NEEDS TO BE STUDIED PODCAST

Send us Fan Mail This week on Needs To Be Studied , we’re turning the mirror on ourselves and asking the uncomfortable question: Would you date you ? Billy unpacks what it means to be truly self-aware in relationships — the good, the bad, and the emotionally unavailable. We talk past relationship patterns, red flags we ignored (and waved ourselves), and what we’re doing differently in our next cha...

Send us Fan Mail How many times have you said, “But I see so much potential in them…” only to end up heartbroken, drained, and wondering how you got here? In this episode of Needs To Be Studied , I’m joined by a certified relationship and dating coach to break down why we ignore the obvious, what it really means when someone shows you who they are — and why you need to start believing them the fir...

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Send us Fan Mail This week, Billy’s in Los Angeles and he’s linking up with Jacob Willis from the Just Us Podcast to break down the #1 first date mistake that’s probably keeping you single — yes, YOU. 👀 From awkward vibes to oversharing trauma to showing up like you already planning the wedding... we’re unpacking why your first dates might not be hitting like you think. Jacob brings the realness,...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode, Billy catches up with the lovely Renay and things get real . From AI giving better relationship advice than your bestie, to how technology might actually be the thing saving our situationships—nothing is off-limits. We also get into friendship dynamics, Renay’s upcoming birthday (turn up loading 🎉), and Billy finally moving… but did he make a purchase he already...

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Send us Fan Mail In this episode of Needs to be Studied , Billy the Bad Guy teams up with the hilarious and unfiltered Renay (@renayproppa on IG) to break down one of the messiest topics in the workplace— how to flirt with a coworker without ending up in HR . We’re giving you signs to look for if they actually like you back, and what you should NEVER do when shooting your shot in the breakroom. Th...

Send us Fan Mail Renay is back, and class is officially in session! After stepping away to grieve the loss of her father, she returns to share her healing journey and opens up about navigating grief while trying to keep it all together. This week’s syllabus is loaded : 💸 How to ask a man for money without feeling broke or embarrassed 👄 Why some say oral cheating hits harder than sex 💔 Grief, he...

Send us Fan Mail Welcome back to Needs to be Studied ! In today’s lesson, I’m joined by the hilarious and insightful host of the Safe and Secure Podcast for a no-holds-barred convo that might just get us both detention. We’re talking Marriage vs. Dating —the pros, the cons, and the straight-up confusion. From messy hall passes to getting expelled from situationships, we’re pulling out our old repo...

Send us Fan Mail Ever wondered what really turns you on? Spoiler alert: You might be kinkier than you think! 👀🔥 In this episode, we’re diving deep into the world of kinks, desires, and sexual exploration with Sir Leezus, a kink advisor who helps people unlock their hidden pleasures. We’re breaking down how to discover your true kinks, the biggest misconceptions about exploring BDSM and polyamory...

Send us Fan Mail Billy is joined by Mistress Nita for a spicy crash course in sex party survival! 🌶️ In this sizzling episode, we reveal the steamy secrets of what goes down at a sex party, expose the hidden vetting process, and teach couples how to avoid rookie mistakes and master boundaries before getting hot and heavy. Plus, in our "Needs to Be Studied" segment, we show you how to fin...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode of Needs to be Studied , Billy is joined by Esh from the Esh Your Heart Out podcast for a deep dive into the complex dynamics between love, friendships, and personal growth. We explore why people often lose friends when entering a new relationship, backed by studied research and real-life experiences. But that’s not all – we also dig into sex phobias, breaking down...

Send us Fan Mail Is it chemistry or compatibility that really matters in love? 🤔 In this episode of Needs to be Studied , Billy and Wolf break down why we keep falling for the wrong ones and whether that instant spark is actually a red flag. 👀💔 We also get into: 🔥 Billy’s latest ghosting situation—was he wrong or justified? 👻 🔥 Spicy Valentine’s Day tips to make this year one for the books...

Send us Fan Mail Are you constantly dating the wrong people? Do you struggle with trust issues or feel like you’re always the one putting in all the effort? 🫠 In this episode, I sit down with Mac the Therapist , a relationship expert who’s breaking down attachment styles, insecurities, and why you keep attracting emotionally unavailable partners. 🎙️ We’re covering: ✅ The real reason you have tru...

Send us Fan Mail Class is officially in session, and today we’re diving deep into the world of foreplay, exploring your sexuality, and building sexual compatibility! Joining us is the incredible Jody, a certified sexologist and host of the podcast Her Nut Matters . Jody brings her expert knowledge and no-holds-barred approach to teach us everything we didn’t learn in Sex Ed. We’re breaking down wh...

Send us Fan Mail Class is in session, and today, we’re diving into one of the juiciest lessons yet! Your host, @Billy.thebadguy, is joined by the captivating and oh-so-knowledgeable Sir Marvelous to break down the Psychology of BDSM—because let’s face it, kink is way more than just handcuffs and safe words. In this episode, we’ll study: 📚 Building Sexual Anticipation : How to keep your partner on...

Send us Fan Mail Class is in session, and today we’re diving into Relationship 101 with podcast producer and DJ, @thankyoueddin ! How long should you really stay in a situationship before making it official? Or is staying in the “gray zone” the secret to keeping things spicy? We’re breaking down timelines, red flags, and why some folks treat commitment like a group project they didn’t sign up for....

Send us Fan Mail In this episode of Needs to be Studied, your favorite delusional bestie, @Billy.thebadguy, is catching us all the way up! Billy spills the tea on his solo date night—what he did, what he learned, and the iconic artist he went to see in concert (you won’t believe who it was!). Plus, he breaks down the Beyoncé Bowl Christmas Halftime Show and drops his hilarious-yet-dead-serious the...

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Send us Fan Mail Class is in session, and we’re wrapping up the semester with a special guest, @_WolfTaylor from the Half Way Up Podcast ! 🎙️ Today, we’re diving into some real “study material” you don’t wanna fail. First up: Gifts for New Partners 🎁—what’s too much , what’s too little , and how to find that just right sweet spot so you don’t look like a teacher’s pet… or a total slacker. Then, w...

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Send us Fan Mail 📚✨ Class is officially in session, and today’s lesson plan is spicy ! We’re joined by the hilarious crew from The Unpopular Opinion Podcast to dive into two major topics: 👉 What REALLY makes men insecure during sex (spoiler: it’s more than you think). 👉 How to keep a long-term relationship sizzling 🌶️—because nobody wants to fail Spice Maintenance 101 . Expect 🔥 hot takes, 😂...

Send us Fan Mail Class is officially in session! 📚 This week on Needs to Be Studied, we’re bringing in TWO special guest professors for a lesson you won’t forget. Joining the class are Mandii B from the wildly popular podcast Whoreible Decisions and Wolf from the Half Way Up Podcast ! Together, we’re dissecting the syllabus of modern dating with unfiltered honesty and unmatched humor. We’re cover...