to doing the things that will benefit HIM. If it’s to help one of his students or kids, he has no proble...

I was told NOT to do this interview. Why? Because “no one cares about women’s sexual health.” Well…that wasn’t true, as this is the 3rd most listened to episode in the Uncivilized Podcast. Carly pulls no punches as she teaches you all you need to know about your woman, her cycle, and more.  This is an episode every single man and every single woman should listen to. Enjoy. Please do share this wit...

Ginger Kern teaches primarily women how to be in relationship in a new paradigm. One based on mutual respect, devotion, and truth. She also adds that this will be a “relationship without leaks.” Sounds intriguing doesn’t it? We dive into Ginger’s marriage, why it wasn’t the right fit for her and what has happened in her life and her partner’s life once they stepped into their devotional frame.  Wh...

Chris Bale is one of the most unique men I know. He’s a fellow acupuncturist, a men’s guide, and an energy worker like no other. In this episode we bring back one of the Top 5 most listened to episodes of the Uncivilized Podcast just for you — this is the first day I ever spoke with Chris. We’ve since become good friends and I know Chris well. His teachings are beyond potent as you will hear. In t...

If you’re a Nice Guy, or someone who likes to put off hard tasks to the very last minute, then of course, beat yourself up for doing so — and not doing more in your life — then this episode is for you. In this edition of the UNcivilized Podcast, I have a man from my Kill The Nice Guy community who shares his pattern of not doing what he needs to in a timely manner. Then guilting and shaming himsel...

I’m taking the mic again for this short yet powerful episode on what I see as a major pain point for me — being disconnected from our instinct and intuition. What blocks access to this powerful source of guidance and information you ask? Any shame or guilt you have about being a man. In this episode I share conversations I’ve had with a number of men in the past week and invite you to challenge an...

Duey Freeman is an UNcivilized LEGEND. He’s shifted the UNcivilized Movement into a far more relational frame with his teachings, his facilitating at our workshops, and his incredible work with horses. In this episode we bring back one of the Top 5 most listened to episodes of the Uncivilized Podcast just for you — this is the first day I got to meet Duey! We dive into trauma, equine therapy, and...