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Send us Fan Mail The holidays are here, and Needs To Be Studied is diving into the two things everybody stresses about this season: money and sex. Billy and special guest Wolf break down the real questions couples are scared to ask out loud: ✨ How much should you actually spend on someone you’re dating? ✨ Is there a “right” budget for holiday gifts in NYC when rent is basically a second partner?...

Send us Fan Mail In this holiday edition of Needs to Be Studied , we’re diving deep into the pressure, chaos, and unspoken rules of meeting the family during the holidays. From awkward introductions to hidden red flags, we break down everything you need to know before walking into someone’s holiday dinner. And for the first time ever, Billy opens up about being scared of love — for REAL. The fear...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode of Needs To Be Studied , Billy and his guest co-host get wide open about a topic most people only whisper about — dating downlow men . We’re breaking down the real truth behind DL situationships, secret links, hidden relationships, and why so many gay men fall into these emotional trap doors. From sneaky late-night pull-ups to the emotional confusion that comes wit...

Send us Fan Mail Billy links up with the ladies of Code Name Coochie for a wild, unfiltered study session on the unrealistic expectations we all drag into dating and relationships. From fantasy-level demands to the pressure of “perfect chemistry” on day one, nothing is off limits. Then we get into the juicy stuff: what it’s really like having sex with someone for the first time, the nerves, the su...

Send us Fan Mail Billy’s in his chef era , y’all 🍝🔥 — cooking dinner for the guy he’s been dating for the very first time, and suddenly craving more than just seconds… he’s craving marriage 😩💍. In this episode of Needs To Be Studied , Billy breaks down the difference between soft launching vs. hard launching relationships , how social media makes us overthink love, and what it means when you’r...

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Send us Fan Mail Everybody’s swiping, linking, and ghosting… but is anybody actually finding love anymore? 👀 In this episode of Needs to Be Studied, we get real about LGBTQ hookup culture and the struggles of dating in a world obsessed with instant gratification. From late-night “u up?” texts to emotional burnout, we break down how hookup culture has changed the way queer folks connect, date, and...

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Send us Fan Mail It’s the 50th episode of Needs to Be Studied — and you know Billy couldn’t celebrate quietly. What was supposed to be a chill Q&A with supporters turns into pure chaos when Billy and Wolf start swapping stories… including the time Billy thought he was going to a sex club but somehow ended up in a full-on freak off 👀. After the laughs (and confusion), things heat up when Billy...

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Send us Fan Mail Billy recaps the wild live show moments (his fave yet 👀), shares a birthday recap with his boo Papo 🎂💋, then takes us to sex school with vocab words you’ve never heard 📚 and anal tips you’ll actually use 🍑✨. In this episode: 🎤 Live show highlights 🎉 Birthday recap with Papo 📚 Spicy sex vocab 🍑 Anal tips that hit Support the show

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Send us Fan Mail Think disabled people don’t have sex? Think again. 👀 In this episode, we sit down with Cnote (who’s blind) and Frenchy (who’s in a wheelchair) from the Blind But Now I See podcast — and trust us, they’re here to crush every outdated myth. We’re also joined by Kasha the Sexologist , who helps them (and us 👅) explore how to keep sex spicy, fun, and full of pleasure no matter your...

Send us Fan Mail This week on Needs to Be Studied, I’m joined by Honey & Teddy, a queer bisexual poly couple, for a deep dive into what it really takes to make polyamory and open relationships work. From boundaries to communication, they share how they keep love strong while embracing multiple connections. Here’s what we cover: ✨ Poly dynamics — how Honey & Teddy structure their relations...

Send us Fan Mail What does it really feel like when you’ve found the right one? In this episode, I sit down with New York Times bestselling author of No Holds Barred and host of the Decision Decision Podcast Weezy WTF to unpack the difference between chasing toxic love and finding the kind of relationship that finally feels easy. We break down: ✨ The moment you know you’ve found the right person...

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Send us Fan Mail In this episode, I’m joined by my bestie Samantha as we unpack my wild trip to Vegas for Beyoncé’s final show—and yes, THE Beyoncé said my name! 👑✨ From screaming every lyric in the crowd to waking up way too emotionally hungover, this trip wasn’t just about the concert—it was about connection. Vegas brought me and my new boo closer than ever, and now I’m out here feeling drunk...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode, I’m joined by my sexologist bestie Kasha , and we’re breaking down exactly how to become the most seductive version of yourself — without changing your body, begging for attention, or overthinking your worth. Support the show

Send us Fan Mail Are you falling in love after two FaceTimes and a good morning text? Yeah… you might be skipping the vetting process. This week on Needs to Be Studied , we’re breaking down why so many of us fall too fast, ignore red flags, and end up dating in delusion. We’re joined by dating and life coach Chad Scott , who’s giving us the real about how to vet better, protect your peace, and sto...

Send us Fan Mail NYC LIVE SHOW TICKETS AUGUST 24TH 2025 https://citywinery.com/new-york-city/events/needs-to-be-studied-5g3f36 This week on Needs To Be Studied , Billy is prepping for a big date night (we’re talking cologne, candles, and clean sheets energy) — but before the romance begins, he’s joined by guest judge Samantha to unpack the messiness of micro-cheating and the real work it takes to...

Send us Fan Mail Why are so many men checking out of modern dating? In this episode, I sit down with a single male guest to unpack the unexpected, unspoken, and sometimes hilarious things that make men lose interest fast. From “over-texting” to performative femininity, we’re breaking down the real reasons he unmatched, never called back, or suddenly got “busy.” This isn’t about bashing—it’s about...

Send us Fan Mail This week on Needs To Be Studied, we’re saying BYE to rushed relationships and fake moans. Joined by the unfiltered and hilarious @shanta_shanta_ and @shaynasmiles, we get into the slow dating era, where women are prioritizing emotional connection, peace, and pleasure over performance. We talk about: 💋 Why the streets are exhausting 🧠 How healing is changing what (and who) we de...

Send us Fan Mail Chris and Kasha are back—and the group chat is officially open. In part two, we get into the messy, hilarious, and too real ways couples miscommunicate. From shady tone to passive-aggressive texts, we’re talking about why it’s not what you say… it’s how you say it. Can your delivery ruin the message? Can you be too honest? And what’s the difference between being real and being rud...

Send us Fan Mail What does good sex really feel like — emotionally, mentally, and physically? In this episode, we break down the difference between sex that’s just “okay” and the kind that leaves you glowing, grounded, and genuinely satisfied. From physical chemistry to emotional connection, we explore the ingredients of pleasure that go beyond just orgasms. Whether you’re unsure if you’ve ever ha...

Send us Fan Mail Thinking about attending your first play party? Curious but nervous? This episode is your ultimate beginner’s guide! We’re breaking down everything you need to know before you step into the room — from how parties are vetted, to first-timer etiquette, to common mistakes that can kill your vibe. We’re also diving into the realities of consent, the role of alcohol, and how to handle...