Broken Together

Separation Agreement 13.10.2026 19:27 ↓

Separation agreement is meant to build trust, and give you both the space to rebuild from within.

DARVO 07.10.2026 20:04 ↓

D-Denial A-Attack R-V-Reverse Victim O-Offender

AVOID TRIGGERS 30.09.2026 19:45 ↓

Getting to know how your body/mind react to triggers.

Honesty at its best 23.09.2026 20:15 ↓

"You're only as sick as your secrets". 12 Step Groups

Radical Transformation-2 16.09.2026 20:17 ↓

A check point for negative and self-destructive talk and behaviors

Radical Transformation 02.09.2026 20:43 ↓

Transformation evolves through the ability to be genuinely authentic and radically honest.

Getting to know your addiction 25.08.2026 19:14 ↓

The CDQ's Core Dialogue Queries, take you through 40 days of dialogue between you, the healthy recovering you and the addict. This is from Patrick Carnes "Recovery Start"

Reed's Story 12.08.2026 20:30 ↓

Using the "Core Dialogues" you can gain an understanding of how and why your addiction came to exist and take on a life of it's own.

Be of Sober Mind 05.08.2026 19:07 ↓

Recovery is a life long journey

A Reflective Heart 29.07.2026 18:29 ↓

A letter from my husband, written with a fully surrendered heart.

Recovery with a Covenant 22.07.2026 19:19 ↓

It is not your partners responsibility to police the work you do or not in your recovery process; commit yourself to figuring out your own consequences if you violate the covenant between the two of you.

Sticky Notes 10.06.2026 19:15 ↓

The "Sticky Note" exercise exemplifies the losses and cost effect for partners to stay or not.

Wait with Expectation 03.06.2026 21:36 ↓

Having patience is a virtue. It does not come natural for most of us. Digging in the trenches of our lives require that we sit in stillness, while God is doing something supernatural of our lives. Waiting for deliverance is the hard work of our salvation. We want it to be over and NOW, yet---God's plan is not our plan....know that you are loved and being transformed into the likeness of our God.

Silence in Worship 20.05.2026 19:26 ↓

Abbott Pastor said: Any trial whatever comes to you can be conquered by silence." (Scazzero, Emotionally Healthy Spirituality)

Taking time to know yourself 13.05.2026 19:51 ↓

Taking time to know yourself is a process of knowing God to know thyself.

Effects of Shame 06.05.2026 19:26 ↓

Maintaining Balance in Recovery

Which Circle are you in? 29.04.2026 18:29 ↓

Relational Circles, staying in the outer circle to create more space for recovery.

Looking back to move forward 18.04.2026 19:31 ↓

An important part of recovery is to look back into your childhood and pull up painfull memories, so you can began to process how they impacted you in the hear and now.

Helping you Heal 17.03.2026 19:33 ↓

Healing through the trauma in your life. Let's start by writing your own personal mission statement and what it means to you.

Brotherhood/Accountability 03.03.2026 19:34 ↓

Completion of the "Amends Matrix" and what it means to have accountability within the brotherhood.

AMENDS MATRIX 23.02.2026 19:40 ↓

Having to say your sorry is a process of leaning into the offended's story, their thoughts and feelings. What makes them hurt over your thoughts, behaviors and actions. Take the time to know yourself and feel the pain of making an amends using the 7 Steps of the Amends Matrix (Jason Martinkus).

12 Step Program-2- Making an Amends 23.02.2026 19:23 ↓

Step 8 speaks into making an amend, using the "Amends Matrix" is a thorough apology.

The 12 Steps to Recovery and Healing 02.02.2026 19:43 ↓

Some of our hardest moments are when we reach the" bottom of the pit," this is exactly what Bill Wilson cried out, "if there is a God let him show himself, I am ready to do anything, anything." Wilson is the founder of AA.

Shame 11 25.01.2026 19:32 ↓

History of your emotions. Learn what its like to recognize shame and turn it around before it consumes you and robs you of a precious moment to repair.

Shame on the Brain 19.01.2026 19:52 ↓

Knowing the effects of shame on the brain and body