Heart Talk With Ronke

Each family on earth is responsible for the kind of people we have in our society, a child who doesn't have a proper upbringing will misbehave in the society. Families owe the society to ensure their job is done properly, this will really reduce the rate of crime and atrocity committed on a daily basis. We can do better

It's necessary for every parent/guardian to be intentional with how they raise their children, being intentional means we'll be involved, being involved means we'll be available to guide them properly.

The way we communicate love matters a lot

When you inflict pain on a child, that isn't discipline anymore but an abuse. Discipline should be done in love and not anger.

Some parents are comfortable with transferring their responsibilities to their first child, the child isn't allowed to be a child anymore but a compulsory adult

Some parents usually ensures their children don't do any chores at home, they make them totally dependent on domestic staffs which isn't right

Some parents forces their children to get married to a wealthy person because of what they stand to gain

Parents who don't have good value will train their children to be like that, they don't mind pushing their children to do what's wrong just so they get what they want

Parents can deliberately teach their children to work diligently and to do what the kind of job they can be proud of

Spouses don't have to talk down on each other before their children or try to tarnish each others images before their kids

Parents shouldn't use their children as settlement for a loan they are unable to pay back

Parents should try and train their children by themselves, and with what they can afford

Parents should be deliberate about having this conversation with their children

It's really important that parents teaches their children what they ought, we shouldn't leave sex education to schools because they don't usually teach all they should.

Parents who are fond of speaking negative words to their children or calling their children names that isn't right, those words are not healthy at all. They damage instead of repair

The kind of words spoken to children by their parents or guardian can either shape the child's life positively or negatively

Parents should instill discipline in their children early enough, they don't have to sweep things under the carpet but correct immediately.

How you communicate or how you're involved in your children growth matters, someone who has really showed interest will know how best to help when the need arises

Some parents bring up their children to always compete

Some guys grow up to think every woman they come in contact to is inferior to them, this can lead to disrespecting the female

It's important for parents to pass the right kind of message across to their children. Wrong impression can become doctrine of not corrected

Parents should be the practical example of what they teach their children

Some parents feel it's wise to live their dreams through the children. Parents should pay attention to their children, so they know where the child's interest is

Some children get involved in bad things because of peer pressure, the reason will be the kind of people they're surrounded with

Some parents train their children to be competitive, such that they always feel they're in competition with people.