The Backdoor Podcast

The Things We Do When We're Feeling Unloved What happens when you start feeling like your partner doesn’t love you the way they used to? In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast , we break down the things people often do when they’re feeling unloved, disconnected, or emotionally neglected—sometimes without even realizing why they’re acting differently. We talk about the subtle ways feeling unloved...

Things We Judge Our Partners For But Not Ourselves | Ep. 81 Are we actually holding our partners to the same standards we hold ourselves to? In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we get honest about the relationship habits, behaviors, and double standards we’re quick to judge in our partners while giving ourselves a pass. We talk about the things that can create tension in relationships, includ...

In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we dive into one of the biggest questions couples ask themselves: Are we actually sexually compatible? We discuss: • What sexual compatibility really means (and what it doesn't) • Whether compatibility is something you're born with or something you build together • Signs you and your partner may be sexually compatible • Common causes of mismatched libidos •...

Things Men Secretly Need But Rarely Admit | Ep. 82 What do men actually need in a relationship that they rarely say out loud? In this episode, we’re getting honest about the emotional needs men often keep to themselves and the things they wish their partners understood without having to ask. We talk about: The reassurance men secretly need Why appreciation matters more than you might think Feeling...

What Your Partner Wishes You Knew But Will Never Tell You There are probably things your partner wishes you understood without having to ask—but for one reason or another, they may never actually say them out loud. In this episode, we get into the thoughts, feelings, frustrations, and expectations that partners often keep to themselves. We talk about the little things that can make someone feel lo...

The Relationship Double Standards We All Have We all have relationship standards—but are we actually willing to follow the same rules we expect from our partner? In this episode, we have an honest conversation about the double standards that can show up in relationships and dating, including the ones we may not even realize we have. We discuss the different expectations people can have for themsel...

The Habits That Make Someone Fall Out Of Love Falling out of love doesn't always happen because of one huge mistake. Sometimes, it's the small habits that slowly create distance, resentment, and disconnection over time. In this episode, we talk about the everyday behaviors that can quietly change the way your partner feels about you and your relationship. We discuss how taking someone for granted,...

The Green Flags We Ignore Everyone talks about red flags, but what about the green flags? In this episode, we shift the focus to the positive qualities that often get overlooked in relationships and discuss why they're just as important—if not more important—than spotting warning signs. We break down the healthy behaviors that build trust, respect, and long-term compatibility, while also asking an...

Awkward Questions We Don't Ask Our Partners Every relationship has uncomfortable conversations that somehow never happen. Whether it's out of fear, embarrassment, or simply not knowing how to bring them up, avoiding these questions can leave room for misunderstandings and unmet expectations. In this episode, we dive into the awkward questions couples often avoid asking each other—from finances, in...

What's Something You'd Never Tell Your Partner? Is complete honesty always the best policy, or are there some thoughts that are better left unsaid? In this episode, we explore the question every couple has probably thought about but rarely admits out loud: Is there anything you'd never tell your partner? We discuss the difference between privacy and secrecy, whether every thought needs to be share...

The Biggest Myths From Social Media Social media is packed with advice, trends, and opinions—but how much of it is actually true? In this episode, we break down some of the biggest myths the internet continues to spread about relationships, dating, and everyday life, and discuss how these ideas can shape our expectations without us even realizing it. We dive into viral relationship "rules,&qu...

The Lies Social Media Tells Us About Relationships Social media has changed the way we view love, dating, and long-term relationships—but is it setting unrealistic expectations? In this episode, we unpack some of the biggest myths social media promotes and how they can quietly impact the way we see our own relationships. From highlight reels that make every couple look perfect to viral relationshi...

The Relationship Dealbreakers That Aren't Obvious When people think of relationship dealbreakers, they usually picture cheating, lying, or abuse—but what about the subtle issues that slowly wear a relationship down over time? In this episode, we explore the less obvious dealbreakers that often go unnoticed until they become major problems. We discuss how poor communication, emotional immaturity, l...

The Things We Never Thought We'd Argue About... Every couple has those moments where you stop mid-argument and think, "How did we end up fighting about this?" In this episode, we dive into the unexpected disagreements that have come up throughout our relationship—things we never imagined would become actual debates. From texting habits and household responsibilities to money, parenting,...

Has dating actually gotten harder... or have the rules completely changed? In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast , we're unpacking the realities of modern dating—from dating apps and situationships to ghosting, social media, unrealistic expectations, and the pressure of having endless options. We're discussing why genuine connection feels harder to find, what people are really looking for today,...

What if the most attractive thing about someone has nothing to do with their appearance? In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast , we're diving into the qualities that create lasting attraction —the ones that make someone more attractive the longer you know them. From confidence and consistency to kindness, emotional maturity, and the way someone makes you feel, we're breaking down what really kee...

What gives people the biggest "ick" in a relationship? We asked our followers... and the responses did not disappoint. In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast , we're reacting to the funniest, most relatable, and most controversial relationship icks submitted by our audience. From bad texting habits and social media behavior to awkward personality traits, dating habits, and everyday turn-offs, we'...

We all have things we say "don't bother us" ... until they slowly start changing how we feel. In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast , we're diving into the small moments, subtle behaviors, and everyday situations that people brush off—but secretly carry with them. From changes in effort and communication to social media, appreciation, jealousy, and feeling overlooked, we're unpacking the little...

How do you bring up something you've always been curious about without making it awkward? In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast , we're having an honest conversation about curiosity, communication, and the bedroom conversations many couples avoid. From the fear of being judged to navigating different comfort levels and preferences, we're discussing why these topics can feel so intimidating—and w...

Have you ever "tested" your partner without them even realizing it? In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast , we're exposing the subtle ways men and women secretly test each other in relationships. Whether it's waiting to see who texts first, noticing who initiates plans, looking for reassurance without asking, or paying attention to how your partner reacts in certain situations, we're unpacking w...

The hardest conversations in a relationship are often the ones that matter the most. In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast , we're talking about the important conversations couples tend to avoid—from feeling unappreciated and emotionally disconnected to intimacy, money, future goals, and resentment. While avoiding these discussions may feel easier in the moment, they often become the very issues...

We keep it honest, unfiltered, and real — the kind of conversations people usually have behind closed doors. WHAT WE COVER IN THIS EPISODE,The Relationship Standards We Have For Others But Not Ourselves, Double standards that are common ,Double standards we have done Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for adve...

We keep it honest, unfiltered, and real. The kind of conversations people usually have behind closed doors. WHAT WE COVER IN THIS EPISODE ,The Little Lies Couple's Tell Each other , Lies men tell , Lies women tell Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

We keep it honest, unfiltered, and real. the kind of conversations people usually have behind closed doors. WHAT WE COVER IN THIS EPISODE  Red flags for men, Red flags for women, Red flags we have overlooked Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

In this episode of the backdoor podcast we talk about cheating. We dive into our opinion on cheating, the reason people do it and if a relationship can recover from someone cheating. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.