All Things Conflict

In this series finale of Justice Redesigned on All Things Conflict, host Maria Arpa looks back on an incredible journey spanning nearly 50 episodes dedicated to examining, questioning, and re-envisioning the modern justice system. What began as an open-ended exploration became an intimate masterclass featuring defense lawyers, former heads of the Crown Prosecution Service, third-sector leaders, ch...

In this final, roundup episode of the Justice Redesigned series on All Things Conflict, host Maria Arpa poses a single, transformative question to a panel of expert podcast guests: "If you had the keys to the Ministry of Justice and could make one immediate change, what would it be?" The responses offer a multi-perspective blueprint for overhaul and reform across the legal and penal landscapes. Gu...

In this deeply moving episode of All Things Conflict, Maria Arpa is joined by Luke Appleyard for an unvarnished conversation on what happens when child victims of domestic abuse are left without safety, support, or a voice. Luke shares his raw, lived experience of witnessing horrific domestic violence as a child, fleeing with his mother to a safe house, and the terrifying reality of being tracked...

In this roundup episode of the Justice Redesigned series on All Things Conflict, host Maria Arpa poses one transformative question to a panel of expert podcast guests: "If you had the keys to the Ministry of Justice and could make one immediate change, what would it be?" The responses offer an unvarnished, multi-perspective masterclass on fixing a broken justice system. From defence solicitors adv...

In this thought-provoking episode of All Things Conflict, host Maria Arpa challenges mainstream assumptions surrounding "trauma-informed practice". Moving past buzzwords and medicalized labels, Maria introduces a deeper framework: viewing trauma not as a fixed identity, but as a series of unhealed wounds and emotional responses that shape how we navigate the world. Maria questions the very concept...

In this episode of All Things Conflict, host Maria Arpa sits down with Lee Middleton, a former prison officer who spent 17 years at HMP Dartmoor. Lee served as the key internal coordinator for the Peaceful Solutions Dialogue Roadmap (DRM) project, which ran inside Dartmoor Prison. Maria and Lee explore what happens when you break down traditional institutional barriers and train prison officers an...

In this compelling solo episode of All Things Conflict, host Maria Arpa takes a hard, critical look at why our core societal institutions—from the NHS and state education to the penal system, healthcare networks, and modern workplaces—are systematically failing us. Instead of serving as engines of resolution, these systems frequently generate public harm, widespread dissatisfaction, and toxic envi...

In this insightful episode of All Things Conflict, Maria Arpa welcomes back her husband and seasoned mediator, David Ellis. Together, they explore the deep internal mechanics of conflict resolution, the hidden power of mediator self-care, and why extensive pre-mediation preparation is the ultimate key to success. David shares vulnerable, real-world stories from the frontlines of mediation—from inv...

In this deeply critical and sensitive episode of All Things Conflict, host Maria Arpa is joined by investigative journalist and author Alex Renton. Drawing from both his extensive research and his personal lived experience as a survivor of child sexual abuse at a private boarding school, Alex offers an unvarnished look at how society fails to keep children safe—and what must change to fix it. Toge...

In this special segment of All Things Conflict, Maria Arpa opens up about the secret framework behind her calm delivery and mindful communication style: Giraffe Language. Maria explains why the giraffe serves as the ultimate symbol for de-escalation—possessing the largest heart of any land mammal and a tall neck that allows it to see the bigger picture. By learning to put on your "giraffe ears," y...

In this powerhouse episode of All Things Conflict - Justice Redesigned, Maria Arpa sits down with the ultimate "legal disrupter," Courtney Teasley. With over 20 years of experience navigating the front lines of the American criminal defense network, Courtney realized that a critical, foundational education was completely missing for the general public—leaving individuals to frantically learn how t...

In this episode of All Things Conflict - Justice Redesigned, Maria Arpa sits down with Paul Hamilton, a principal lecturer in criminology at Nottingham Trent University, to dissect the critical structural cracks inside our criminal justice system. Drawing from his 15 years of academic research and teaching, Paul exposes why our current penal model is fundamentally failing both incarcerated individ...

In this deeply moving episode of All Things Conflict - Justice Redesigned, Maria Arpa sits down with Rachel Clara Reed, an independent documentary filmmaker turned accredited death doula and conflict facilitator. Rachel Clara Reed shares her organic path into this tender space, sparked by the sudden loss of her father when she was 18 and the isolating cultural silence that followed in its aftermat...

In this episode of All Things Conflict - Justice Redesigned, Maria sits down with Dr. Hussayn Salem, a modern polymath who successfully transitioned from a career in clinical science and stem cell gene therapy into contract law, tech entrepreneurship, and accredited dispute resolution. Hussayn opens up about his remarkable underdog journey growing up on a rough council estate in Leicester, where h...

In this episode of All Things Conflict - Justice Redesigned, Maria sits down for a deeply insightful conversation with Sir Max Hill KC, former Director of Public Prosecutions (DPP) and head of the Crown Prosecution Service (CPS) for England and Wales. With nearly 40 years of experience on both sides of the courtroom, Sir Max offers an unparalleled insider perspective on where our legal system succ...

Most conflicts never actually get resolved, they just go quiet until they resurface somewhere else. Philosopher Paul Baker returns for his fourth conversation with host Maria Arpa to unpack his developing theory of systemic win, built around a simple but powerful order: address what's worse before chasing what's better. Drawing on examples from couples therapy, prison work and restorative justice...

What if the one fact that could prove a man's innocence was buried for decades? At 6:09am on the morning of the White House Farm killings, a 999 call was made from inside the house — while Jeremy Bamber stood outside surrounded by armed police. After 41 years in prison, that detail may finally matter. In this episode of All Things Conflict, Maria Arpa is joined by innocence campaigner Phillip Walk...

Growing up in the care system shouldn't mean facing a lifetime of systemic hurdles, yet the narrative for care leavers hasn't changed in decades. This deeply moving conversation dives into the raw realities of childhood trauma, institutional failures, and the exhaustion of constantly fighting rigid systems that prefer scrutiny over support. From navigating residential care unprepared at twelve to...

In this thought-provoking episode of All Things Conflict, Maria Arpa welcomes back Robin Shohet, a leading expert on supervision in the helping professions, to explore the deep-seated societal urge to punish. They deconstruct why we are so invested in punitive systems that we know, pragmatically, do not work. The conversation moves from the "short, sharp shock" of the criminal justice system to th...

In this extraordinary episode of All Things Conflict, host Maria Arpa meets Abhishek Raj (known by the pseudonym Karma Gray), a 16-year-old criminology researcher and founder of The Crime Ledger. Based in India, Abhishek has been dedicated since the age of 12 to challenging the way crime is consumed as entertainment. The conversation dives deep into the dangers of "irresponsible journalism"—the ki...

In this episode of All Things Conflict - Justice Redesigned, Maria sits down with Andrea Gamson, a "force of nature" in the world of social impact. Andrea is the founder of Social Impact Support and the author of Social Starters, a book dedicated to helping professionals bridge the gap between corporate success and a life of meaning. Andrea shares her personal "12-year DIY career transition," movi...

In this solo episode of All Things Conflict, Maria explores the hidden dynamics of power and control within our most important communities. Using the vivid metaphor of "internal plumbing," Maria explains how failing to manage conflict is like building a house without a sewage system—eventually, the waste will come up through the floorboards. Maria breaks down the toxicity of hierarchical "power ov...

In this deeply personal and reflective solo episode of All Things Conflict - Justice Redesigned, Maria dives into one of the most discussed yet misunderstood topics in modern relationships: the narcissistic personality. Moving beyond the viral labels found on social media, Maria explores the underlying trauma and "survival mode" that drives narcissistic behavior and, more importantly, how we co-cr...

In this moving and high-impact episode of Justice Redesigned, Maria Arpa sits down with Chris Baker, founder of Aspire to Change. Chris shares a raw account of his journey from a childhood fascinated by his father’s criminal lifestyle to losing his arm in a high-speed police chase. Now a mentor and motivational speaker, Chris discusses how a chance meeting in prison with a Harvard-educated mentor...

In this compelling and high-stakes episode of All Things Conflict - Justice Redesigned, Maria Arpa sits down with Mark McDonald, the barrister currently leading the legal team for Lucy Letby. Convicted of the murder and attempted murder of multiple infants at the Countess of Chester Hospital, Letby’s case has become one of the most polarizing and complex in British legal history. Mark McDonald dis...