Project Alpha

He was born the year World War II ended — a child of a rebuilding Britain and a generation learning to survive. Alfred Calvert Gerrity grew up in a nation of rationing, discipline, and pride. But decades later, after a broken marriage and a life filled with regret, he found himself in the Saudi desert… holding a Bible that would change everything. In this deeply moving Soul episode, Alfred shares...

I was a mega womaniser. I never had one girlfriend — I had many. Now I’m a pastor... and I still don’t trust myself.”In this brutally honest conversation, Benoit Bobgam-Moussy — born in Martinique, raised in Cameroon, and now living in the UK — shares how God transformed his life from lust and chaos to love and purpose. We talk about identity, discipline, fatherhood, and why true freedom comes onl...

“Doctors were on strike—my father died.”At 14, that tragedy pushed Dr. Ife to medicine. Decades later, he became a consultant psychiatrist, earned a PhD at King’s, and now serves as CEO of NHS Oxleas—after battling discrimination, self-doubt, and doors slammed with, “We won’t employ people like you.”⏱️ CHAPTERS00:00 – The Night My Father Died During a Doctors’ Strike05:00 – Boarding School at 9: D...

“Girls like bad boys.” That’s what she believed… until heartbreak, distance, and faith rewrote her story. What happens when your plans for singleness, your “type,” and even your list to God get turned upside down by love you didn’t expect? In this unfiltered conversation, we share our 10-year journey: growing up in two different worlds (Nigeria & New York), the breakups that almost broke us, t...

"Even if you preach forever, I’d rather die a Muslim."That’s what Pastor Dele Balogun once told a Christian brother… until one encounter with God changed everything. Today, Pastor Dele is the Special Assistant to the General Overseer (Admin) of RCCG, a professor, and a pastor. But his story begins in a polygamous Muslim home with 23 siblings, fierce persecution from his father, and the t...

Families are breaking, fathers are silent, and culture is louder than truth. This isn’t just a personal story — it’s a wake-up call. Silence is no longer an option. In this raw conversation with Sam Oladende, we uncover what it means to grow up as the “favorite child,” lose both parents at 11, fall into silence, and fight through grief, hustle, and immigration. Now a new father, Sam shares why fat...

What happens when you grow up in a polygamous family, wrestle with faith in an African Indigenous church, then migrate to the UK as a missionary — only to face the challenge of leading multicultural churches as a black pastor? Dr. Israel Olofinjana’s story is one of faith, identity, and resilience. From the prayers of his mother in Nigeria to planting churches in the UK, he reveals what it means t...

What happens when your father is physically present but emotionally absent? For Timidayo, that painful reality became the fuel to become a different kind of father — one who refuses to disappear from his children’s lives. In this powerful conversation, Timidayo shares how a praying mother shaped his destiny, how he broke a generational pattern of late marriages, and why he risked everything — even...

She lost her father as a child. Her mother, widowed with nine children, sold everything to keep them in school. She hawked food in the streets to survive. Then, just when she could repay her mother’s sacrifice, tragedy struck again. This is the raw, unfiltered story of a woman who endured poverty, loss, betrayal, and the cold unknown of a foreign land — yet built a legacy of resilience, faith, and...

He was told he might never walk. Then he was bullied, mocked, and written off. But Tumi Sotire found purpose in the pain—and now he's changing the world. Tumi Sotire, founder of The Black Dyspraxic, shares his raw and redemptive journey—from being diagnosed with dyspraxia at age 4, to surviving brutal bullying, to becoming an award-winning health economist and global advocate. In this powerful...

He carries one of the most powerful names in modern Christianity—but behind the honor is a lifetime of hidden battles, leadership scars, and a commitment to serve when no one’s watching. Pastor Richard Adeboye opens up about growing up without a father, the grit of his single mother, and the unexpected moments that confirmed his calling. From a student leader to Assistant Continental Overseer, his...

Rejected by a bride’s father because he wasn’t on Google. Vikram wasn’t building a brand—he was building credibility. In a culture where marriage is often arranged, reputation is everything. So when one family Googled him and found nothing, they ghosted. His solution? Build a website. And it worked. This funny-yet-eye-opening story uncovers the tension between modern love, ancient customs, family...

What if the thing you loved most was the very thing keeping you from God? Pastor Olufemi believed he was already a Christian — raised in church, wearing a gold necklace gifted by his grandmother. But when he lost both chains and the Holy Spirit whispered, “You have another god,” everything changed. In this soul-awakening conversation, Pastor Olufemi shares how a necklace became his idol, how nearl...

At just 14, Pastor Adedayo Phillips lost his father—and with him, everything they had. From private schools to begging for public school admission. From comfort to chaos. In this gripping conversation, he opens up about grief, fatherhood, purpose, and the power of joy beyond pain. 🔑 In This Episode, You’ll Discover:How he went from legacy to loss to leadershipThe moment he realized he had to “bec...

What happens when faith is forged in fire—through military discipline, spiritual confusion, and a divided home? Born in a Nigerian army barracks to a Muslim father and Christian mother, Pastor Titus shares a powerful journey from spiritual warfare and crippling low self-esteem to bold prophetic purpose. This isn't just a testimony—it's a web of discovery of identity, fatherhood, legacy, an...

What do you do when the unimaginable happens? From legal chambers to the pulpit, Pastor Richard’s life was one of purpose and impact—until one phone call changed everything. In this powerful and deeply moving episode, Pastor Richard shares his journey from a loving childhood in Ibadan to becoming a respected legal mind, church planter, and father. But the moment that tested everything? Losing his...

From skipping school to play in the streets… to becoming a doctor across three continents — Dr. Ken’s story is nothing short of miraculous. Born in the chaos of Warri, Nigeria, and raised in the harshest streets, he defied every odd: depression, academic sabotage, racism, corruption, and poverty. But what changed his life forever? A spiritual prophecy… and a prayerful mother who refused to give up...

From refusing sex-for-settlement to enduring months in detention — Emmanuel’s story is a gritty, spirit-led journey of integrity, fatherhood, and faith under fire. Born in Nigeria, raised in a disciplined Christian home, Emmanuel walked the tightrope between street smarts and spiritual legacy. But nothing could prepare him for the trials ahead: denied visa extensions, faced with deportation, separ...

From being denied childhood play to leading tech teams across continents — Tunji’s story is a raw, faith-filled journey of fatherhood, resilience, and obedience. Born in Nigeria, he grew up under the close mentorship of his father, self-funded his Master's Degree in China despite not knowing the language, and later found himself leading a global career rooted in faith and grit. But his most po...

From one room in Lagos to leading a tech team in the UK, Ifeoluwa’s story is a powerful mix of resilience, faith, and family. In this episode, we explore his journey from teaching himself code in Nigeria to building a purposeful life as a tech leader and devoted father. This is a story about self-belief, the power of mentorship, and raising children with intentional love and legacy.👉 Subscribe fo...

In this conversation, Bennet Morka shares insights into his life as an InfoSec specialist and a devoted family man. He discusses his upbringing in a Christian household, the importance of family, and his parenting philosophy that emphasizes love, discipline, and open communication. Bennett reflects on various aspects of family life, including the challenges of navigating school transitions for chi...

In this candid episode, entrepreneur Richard Allen shares how he went from local market hustles to building a 7-figure Amazon business. He dives deep into parenting, trust in partnerships, setbacks, scaling, and finding meaning beyond money. Whether you’re starting out or contemplating your next big leap, this is packed with honest advice and powerful reflections. 🎙️ Key Topics: Building trust in...

God Told Us About Our Daughter Before She Was Conceived | Isaac Adejuwon In this Soul episode, we sit down with Isaac Adejuwon as he shares his powerful journey—from growing up in a polygamous household in Nigeria to becoming a DevOps engineer with a master’s in cybersecurity in the UK. Isaac opens up about childhood moments that shaped his diplomatic nature, his early interest in politics, and ho...

In this episode of Soul , Dr. Tosin Obata shares his remarkable story—from his early days in Nigeria to navigating academia and eventually building a successful property empire in the UK. He opens up about the struggles and triumphs of switching careers, the role of faith in his decision-making, and how he balances entrepreneurship with family life. This is a must-listen for anyone seeking inspira...

Soul Episode 05: What Happens to Boys Without Fathers? A Psychiatrist’s Powerful Story In this hard-hitting episode, we go beyond the scoreboard to tackle a different kind of challenge—what happens to boys growing up without a father figure? Dr. Adebayo Erinfolami, a top psychiatrist, shares his journey from a tough childhood to becoming a leader in mental health. We break down the mental game of...