Almost 20: a journey to self

I’ve looked under my bed, under my table and refreshed my bank app multiple times, I still haven’t found my 15k. SIWES is an internship scheme in Nigeria that mandates students in their penultimate year to go outside the campus and get real-world experience related to their course of study. The cherry on top of this program is that at the end of it, you get 15 thousand naira to compensate whatever...

I thought getting braces was going to be an easy Journey, I really did, but two upper and lower right extractions in followed by painful swallowing and a swollen cheek and I’m starting to understand that beauty really is pain. In this episode, I talk about my experience getting an extraction because of a tooth discomfort and, suddenly because of getting braces as well.  My Instagram: @_guymar...

Hey you, sorry I haven't posted episodes in a while. From my birthday to my final exams to signing out of university, it's been a lot. I'm sending you this episode to let you know that I haven't forgotten about you and that we have some catching up to do. Also, for some reason, people have a hard time believing that I just turned 19, not 20. The podcast won't be stopping anytime soon, I guess that...

In this engaging conversation, Destiny and Guy-Martins explore the intersections of creativity, technology, and Nigerian culture. Destiny Timothy is a Tech Founder, Product Manager, and Community Leader with years of experience in the field of technology. They discuss the impact of resource access, the role of awards in art recognition, and the unique challenges faced by Nigerian creatives, offeri...

"My brother's wife and I had an affair, and I loved it". "My best friend of 29 years didn't attend my wedding and slept with my husband". "This is something I'll never tolerate in my life as a man/woman."  These are often the themes, topics, and conversations of 90% of podcasts I've seen, and then there's me, who talks about missing your ex-friend. I've been wondering whether this podcast and the...

Whenever someone says they're not into religion or they're not spiritual, they're often seen as lost people or souls that desperately need saving. If you've ever felt stung by religion, this one is for you. In this episode, I talk about very real reasons why people fall back from religion. Are there any requirements needed to listen to this episode? Just an open mind.  My Instagram: @_guymartins M...

After my first semester examinations, I’ve been focused on some really important task—watching anime. I talk about my goals for this mini break as we review my movie/series watchlist together.  New Episodes—Every Sunday, Bi-weekly My Instagram: @_guymartins My TikTok: @_guymartins Podcast's Instagram: @almost20podcast Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information ab...

Have you ever cut off someone from your life, a friend perhaps, and then a long while after the fallout, missed them terribly? Does missing people who you’ve cut off from your life mean you haven’t moved on? I talk about this on today’s episode.  My Instagram: @_guymartins My TikTok: @_guymartins Podcast's Instagram: @almost20podcast New Episodes—Every Sunday, Bi-weekly   Hosted by Simplecast, an...

Dating, Money, Communication — You Asked, I’m Answering A few episodes ago, I asked you guys to send in your dilemmas anonymously, and you did not disappoint. In this episode, I’ll be answering the questions you sent regarding dating, ambition, communication, and “figuring it out.” My Instagram: @_guymartins My TikTok: @_guymartins Podcast's Instagram: @almost20podcast New Episodes—Every Sunday, B...

Are you constantly putting other people’s needs before your own? Struggling to turn down favors you know you absolutely don't have to accept? This episode is for you! I’ve always been a people pleaser, and it took me a while before I could drop a huge chunk of my people-pleasing attributes/tendencies. In this episode, I share with you tips that I used to help me stop being a people pleaser.  My In...

Aside from being consistently molested and raped by mosquitoes, and now suddenly having typhoid, I redownloaded TikTok.  A few months ago, I heavily reduced my TikTok usage to save my mental health and help me achieve my goals more efficiently. But my goals have changed. To become the public figure I aspire to be, I have to be visible. I talk about this on today's episode.  Here is the anonymous l...

I've had this insecurity for so long, and I finally decided that enough is actually enough. I talk about this on today's episode. Guy's Instagram: @_guymartins Podcast's Instagram: @almost20podcast New Episodes—Every Sunday, Bi-weekly!   Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Do you want to lose weight?  Have you ever experienced fat phobia?  Does it feel like you're on this endless cycle of losing weight and then gaining it right back? In this conversation, Guy sits with certified health coach and founder of the Weight Loss Fairy brand, Toria, who shares her personal journey of losing weight and becoming a certified health coach. She talks about the importance of self...

Today I’m joined by the SUG president of Rivers State University and we have a really deep and wonderful conversation revolving around everything leadership, from how to handle positions of leadership, to facing doubts as a leader, to the decisions behind the SUG week to insights on what being a leader truly means!  My exclusive Yonju Labs 10% discount link: bit.ly/yonjulabs_almost20 Check out Yon...

If you've ever been fat-shamed or talked down on because of your body weight, you'll resonate with this episode. Fat phobia isn't something new, it's been around for a very long time. I talk about this on this episode. Guy's Instagram: @_guymartins Podcast's Instagram: @ almost20podcast New Episodes—Every Sunday, Bi-weekly!   Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for inform...

It's one thing to breakup with a friend, it's another thing to actually take the time to process what had happened and learn the lessons from that friendship breakup. Today I share with you the lessons I've learnt from my friendship breakups and hopefully it helps whoever it needs to help. My exclusive Yonju Labs 10% discount link: bit.ly/yonjulabs_almost20 Check out Yonju Labs on their socials @y...

There's this pressure to have everything figured out, especially when concluding the academic phase of your life.   In this episode, I share tips that would help ease off the pressure, enabling you shape your own path with clarity, and create for yourself a sense of direction and control.   Guy's Instagram: @_guymartins Podcast's Instagram: @almost20podcast New Episodes—Every Sunday, Bi-weekly!  ...

If you've ever felt sad and never known why, this episode is for you. I've felt this way for a long time and I decided to talk about it.  Background music: “Chill Chords” by Dynamite, via Pixabay.  Podcast's Instagram: @almost20podcast Guy's Instagram: @_guymartins New Episodes — Every Sunday, Bi-weekly! Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collec...

In this heartfelt conversation, Esther, or Essie as I like to call her, and I continue from the solo episode I released a few episodes ago on the challenges of being a Christian and when religion feels confusing. We speak from a Christian perspective about a lot of topics, including the various challenges young Christians face in this religion and the importance of ensuring your religion is one th...

This is an age-old debate: social media. It’s everywhere, it affects all of us, and in this episode, I’m gonna be breaking it down to figure out whether it's only beneficial or detrimental, whether it’s really helping us become better versions of ourselves, or just holding us back. Guy's Instagram : @_guymartins Podcast's Instagram : @almost20podcast   Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See...

Do you find yourself constantly putting others' needs before your own? Struggling to turn down favors you know you absolutely don't have to accept? This episode is for you! In this episode, my guest Ola and I have a genuine conversation on the topic of People Pleasing. We explore the journey of being a people pleaser, from figuring out if you are one to understanding the deep roots of this behavio...

I've always had the feeling that if I were to add background music to my solo episodes, I might actually die, like I might click upload and then pass out. Today I talk about the suggestions you guys made to me about adding background music to the podcast and hopefully we find a middle ground where I don’t die and the podcast still sounds good. Guy's Instagram: @_guymartins Podcast's Instagram: @_A...

New Episode Every Two Weeks! Hey youu! I'm joined by Precious, a final-year computer science student, and she sheds light on her university experience. She shares practical advice for incoming students, revealing the importance of exploring beyond academics. We discuss the often overlooked need for rest, the benefits of engaging in school life, and the reality of transitioning to the 'real world'...

Today, I'm joined by Goodness, and we discuss everything you need to know about solo dating. New episode every two weeks!!!Almost 20  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/almost20podcast/profilecard/?igsh=MTJydXU3MW11Z2s3ZQ== Guy's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_guymartins/profilecard/?igsh=MWw1d2picmxsY3Qycg== Goodness's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/goodie._itz?igsh=M2Eyc3A0ZnZzZWV...

Ever wondered whether you are actually surrounded by the right people? This episode is for you who's on your self development journey and you wonder if you are in the right circle. You're wondering if the weird feeling you feel in your chest and stomach around your “friends” means something and you are looking for signs that you are actually surrounded by the right people.  Almost 20 Instagram : h...