Make Your Damn Bed

If you believe it’s all hopeless, you are correct. It is hopeless. If you believe there is hope for a better tomorrow - you are correct, there is hope for a better tomorrow. You can’t see what you’re not looking for and if you’re not looking for the best possible outcome, you’ll never receive it. This is why I find it so incredibly deep and powerful to be able to address the most optimistic aspect...

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Mutual aid participants work together to figure out strategies and resources to meet each other's needs, such as food, housing, medical care, and disaster relief, while organizing themselves against the system that created the shortage in the first place. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/make-your-damn-bed . Hosted on Acast...

Equality means everyone is treated the same exact way, regardless of need or any other individual difference. Equity, on the other hand, means everyone is provided with what they need to succeed.  Equity takes into account every person’s individual needs. It evens the playing field so that everyone has the same chance of succeeding, regardless of whatever potential hindrances may have originally s...

Restricting doesn’t work. Live fully. At full volume. Intentionally. Be laid back in the results but don’t be afraid to voice what you really want. Because when you hold back — you’re only serving to hold yourself back in the process.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/make-your-damn-bed . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/priv...

Try the restaurant. Book the vacation. Share the date if you’re really desperate for the company but fuck me if you don’t stop wasting your life in hopes that someday someone will want to live your IDEAL life with you. You already have that person who wants to experience your life with you - it’s you bitch. Go play. Go indulge. Stop putting it off. Use the expensive lotion. Book the nicer hotel. S...

if I’d do it for a man who betrayed me - I should definitely not hesitate to do it for me who would never betray me.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/make-your-damn-bed . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

As you get more comfortable understanding what brings you that long term joy - you will also stop avoiding the things that can get you there faster - thus bringing in more and more opportunities for more and more joy.  Having faith literally increases your ability to have more faith. So lean in - trust that the universe has your back - and take some risks for your highest good. You’re worth the ri...

If you avoid people for fear they will make you deal with the bad shit once in a while you are gonna have to face the cold hard truth that you will miss out on all the good shit too.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/make-your-damn-bed . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Don’t limit yourself because you might get hurt by connecting with people - you will guarantee that hurt by avoiding connection.  Be kind. Lead with love. Remember hurt people hurt people and your energy can diffuse a situation and really change people’s lives if you’re tactful with it. Be tactful. Protect your energy and show others how they can too. Take care of yourself and take care of others....

While we definitely cant save the world if we put it all in our own hands - we should NEVER doubt our personal power. Stand up for the planet, the future, and yourself by becoming more conscious and less impulsive with your daily choices for the next few weeks and see how good it feels to take steps towards preserving this majestic planet.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adch...

 Having an opinion about everything isn’t necessary all the time. Sometimes, we may just want to listen. Sometimes we are around people we don’t feel super comfortable sharing our opinions around, sometimes we may not have an opinion on the subject at all - it doesn’t matter what the reason - as long as we understand that it’s not our job to entertain, educate, or inform anyone of anything when we...

Take advantage of the times when your energy is looking to serve a future you, as opposed to the now you - by leaning into the moments when you can delay your reward and create a longer window of enjoyment, peace and bliss for yourself.  Find what feels good not only in the moment - but in the long term as well.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support this show http...

The system is programmed to steal your resources just as it is programmed to steal the earth’s resources. They’re fracking you for labor and consumerism.  Start by protecting your own resources. Your energetic, creative, intellectual, conversational, financial, emotional, physical resources are all incredibly valuable just like your time - and all of those resources deserved to be treated as such....

Avoiding communication is one of the fastest ways to feel isolated in a room full of people. Bring yourself closer to the people in your life, by being honest with them and respecting them enough to trust them with knowing what is on your mind.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/make-your-damn-bed . Hosted on Acast. See acas...

 You’re a good human regardless of if you’ve charmed the socks off of everyone around you or not. Stop exhausting yourself and those around you with this unspoken pressure to be the star of every experience. You can step up and ask questions - but if it’s not comfortable for either party - what is the damned point?  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support this show h...

If you have the energy - don’t be afraid to step up and fill needs before they need to be filled as long as you remember that it’s not your responsibility to be useful all of the time or ever, honestly. Instead of thinking you always have to be of use, allow yourself to simply be - and remember your worth remains unflinching - even when you aren’t the one to save the damned day.  Learn more about...

Just like a baby’s cry - we may not initially know what need needs tending to but the more we learn about an individual the more we may understand about their cries and appropriately be able to decipher between them. That said, it’s not our job to pick up for everyone else. The only person you are responsible for is yourself. Being the caretaker for everyone around you is not only taxing, but impo...

Even those people you truly believe have their shit together - don’t. Everyone is simply trying their best and there are certain things that every single human struggles with. No exceptions. Sure, some people have advantages that have set them ahead. Some people have good role models to show them the way. Some people have more time, money, and resources to get them ahead. But even still, with ever...

If all you want to do on vacation is eat sleep and read - start doing that shit now instead of waiting to spend all your money on that trip to Bali where youre gonna end up doing the same shit. I have talked about the importance of finding the vacation in your day to day but now I am encouraging you to create it.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support this show htt...

When was the last time you detoxified your energy from other humans? When was the last time you went into the woods or the beach or the lake or the park all by your damn self? When was the last time you were in charge of all of your decisions? When was the last time you were in control and actually TOOK control with your best interest at heart?  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm...

Do that shit for yourself. What would make you feel the best coming from another person? You’re not by yourself, you get to be with yourself for yourself. Do that shit for yourself.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/make-your-damn-bed . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

There shouldn’t be shame around breaking up with a person at any age - what there should be shame around is choosing and settling for a person you are completely unsatisfied and unhappy with just because you have a deadline to fill. Heartbreaks suck so bad because the joy that lies in sharing your heart with someone is so fuckin’ amazing. Why would you want to miss out on the magic just because yo...

Heartbreaks suck so bad because the joy that lies in sharing your heart with someone is so fuckin’ amazing. Why would you want to miss out on the magic just because you may have to do some crying and healing and growing after?? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/make-your-damn-bed . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for...

 I trust that my path is aligning with my best interest and that includes aligning me with a partner that is an appropriate match for me.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/make-your-damn-bed . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.