Conversations With Yaya

Sometimes a man just needs a woman to show him the way, ask the right questions that will make him open up. He's a good man Savannah. Have the patience to dig past what your eyes can see.

Have your standards, stand on it. But ladies, I love yawl so much I need to tell you the truth. Sometimes you don't know what you want and it will or has cost you a good man. Care to admit it? Let's talk like adults.

Though this is the end of Domestic Violence awareness month, we know that that this is an ongoing issue. Please show some compassion. I know that it will never be you you're not dumb, no man could ever, but unfortunately some women are experiencing this in real time and they're not dumb either. God bless us all. If you see something, please say something.

I'm not trying to break up your happy home but come on man.... This can't be life, this can't be love, there's gotta be more.

Can we talk? They didn't just wake up like this. Something was going on from way back and only you can tell us. What signs did you ignore or are you ignoring when it comes to your child(ren)? #parentsofabusers #neglect #rejection #discipline #domesticviolenceawarenessmonth

Dating has become so scary these days. Women would rather, Choose the Bear! Let's discuss

Let's talk about Financial, Emotional and Sexual violence. All of which can occur in an abusive relationship. FYI Yes, it is still rape even if he is your husband or boyfriend.

I know that saying your man runs a strict program is supposed to be a flex, but sometimes it isn't the flex that you think it is. Pay attention to how YOU begin to change and the things you Stop doing once you're in a relationship. Possession and Protection are two different things.

Candi Stanton wrote that hit song after her husband dangled her over a 20 story balcony in Vegas threatening to kill her. She told him the hotel was owned by the mob and they would kill him for bringing this type of press to their business. He then pulled her up and pulled a gun on her. Thank God she survived. And thank God for this song. The lyrics hit different now, don't they?

This question is often asked with judgement. But take the time to understand what's going on inside the mind of an abused woman and just how dangerous these men are. We see it on the news every single day, women are being murdered for trying to leave their abuser. So, though you don't understand and, " it could never be you " let's practice some compassion.

After the chaos, after the healing, after the silence…How do you show up for someone you care about once their rough season ends? And how do you open the door when they try to show up for you? There’s no one‑size‑fits‑all answer. It’s layered. Have a listen — let’s unpack it together.

One of the main mistakes people in abusive relationships make is trying to love their abuser into becoming a different person. They try to FIX their abuser. No matter what you do, you can't change someone that is committed to abusing you. Save your love Save yourself THEY DONT LIKE YOU THEY DONT LIKE YOU THEY DONT LIKE YOU The Abuse will only stop when you LEAVE. I wrote a whole book about it titl...

Do not let it be lost on you that your friend group or friendships can be abusive too. Watch out for those mean girls that are quick to put you on blast rather than put you on. Or quick to call you out rather than call you inward. No form of abuse should be tolerated in any relationship that you have. Thats not love or respect, its humiliation. You deserve love and respect!

Domestic Violence Awareness Month means speaking on the hard things — and today, I’m sitting down with Sexpert Kimi Levadge @Kimilevadge to break open the connection between domestic violence and sexual abuse. These conversations save lives. These truths matter. We’re here to educate, empower, and make sure survivors know they’re not alone. You can purchase my story of survival, Full Circle - A Re...

DV has a cycle called Psychological Conditioning, meant to confuse you, isolate you, and make chaos feel normal. The four stages are:tension - you can feel it in the air!!! Its coming! You begin walking around on eggshellsincident - the abuse occursreconciliation - apologies, "love", being treated nicely and softcalm - everything settles down and seemingly goes back to normal When you recognize th...

This month on the podcast, I’m diving into the realities of domestic violence, relationships, mental health, sexual abuse and the conversations we don’t have enough. October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month, and I’m using this space to spread knowledge, deepen understanding, and highlight the layers of this epidemic that often get overlooked — beyond just protecting our women. Join me as we un...

I don't know about you. But I don't want nor do I need any yes men in my life nor will I be in anyone's life that requires that of me. I'm too old for that nonsense. what about you?

It's time to stop going back and forth with people thinking that they can disrespect you. Put an end to it.

Is it a scam or is it necessary? I guess it depends on what YOU need. Let's discuss.

I posted a video about the man you're in a relationship with being the possible monitoring spirit that you can't identify and a friend mine had some things today. Ladies and gents, Sexpert Kimi Levadge lol @kimilevadge

The topic of monitoring spirits always relates to friends and family, but what about that man that you share a bed, child, vows with... Why isn't he ever on the docket?

When I stopped making my own plans and demands, God stepped in in a major way for me. I hope that he does the same for you!

Ladies is it just me? What is it about getting closer to 50 or actually turning 50 that really takes away all of your fux to give? What is happening? Whatever it is, I like it, what about you?

I hear you screaming no more drama, but why are you always in some?

We sometimes lose ourselves in life, responsibilities, relationships, all of these things and etc. It's time to come back outside now darling. Streets need a body.