Becoming a better you Podcast

They warned me not to marry a South African man… but I chose to follow my heart. ❤️🇨🇩🇿🇦 In this video, I’m opening up about my experience as a Congolese woman married to a South African man — the things people warned me about, the reality of intercultural marriage, and whether I truly regret my decision. Was marrying a South African man a mistake? Are the things people warned me about actually tru...

❤️ The Truth About Modern Women, Men & Marriage Marriage and relationships are changing, but what is really happening between modern women, men, and marriage ? In this honest conversation, we talk about the expectations both women and men bring into relationships, communication, respect, independence, gender roles, social media, and the things that can either strengthen or damage a marriage ....

How I Met My South African Husband | Our Love Story 🇨🇩🇿🇦 In this video, I’m finally sharing the story of how I met my South African husband and how our journey began. ❤️ From our first meeting to becoming husband and wife, I’m taking you behind the scenes of our intercultural love story as a Congolese woman married to a South African man . I’ll share how we met, my first impressions, how our relat...

Things I Learned After Marrying a South African Man 🇿🇦❤️ | Our Intercultural Marriage* Marrying someone from a different culture has taught me so much about *love, marriage, communication, family, culture, and understanding each other*. As a Congolese woman married to a South African man, I’ve had to adjust, learn new traditions, and sometimes see life from a completely different perspective. In t...

How Much Does It Cost to Have a Baby in South Africa Without Medical Aid? 🇿🇦👶🏾 In this video, I’m sharing our real experience and the costs of having a baby in South Africa without medical aid — from pregnancy check-ups and scans to hospital, delivery, and other expenses. As a Congolese woman married to a South African man, I’m sharing our journey to give you a realistic idea of what to expect f...

I Married a South African… The Cultural Differences in Our Marriage 🇨🇩🇿🇦 What happens when a Congolese woman marries a South African man? ❤️🇨🇩🇿🇦 In this episode, I’m sharing some of the cultural differences we’ve experienced in our marriage —from the way we were raised, family expectations, communication, food, traditions, respect, and everyday life. Coming from two different African cultures has...

Things I Learned After Marrying a South African Man 🇿🇦❤️ | Our Intercultural Marriage Marrying someone from a different culture has taught me so much about love, marriage, communication, family, culture, and understanding each other . As a Congolese woman married to a South African man, I’ve had to adjust, learn new traditions, and sometimes see life from a completely different perspective. In thi...

In this episode of Congolese Makoti Diaries , I’m sharing my personal experience as a Congolese woman married to a South African man and building my life in South Africa . Before moving here, I had heard many stereotypes and assumptions about South African men, women, relationships, and the culture. But living here and experiencing things for myself taught me something important: you can’t truly u...

I Never Expected My Life in South Africa to Turn Out Like This… Moving from the Democratic Republic of Congo 🇨🇩 to South Africa 🇿🇦 changed my life in ways I never imagined. From adapting to a new country and culture, to building a life, falling in love, getting married to a South African man, and creating a family — my journey has been full of beautiful moments, challenges, surprises, and lessons....

HOW TO LOOK EXPENSIVE WITHOUT SPENDING A LOT | My Budget Beauty & Style Secrets In today’s video, I’m sharing my personal tips and little secrets for looking expensive, polished, and put-together without breaking the bank! 🤍 I truly believe that looking good isn’t always about wearing designer clothes or spending a lot of money. It’s about how you carry yourself, taking care of your hygiene,...

I shareD a powerful dream about the rapture, emphasizing the urgency of turning to God before it's too late. She discusses current world events, biblical prophecies, and the importance of living a righteous life in anticipation of Jesus' return. takeaways The countdown in the dream signifies the imminent return of Jesus. Many are ignoring biblical signs due to familiarity and distraction. Acceptin...

Does following Jesus mean giving up fun? Absolutely not! 💛 In this video, we're talking about what it really looks like to have fun as a Christian girl without compromising your faith or your values. The world often makes it seem like you have to choose between living for God and enjoying your twenties—but that's simply not true. We'll explore practical ways to build a joyful, fulfilling life thr...

Are you praying, reading your Bible, and going to church—but still feel spiritually stuck? In this video, we're talking about 5 habits you need to stop if you truly want to grow spiritually . Sometimes our biggest obstacle isn't the devil—it's the unhealthy patterns we've allowed into our daily lives. If you're ready to deepen your relationship with God, strengthen your faith, and experience real...

7 Daily Habits Every Christian Woman Should Practice | Grow Closer to God Every Day What does it truly mean to live as a woman of God in today's world? In this video, I'm sharing 7 powerful daily habits that every Christian woman should practice to grow spiritually, strengthen her faith, and build a closer relationship with God. These simple but life-changing habits will help you stay grounded in...

Can you be stylish and still honor God? Absolutely! 💕 In this video, I'm sharing how to dress like a Christian girl without looking boring . Modesty doesn't mean dressing without personality—it means choosing clothing that reflects confidence, elegance, and a heart that seeks to glorify God. Whether you're building a modest wardrobe, looking for everyday outfit inspiration, or wondering what the...

In this episode, I shared vital insights on places Christian girls should avoid to protect their faith and spiritual life. She discusses the spiritual dangers of clubs, adult stores, and other environments that can lead believers astray. takeaways Avoid places like clubs, adult stores, and environments contradicting the Bible. Be cautious of environments that can invite spirits and spiritual attac...

THE SHOCKING REALITY OF BEING A FOREIGNER IN SOUTH AFRICA 🇿🇦 What is it really like to be a foreigner living in South Africa today? In this video, I share my personal experience as a Congolese immigrant living in South Africa—the challenges, opportunities, struggles, and lessons I've learned along the way. From dealing with documentation issues and finding work to facing discrimination and buildin...

The Shocking Reality of Being a Foreigner in South Africa 🇿🇦 What is it really like to be a foreigner living in South Africa today? In this video, I share my personal experience as a Congolese immigrant living in South Africa—the challenges, opportunities, struggles, and lessons I've learned along the way. From dealing with documentation issues and finding work to facing discrimination and buildin...

THE HIDDEN POWER OF YOUR CLOTHES What if the clothes you wear are influencing how people treat you, the opportunities you receive, and even how you feel about yourself? In this episode, we explore the surprising impact of dressing decently and intentionally in today's world. From first impressions and professional success to self-confidence and personal branding, your appearance often communicates...

What if the person you’re becoming could walk into any room with confidence, peace, and purpose? In this episode of 5 Steps to Becoming Your Next Self , we’re talking about how to become someone you’re genuinely proud to introduce — not because you’re perfect, but because you’re growing, healing, and showing up as your highest self. We dive into: ✨ Letting go of old versions of yourself ✨ Buildi...

Hey loves, I’m Sarah Mpira 💕 I share practical tips on becoming that girl by building confidence, self-respect, and healthy routines that help you glow from the inside out. On this channel, we focus on starting small, staying consistent, avoiding social media comparison, and romanticizing everyday life to build self-love, soft confidence, and a more intentional lifestyle. If you’re ready to becom...

Why does accountability seem so rare in modern dating and relationships? In this video, we’re having an honest conversation about personal responsibility, emotional maturity, and the role accountability plays in modern womanhood. Accountability isn’t about blame or criticism — it’s about growth, self-awareness, and being willing to recognize our own behaviors, choices, and patterns. From relations...

In this video, I share my honest thoughts on modern relationships, commitment, and what it really takes to build something meaningful. 💬 I talk about why I believe in being intentional about love and how showing up with care, respect, and a “wife mindset” — even during the dating phase — can help create deeper connections and a lasting partnership. If you’re navigating love, dating, or trying to...

Dating a Congolese man? 😳 Let’s talk about it… because there are things people don’t tell you 👀 In this video, I’m sharing my honest experience, the surprises, the cultural differences, the green flags 💚 and yes… the red flags 🚩 you NEED to know before getting into it. Whether you’re curious, currently dating, or thinking about it — this is for you! From love and communication to expectations...

Looking stylish and put-together doesn’t have to cost a fortune! In this video, I’m sharing 10 simple, practical, and budget-friendly tips to help you look good every single day—without breaking the bank. From smart wardrobe basics to easy grooming habits and confidence-boosting tricks, these tips will help you elevate your everyday look using what you already have (and maybe a few affordable upgr...