Intimate Covenant Podcast

Send us Fan Mail In this episode, Matt & Jenn discuss how to broach the delicate topic of sex with our spouses. How can I get this conversation started so that my spouse will be responsive an engaged, not scared away? How can I learn to express my desires and feelings openly about such an embarrassing topic? Embrace the conflict. Use it as an opportunity to learn about what your spouse really...

Send us Fan Mail Matt and Jenn discuss the biblical principles that should guide what we allow into our marriage bed: (This one is a little longer than other episodes, but we just couldn't leave anything out from our discussion.) God loves Sex. He created it and intends for married couples to enjoy it. His word, the Bible, guides us with clear principles to determine what sexual activities ar...

Send us Fan Mail Matt & Jenn continue the discussion of sexual relationship dynamics between Pursuers & Responders. In this episode, we offer practical advice to help recognize, prevent and repair the damage from the toxic Pressurer-Distancer cycle: Responders: you can alleviate the pressure by closing the gap with small, comfortable steps and by communicating your needs. Withdrawing only...

Send us Fan Mail In this week's episode, Matt and Jenn explain the sexual pursuer/responder dynamic that occurs in every marriage. Understanding your role in this dynamic provides a framework to better discuss and resolve sexual conflicts in your marriage. Identify your role in the Pursuer/Responder dynamic in your marriage when it comes to sex (and other areas). Recognize that it’s not wrong...

Send us Fan Mail Matt & Jenn continue the discussion about how to talk to your kids about sex. This time they cover important conversations to be having as your kids reach certain age milestones: Sex education begins with language and anatomy at a very early age. This is the time to start to getting yourself comfortable with the conversation. Prepare your child for outside influences before th...

Send us Fan Mail Matt & Jenn talk about having "The Talk" with your kids: “The talk” is NOT sufficient to educate your kids properly about sex and their sexuality. Start the conversation now so that you become the trusted source for sex information instead of their peers, the internet, and Satan himself. Talk plainly and positively. Use real words. You can’t teach your kids what you...

Send us Fan Mail Do you know where your "poolally" is? Me neither...  Matt & Jenn discuss the importance of knowing your sexual anatomy, and your spouse's. If you hope to maximize your pleasure, and your spouse’s pleasure, you have to know where the parts are and what they do. Girls do have a vagina - but more inclusively and more importantly, girls have a vulva - with a clitori...

Send us Fan Mail Matt and Jenn kick off this brand new podcast with a discussion about the very definition of sex. Broaden your definition of sex: change your language and your mindset Broaden your sexual experience to be sure that each partner is being blessed by sexual pleasure. Use sex as a gateway to closeness and oneness, not just orgasm or sexual release. Submit your questions, comments or s...

Send us Fan Mail If you’re new to our podcast, we think this is a great episode to start with. That’s why we’ve put it at the beginning of our podcast directory. Thanks for joining us. We pray that our story will bless your marriage. In this episode, Matt & Jenn share their personal struggles with marriage and sex. You won't want to miss this touching and vulnerable episode. We want you t...