Relationsh!t Podcast

Got some sh!t to say? Nobody likes being rejected. Whether it’s getting ghosted after what you thought was a great date, being told “you’re just not my type,” getting turned down for sex, or realizing the person you really like just doesn’t feel the same way — rejection can hit your ego, your confidence, and sometimes your entire sense of self. In this episode, Marko and Steve get into the complic...

Got some sh!t to say? Let’s be honest… looks matter. We can all say we’re looking for someone who’s funny, kind, emotionally available, and has a good heart—but somebody still has to make you want to swipe right or approach them. Before getting fully  into this week’s topic, the guys review all the looks from this week’s Emmy’s. They use a Vanity Fair article to rate and review their faves and flo...

Got some sh!t to say? What does it actually mean to date with intention? Do you need to know exactly what you want before you start dating, or is “let’s just see where it goes” a perfectly reasonable approach? Marko and Steve get into the messy middle of dating, expectations, communication, and the very real consequences of two people thinking they're having two completely different experienc...

Got some sh!t to say? After a much-needed summer break, Marko and Steve are back for Season 14 of the Relationsh!t Podcast — and, apparently, the world decided not to wait for them to return before getting messy. For the first episode of the new season, the guys aren't coming in with a carefully planned topic or a guest. They're just sitting down to catch up. Because after being away for...

Got some sh!t to say? In this ENCORE episode, Marko and Steve dive into the quirky world of relationship pet names, debating whether they're adorably affectionate or cringingly cliché. From "snuggle muffin" to "baby bear," they explore the emotional reactions these nicknames provoke—both positive and negative.  The duo also examines whether using pet names actually deepens...

Got some sh!t to say? In this ENCORE episode, Marko and Steve dive into the often-taboo topic of masturbation within committed relationships. They explore how self-pleasure can be a healthy, personal form of sexual expression, even when one has an available and willing partner.  The conversation navigates questions like: Should your partner fulfill all your sexual needs? Or is it reasonable—and ev...

Got some sh!t to say? Marko and Steve dive into the complex world of cheating and explore how different people—and relationships—define it, in this ENCORE episode. Is following someone on social media a betrayal? What about innocent (or not-so-innocent) flirting at the bar? And where does kissing fall on the cheating spectrum? The guys unpack it all, sharing personal insights and challenging liste...

Got some sh!t to say? Marko and Steve dive into the flirty side of life in this ENCORE episode, exploring what flirting looks like for them and how their personal styles may come across to others. They ask the big questions: Is flirting something that comes naturally, or is it always a little awkward? And when you're in a relationship—or even married—is flirting harmless fun or crossing a lin...

Got some sh!t to say? Marko and Steve talk about diving headfirst into dating — and even marriage — without knowing what lies ahead. Is it bold and freeing, or just reckless? They explore the thrill (and risk) of saying "yes" to love without all the facts. Then, they’re joined by special guest Stefano Reginato Rivelli ( chechoreginato.travel ) of Josh and Stefano on Instagram and TikTok...

Got some sh!t to say? Marko and Steve dive into the topic of threesomes and explore the gay community’s fascination with group sex in this ENCORE episode. They ask the question: when did one sexual partner stop being enough?  The conversation covers the rise of throuples, casual threesomes, and the cultural and emotional implications of inviting a third into the bedroom. Is it simply about fun and...

Got some sh!t to say? Marko and Steve kick off this ENCORE episode still buzzing from their Cowboy Carter Tour experience, sharing stories and reactions from seeing Beyoncé live. The excitement and emotion of the concert set the tone before they welcome back returning guest, Ted Smith ( @tedsmith.life ).  Since his last appearance and book launch, Ted has taken meaningful time to focus on personal...

Got some sh!t to say? In this ENCORE episode, Marko and Steve reflect on their recent trip to Spain, sharing highlights from their time in Madrid and Barcelona. They humorously question why they even came back to the U.S., clearly missing the energy and vibe of their travels.  The conversation then shifts to a deeper topic: traveling while gay. They discuss the unique considerations LGBTQ+ individ...

Got some sh!t to say? In this ENCORE episode, Marko and Steve dive into the all-too-common experience of having the same argument repeatedly with your partner. They explore how these recurring conflicts can lead to frustration and emotional fatigue, especially when the core issue remains unresolved.  The conversation highlights the importance of genuine listening and emotional presence in relation...

Got some sh!t to say? To close out Pride Month and the 13th season of Relationsh!t, this week Marko and Steve are joined by the chaos demon herself, drag performer Skye Walker ( @itsskyewalker ), for an honest, hilarious, and heartfelt conversation about dating, drag, and self-worth. What happens when your art, your identity, and your love life all collide? Skye opens up about the unique challenge...

Got some sh!t to say? Pride Month is here, and for many gay men that means parades, parties, travel, hookups, and plenty of opportunities for some unforgettable memories. But while everyone is focused on what they're wearing (or not wearing), Marko and Steve are asking a different question: Are you physically ready for all the sex shenanigans that Pride Week can bring? This week, the guys sit...

Got some sh!t to say? This week, Marko and Steve are joined by Jerrell Owens-Robinson to tackle a topic that doesn't get enough honest conversation in queer spaces: what it's like being Black in predominantly white gay spaces, and how race can shape dating, relationships, friendships, and a sense of belonging. Drawing from their own experiences and observations, the guys discuss everythi...

Got some sh!t to say? Do couples need to share the same interests to have a successful relationship? In this episode of the Relationsh!t Podcast, Marko and Steve, joined by retired podcast host Tony Critelli ( @thecritellis ), tackle the reality that even the strongest couples won't agree on everything. From hobbies and entertainment to travel preferences and social activities, they discuss h...

Got some sh!t to say? This week on Relationsh!t, Marko and Steve dive into one of the most uncomfortable—and important—conversations happening in LGBTQ+ spaces today: the prejudice, judgment, and exclusion that can exist within our own community. Inspired by the release of No Fats, No Fems by Max Hovey ( @max_hovey ), the guys sit with Max to unpack the meaning behind one of the most infamous phra...

Got some sh!t to say? This week, Marko and Steve are getting cuddly as they dive into the surprisingly important role cuddling plays in our dating lives and relationships. From casual hookups to long-term partnerships, physical affection can communicate comfort, safety, attraction, and connection in ways words often can't. The guys discuss why cuddling matters so much to our emotional and phy...

Got some sh!t to say? This week on Relationsh!t , Marko and Steve are skipping the research, ditching the structured topic, and just sitting down for a real conversation. No deep dives. No hot takes. No agenda. Just two friends checking in with each other about life as it’s happening right now. From dating and relationships to stress, routines, burnout, the state of the world, and the weird emotio...

Got some sh!t to say? This week, Marko and Steve dive into the fascinating and often misunderstood world of lavender marriages — relationships historically formed to conceal someone’s sexuality in order to protect careers, reputations, family expectations, or personal safety. From Old Hollywood to everyday life decades ago, lavender marriages were often less about romance and more about survival i...

Got some sh!t to say? Somewhere between the first date and settling into a routine, “please” and “thank you” tend to fall off. This week, Marko and Steve dig into the quiet shift from intentional politeness to comfortable carelessness—and whether that shift is harmless… or actually harmful. They unpack why basic manners aren’t just surface-level niceties, but signals of respect, appreciation, and...

Got some sh!t to say? This week, Marko and Steve are getting real about the quiet pressure many people feel in the bedroom—specifically, the idea that “good sex” means constantly switching things up. Blame it on porn, hookup culture, or just plain insecurity, but somewhere along the line, a lot of us started believing we’re supposed to cycle through multiple positions during any session. But is th...

Got some sh!t to say? This week, Marko and Steve are diving into the real foundation of modern relationships: values. Because let’s be honest—chemistry might get you through the first few dates, but alignment is what determines whether something actually lasts. The guys unpack what value-based dating really means and why it’s becoming non-negotiable for so many people. From political beliefs to so...

Got some sh!t to say? This week, Marko and Steve sit down with Dr. Thomas Whitfield ( @drthomaswhitfield ) to unpack one of the most talked-about trauma therapies right now: EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing). Dr. Whitfield breaks down what EMDR actually is, how it works in real time, and why it’s especially impactful for LGBTQ+ patients navigating everything from identity-based...