Sex Within Marriage Podcast : Exploring Married Sexuality from a Christian Perspective

Valentine's day is just around the corner.  Only a few days left in fact.  If that started to make you sweat, well, I feel for you.  Valentine's Day, I think, is potentially one of the most dangerous days of the year for married couples.  I'll explain what I mean, and then give a couple tips for how to survive it.

Men are often accused of compartmentalized lives, and for the most part it's true.  Most of us can have our work life and our home life and our church life and our sports/hobbies life, and keep them all fairly contained.  Women, on the other hand, tend to have one life, and it all mixes together.  However, there is one aspect of life that men often find very difficult to compartmentalize: their se...

This week, I'm talking about morning sex, that is sex when you first wake up.  Why discuss morning sex?  Because there's a lot going on that people don't realize I think.  I often get asked "why does my husband want sex in the morning?" and so if you ever had that question, or if you're a husband and are curious why you want sex in the morning, here's your change to find out why.

I wrote a post on this topic a few years ago and thought I'd do a podcast version for those who don't read the blog, or are new and aren't aware of my older posts.  I believe married men (or women) masturbate for three reasons: Ignorance, Selfishness and/or Addiction.

This week we're discussing how you train your spouse.  In all human relationships, we teach other's how to interact with us.  Sometimes it's positive, sometimes it's not.  But, often we don't think about it and then we are surprised by the results of our training. My wife and I trained each other horribly in the years of our marriage and spent years undoing those bad teachings.  But, you can't sta...

For the first half of our marriage, I heard from my wife many times "All you want is sex", because sex was probably the biggest are of conflict in our marriage.  Since then, I've seen it many times in emails and comments from lower drive spouses, or from the high drive spouses complaining about the complaints of their low drive spouse. Some of them are accused of being obsessed with sex, some beli...

Every marriage blog and podcast has a post or an episode telling you how to spice up your sex life, if not dozens of such posts.  But, they're usually just short term tricks, something to get you excited for a night or two, but then die off quickly.  However, they all have one thing in common, and that, I think, is to the real way to spice up your sex life.  So, in this episode, we're going to tal...

Well, Christmas is nearly upon us, and every Christmas I know there is a lot of stress and anxiety as well as sometimes difficult living arrangements during the holidays, with family over, or you over at family, so this week we're going to talk about dealing with Christmas in a marriage.

Today's episode it about praying with your spouse to increase intimacy in your marriage.  Often prayer is a level of intimacy many are scared to step into.  But, getting past the initial obstacle means opening up your marriage to a whole new level of intimacy, which can in turn spur other areas of intimacy forward.

This week I'm going to be discussing a problem common to many husbands with new babies: the fact that their wife's breasts have been re-purposed.

In this episode I answer the question "Why can't my husband just tell me what he needs?"  It's basically the other side of last week's episode.

In this episode I answer the question I get from so many husbands: Why can't my wife just tell me what she wants?  This used to drive me crazy earlier in my marriage, until I figured out the answer.  Now I see it as an opportunity, instead of a frustration.

Today I'm tackling the question: Is sex a need or a want?  I've actually written about this in the past but it was about 3.5 years ago, and I have a lot of new readers since then and now new listeners who haven't heard my views on this subject.  So, here we go.

Episode 2 of our podcast!  We can actually call it series now.  Today I'm talking about getting rid of veto power in the bedroom.  Often one spouse, usually the low-drive spouse, has absolute say over when sex happens, or when it doesn't happen.  But is that the way it should be?  I share my thoughts and what I believe the Bible has the say on the subject. You can view the show notes here.

Well, my regular readers have been asking for a podcast for some time, and I'm finally ready to take the plunge. This is our first episode of what I plan to be a weekly podcast.  For those who want more information, here are the show notes , or you can listen to the podcast itself.  I'm still learning audio production skills, so be patient with me on the sound.  I hope it will improve over time. A...