Inner Stillness Outer Chaos

Avery Thatcher

Self Improvement UND 78 episodes

Episodes

What to Do When You're 'Fine' but Not Okay: aka when you're feeling numb 18.03.2025

Ever caught yourself saying, "I'm fine," even when you're anything but? In this episode, we peel back the layers of what "fine" really means—and why it might be a quiet warning sign of emotional burnout or disconnection. Together, we’ll explore how to recognize the hidden signals behind "fine," uncover the difference between feeling numb and truly...

Redefining Success for Burnout Recovery: Is Your Definition Serving You? 11.03.2025

Success—it’s the goal we’re all striving toward, right? But what happens when your definition of success starts feeling more like a burden than a triumph? In this episode, we dive deep into the surprising ways outdated ideas of success can keep you stuck in burnout, overwhelm, and constant pressure to do more. I’ll share my personal story of hitting a wall with my own defin...

Modern Signs of Fight, Flight, Freeze, and Fawn - and Why This New Definition Matters 04.03.2025

I think it’s really important to recognize what the modern signs of fight, flight, freeze, and fawn look like. We often hear about them spoken of in their primal forms (what our stress response was initially designed for). But our modern day stressors don’t go away, do they? Sometimes it feels like we’re all living on high alert, as if the stakes are life-or-death when all we&rsq...

Why is it Hard to Stay Consistent with Yoga Practice 25.02.2025

"Why It’s Hard to Stay Consistent With Yoga (And What You’re Missing)" Ever feel like your yoga practice just isn’t sticking? You’re showing up on the mat, moving through the poses, but it feels more like going through the motions than a meaningful practice. In this episode, I’m sharing why asana—the physical practice—isn’t actually the fir...

7 Quiet Signs of Burnout in High Achievers: Why It Doesn’t Always Feel Like “Burnout” 18.02.2025

"The Quiet Burnout: Are You Running on Empty Without Realizing It?" Burnout doesn’t always look like hitting a wall. Sometimes, it’s quieter—sneaking in as a constant hum of exhaustion or the slow loss of enthusiasm for things you once loved. In this episode, we’re diving into the subtle signs of burnout that often go unnoticed, especially for high achievers and t...

How to Find Strength in Uncertainty 11.02.2025

What happens when hope fades into the background? When the usual spark that keeps us moving forward feels dim or distant? In this episode, I share a deeply personal story about encountering The Void—a space of emptiness and uncertainty—and what I learned about finding strength when hope wasn’t leading the charge. We’ll explore the quiet power of resolve, how it differs from...

Body Mapping for Emotional Awareness 04.02.2025

Have you ever wondered if your body could be holding onto emotions you haven’t fully processed? In this episode, I’m taking you on a journey to explore how our bodies store sadness, frustration, and even anger in specific areas—and what happens when we start to tune into those hidden cues. As a highly sensitive high achiever, you might feel like you don’t always have the ti...

Overcoming Impostor Syndrome for High Achievers 28.01.2025

Ever felt like you’re one step away from being ‘found out’—like your accomplishments are just luck, and any minute now, everyone else will see the truth? In this episode, we’re unraveling the complex layers of impostor syndrome. We’ll explore why this feeling of fraudulence is so prevalent, especially among high achievers, and dive deep into its unexpected roots...

How to Stop Feeling Stuck - By Choosing Not to Move Just Yet 21.01.2025

Have you ever felt stuck, unable to move forward, and wondered why you can’t just push through? In today’s episode, we’re diving into the hidden reasons behind why we get stuck—and how it’s often a way of protecting ourselves. Instead of rushing forward or forcing change, what if staying put was actually an invitation to slow down, realign, and understand what our min...

Why Do We Self-Sabotage? Breaking Free from the Patterns That Hold Us Back 14.01.2025

Why do we keep getting in our own way, even when we know what we want? In this episode, we’re diving deep into the hidden forces behind self-sabotage. We’ll explore the science of why our brains cling to behaviors that hold us back and unpack five common self-sabotage patterns—from procrastination and perfectionism to overcommitting and numbing behaviors. I’ll break down ho...

Sustainable New Year’s Resolutions - Part 3 of 3 07.01.2025

New Year, New Goals...but what if the key to real change isn’t a massive overhaul? In this episode, we’re diving into a gentler, more sustainable way to approach resolutions: course corrections. Forget the all-or-nothing resolutions that leave you burnt out by February. We’re exploring how small, intentional shifts can help you align with your goals without triggering stress and...

Find Your Focus For 2025 - Part 2 of 3 31.12.2024

Are you tired of setting New Year’s resolutions that fizzle out by February? What if, instead, you chose a word for 2025 that feels like a true reflection of who you want to become? In this episode, we’re diving into a transformative approach to the new year: identity goals and setting intentions that actually stick. I’ll guide you through powerful journal prompts that strip away...

A Year-End Reflection Ritual to Celebrate Your Growth - Part 1 of 3 24.12.2024

As we close another chapter of our lives, it’s easy to get caught up in the rush of setting new resolutions and goals. But what if, instead of focusing on what we need to change, we took a moment to honor what we’ve already accomplished? In today’s episode, I’m inviting you to join me in a 15-minute ritual of reflection—one designed not to fix or improve, but to celeb...

5 Holiday Stress Management Tips for Highly Sensitive People 17.12.2024

Feeling overwhelmed by the holiday season? As a highly sensitive person or high achiever, managing holiday stress can feel like an impossible task. But it doesn’t have to be! In this post, I’m sharing 5 simple and practical holiday stress management tips designed specifically for highly sensitive people and high achievers. Learn how to say no, control your stress response, embrace the...

5 Breathing Techniques For Stress Relief 10.12.2024

Feeling overwhelmed by stress and chaos? In this post, I share 5 breathing techniques for stress relief that will help you calm your mind and body in just a few minutes. These ancient pranayama practices are rooted in Vedic wisdom and can be your go-to tools for managing anxiety, calming the nervous system, and finding peace. Whether you're looking for breathwork for anxiety or just need simpl...

How to Prioritize Tasks When Everything Feels Important 03.12.2024

Feeling overwhelmed by your endless to-do list? I’ve been there, where everything feels urgent, and nothing seems manageable. In this post, I’m sharing a simple framework to help you organize yourself when everything feels like a priority. Learn how to prioritize your tasks based on urgency, impact, ease, and alignment—a system that helps me avoid burnout and focus on what really...

How to Stay Grounded During life Transitions 26.11.2024

Navigating Life Transitions: How to Stay Grounded When Everything is Changing Life transitions are inevitable. Whether it’s a new job, moving to a different city, the end of a relationship, or even a significant shift in your health, change has a way of unsettling us in ways we don’t always expect. Personally, I’ve had my fair share of transitions—some welcomed, others not...

How to find balance as a highly sensitive person (hint: it's a myth) 19.11.2024

I used to believe in balance. It was this elusive goal that always seemed just out of reach—a perfect equilibrium between work, rest, social life, self-care, and every other aspect of life. I think for many of us, this idea of balance is drilled into our minds. We’re sold on the idea that if we just manage our time well enough, prioritize properly, and say no when needed, we can have i...

Everyday Creativity for Highly Sensitive People is Beyond Creation 12.11.2024

Growing up, I was told I was ‘gifted’ in art. It felt like something to live up to—a badge of honor that I didn’t quite know what to do with. Objectively, sure, I could draw or paint pretty well, and I even won a scholarship to a local art college. But deep down, something about it never felt like mine. Let me tell you about the piece that won me that scholarship. It was a...

How to Process Unresolved Emotions 05.11.2024

How to process unresolved emotions and start healing Music has always had a way of sneaking past the logical barriers I’ve built around certain emotions, helping me to feel things I didn’t even realize were still simmering under the surface. It’s one of those art forms that can bring clarity without needing direct articulation. I can go months, years even, without thinking about...

5 Reasons Why It’s So Hard for Highly Sensitive High Achievers to Create Calm in Our Chaotic Modern World 29.10.2024

Why It’s So Hard for Highly Sensitive High Achievers to Create Calm in Our Chaotic Modern World   Lately, I’ve been thinking a lot about how hard it is to find calm, especially when you’re highly sensitive and constantly tuned in to everything going on around you. Let’s be real: the world feels overwhelming. There are days when it seems like every news notification is...

How to Stop Judging Yourself 22.10.2024

For years, I believed I’d found the perfect therapeutic model with Internal Family Systems (IFS). But something didn’t quite fit, and it wasn’t until I dove deeper into Vedic philosophy that everything clicked. In this article, I share my personal journey of moving from IFS to a more grounded approach through Jnana Yoga and Vedic wisdom. If you’re feeling overwhelmed by con...

How to process anger for healing 15.10.2024

For years, I avoided anger, thinking it was a "bad" emotion that only caused harm. But as I dove deeper into my healing journey, I realized something powerful — anger isn't the enemy. In fact, when we face it head-on, it can become a catalyst for profound personal growth and change. In this article, I explore the complex role of emotions, how repressing anger kept me stuck, and...

Letting go of old identities to becoming who we truly are 08.10.2024

That’s the thing about letting go: it’s not always the big, obvious moments that carry the most weight. Sometimes it’s the subtle shifts, the quiet introductions, the filling out of a form with a new name. Those are the moments where everything changes, even if it looks like nothing is happening.

Why We Need A Mindset Shift For Problem Solving 01.10.2024

Struggling to solve problems in your life or work? I recently learned a powerful lesson from my garden that transformed how I approach challenges. Discover how an ancient gardening practice called ollas helped me shift my mindset and find sustainable solutions. In this blog post, I dive into the neuroscience behind why we get stuck in old patterns and how changing your mindset can unlock new possi...

About the podcast

On this podcast, I share openly and freely of how I continue to move forward with my own traumatized nervous system, anxiety, OCD, disability and all the complexity of living as a highly sensitive person in a world that’s scared to feel. So, grab a cozy blanket, maybe a cup of your favorite tea, and here’s to embracing the chaos, creating our calm, and discovering the magic in between.

Author

Avery Thatcher

Category

Self Improvement

Podcast website

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Language

UND

Episodes

78

Latest episode

18 mar 2025

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