The Scaries with Matty Rossi

It’s the Season 2 finale of The Scaries, so we’re ending exactly how we should: catching up, answering the questions I’ve been avoiding, and getting into some of your latest Scaries. I’m recapping the end of summer — from Labor Day in P-Town and my sister’s engagement to surviving NYFW and preparing for Mykonos and the Berlin Marathon. Then I answer your unfiltered questions about coming out, dati...

This week, Matty is joined by Sam Cushing for his first-ever podcast appearance—and yes, he touches Matty’s wiener (Kirkland, obviously). Fresh off a Labor Day weekend in Fire Island, Sam is in NYC for Fashion Week to talk all things gay life, dating, getting older, and figuring out what you actually want. Matty and Sam get into Fire Island vs. Ptown, whether Sam could see himself moving back to N...

This week, Matty is joined by Bri Morales, former host of Are You Okay?, for a conversation that begs the question… are any of us actually okay? Bri talks about unexpectedly becoming the face of a viral interview series, what years of talking to strangers taught her about people (and herself), and why she ultimately decided to close that chapter and bet on what comes next. They also get into havin...

This week, Matty is joined by Summer House’s Levi Sebree to talk about building a life in New York City, her career in fashion and events, and the unexpected path that landed her on reality TV. Levi opens up about what made her say yes to Summer House, navigating the experience alongside longtime friend Bailey, and what viewers don’t always get to see when the cameras stop rolling. She also shares...

What does it actually take to find your personal style? This week, Matty is joined by men’s style creator and entrepreneur Ryan Clark (@RyanStylesNYC) to talk about dressing better, building a wardrobe you actually like, and using fashion as a tool for confidence and self-expression. Ryan breaks down where to start if you feel like you have no style, the biggest mistakes men make when getting dres...

What if finding your person has less to do with swiping and more to do with actually putting yourself out there? This week, I’m joined by Liv Schreiber, creator of Hot & Single, to talk about how to approach dating differently—from making a “husband list” and getting clear on what you actually want in a partner to creating more opportunities to meet people in real life. We get into dating app...

This week, Matty focuses on one Scary he’s received again and again: “I hate the way I look naked.” After years of gaining and losing weight, trying different diets, and figuring out how to make fitness fit into his life, Matty shares the five things that have helped him build a routine that actually lasts. He breaks down finding a workout you genuinely enjoy, setting measurable goals, figuring ou...

The last month has been a whirlwind—from Fourth of July in Provincetown to spending time with my family at our lake house in New Hampshire. In this episode, I’m catching you up on everything that’s happened while answering some of the most requested questions you’ve been sending in. We get into dating, relationships, friendships, and a lot of the personal questions I’ve never really addressed befo...

This week, Matt is joined by creator Benjamin Chipman for a conversation about navigating your twenties when everyone else seems to have it all figured out. From growing up in New England and navigating Boston’s unique gay scene to graduating during COVID and entering adulthood in a world full of uncertainty, they reflect on the experiences that shaped them. They share the biggest lessons they’ve...

I asked you to send me your most controversial assumptions, opinions, and theories about me… and you absolutely delivered. In this solo episode of  The Scaries , I’m rating your assumptions as  true, false, or it’s complicated  while opening up about the topics I don’t usually address online. We talk about whether I’m actually nice in person, being called a fame chaser, why I came out publicly, th...

This week, Matt is joined by creator, journalist, and Gen Me host Daniel Dana, who shares why he walked away from ABC News and Good Morning America to build a career on his own terms. They talk about Daniel’s surreal first interview with Vera Wang, learning by doing instead of waiting until you’re “ready,” the realities of becoming a creator, and why so many people feel stuck between a stable care...

Reality TV expert Zachary Reality joins  The Scaries  to break down everything happening in the world of reality television—from Love Island and Bachelor Nation to Bravo drama, behind-the-scenes tea, and the biggest stories on and off the screen. Matt and Zach discuss the future of  The Bachelor , the Amanda & West fallout, the ethics of spilling reality TV gossip, and which shows are actually...

Happy Father’s Day, Scaries. This week, Matt recaps Pride Month in NYC and shares his thoughts on Olivia Rodrigo’s new album before diving into some of the most unhinged listener submissions we’ve ever received. We’re talking accidental family encounters on dating apps, anonymous hookups gone horribly wrong, ankle bracelets in the bedroom, and the awkward reality of sleeping with someone only to e...

For week two of our Pride Month series, Matt reflects on the first year since coming out and shares the five things he wishes someone had told him beforehand. From fears that never came true, to navigating dating, friendship, identity, and self-worth, this is an honest, vulnerable, and occasionally chaotic look at what life has actually been like on the other side of the closet. Whether you’re LGB...

It’s officially Pride Month, and Billy Duke is back for the first episode of our Pride series. The two reflect on their friendship and the past year since Matt came out, sharing stories from their adventures, favorite memories, and everything that’s changed along the way. Plus, they reveal their official Pride Ins & Outs for 2026 and share their favorite gay bars in NYC. Also in this episode:...

The questions keep getting worse, so naturally we’re doing a Part 2. This week I’m answering more of your questions, including whether I’d ever start an OnlyFans, addressing the rumors about my shlong, and the biggest differences between dating men and dating women. I also rank some of NYC’s most overrated and underrated spots and share a few opinions that will probably get me into trouble. No gue...

This week Matt is joined by TJ Dinch from Southern Hospitality for a chaotic episode covering everything from reality TV drama to… wieners. TJ spills all the tea on the latest season, what’s ahead for the finale, and what it’s actually like filming reality television. The two also tease Matt’s appearance this season and debate who the better kisser is: Justin or Michols. Plus: hookup horror storie...

This week starts with Matt getting a DM from Troye Sivan… and somehow spirals into a full breakdown on the long-term effects of growing up queer. From people pleasing and chasing unavailable people to body dysmorphia, validation seeking, perfectionism, and “Perfect Boy Syndrome” — the pressure many queer men feel to be attractive, successful, likable, emotionally easy, and constantly impressive ju...

This week on The Scaries: a long overdue life update episode. Matt recaps his first ever Coachella experience, including the ticket scam situation that spiraled into one of the most viral videos he’s ever posted — plus all the behind-the-scenes chaos that came with it. Then it’s straight from the desert to Boston Marathon weekend, reflecting on one year since coming out to his parents, what person...

This week on  The Scaries , Matt is joined by comedian, podcaster, and social media personality Joey Camasta (aka best friend of Nicole ‘Snooki’ Polizzi) for one of the most unhinged episodes to date. They dive into their absolute WORST hookup stories — from chaotic run-ins with Häagen-Dazs delivery drivers to Matt’s infamous “bathroom wall incident” after a questionable dinner decision. It’s mess...

The Scaries is joined by Eric Goldie, social media personality and real estate agent. We get into all things Real Housewives, the Bachelorette cancellation, and the art of putting expensive purchases on your husband’s credit card. He also shares the story of getting robbed at gunpoint and enlightens us on horses on Ozempic.

First solo episode of Season 2 and we’re getting into it. I finally answer the questions I’ve been actively dodging — from my full dating history since coming out to my type, celebrity crushes, and the realities of life in NYC vs. Boston. We also get into some unhinged moments including how I got banned from a Four Seasons and a few stories that probably didn’t need more detail… but you’re getting...

Billy Duke is back for his FOURTH appearance — our most recurring guest, resident twink, and still somehow the second most requested to return guest. We get updates on his love life, life as a twink in WeHo, and dive into the chaos of the NYC gay dating scene. As expected, it spirals into red flags, questionable advice, and pure chaos.

Max Cohen (aka Murray Hill Boy) joins me for one of the most chaotic episodes of the season. We get into what it was like growing up on Long Island in a Jewish household, including the time he and his brother absolutely destroyed the family computer (yes… exactly how you’re thinking). We talk about coming out at a young age in the most nonchalant way possible, being a full-on theater kid, and how...

Season 2 is here and we’re starting with a bang. Jake Eldridge joins me for a long overdue conversation where we finally address the dating rumors, break down our types, biggest icks, and the realities of dating in 2026. We get into NYC nightlife, how we first met, and some of the funniest (and most unhinged) advice we’ve given each other along the way. Jake also opens up about his journey—from be...