5•6•7 w/ Murray Hill Guy

Pearl Davis and I talk hypergamy, monkey branching, cheating, backup guys, and why most men are competing in a dating market they don’t understand. Are women ever really single? Or are men just rotating in and out of the same attention economy? Is this the uncomfortable reality of dating in 2026??

Everyone says women have it easy on dating apps. So Murray Hill Guy decided to stop arguing and test it himself ... by creating a female Hinge profile using Mads Campbell’s photos. Within one hour, the account had more likes than Murray has received in his entire life combined. In this episode, Murray and Mads break down what actually happened during the experiment, what the flood of matches revea...

A viral tweet claimed it’s a huge red flag if a girl insists on dinner for a first date. One side says drinks only, keep it low investment, filter fast, avoid free meals. The other says that mindset is fear-based, the guys who do better just take her to dinner. This episode is not really about dinner. It’s about knowing when investing is confidence and when you’re just getting played. Murray Hill...

She posted one screenshot and the internet lost its mind. Joyce comes on the podcast to explain what dating as a woman in San Francisco actually looks like, the reality behind 1,000 plus likes, and why abundance often leads to worse outcomes. We talk dating apps, SF vs NYC, poly culture, and why Twitter outrage has nothing to do with real life dating. Touch grass, then listen to this episode. @mur...

January isn’t real life. It’s gym-in-January energy applied to your whole personality. Dating feels easier. Discipline feels natural. Everyone thinks they’re changing. Then February hits, and people disappear. This episode breaks down why January creates fake momentum in fitness, dating, and discipline, why February exposes who actually built habits, and how to use that short January window instea...

Dating advice usually sounds good and works terribly. In this episode, I sit down with Raq Is Right to talk about what actually works, what instantly kills attraction, and why modern dating feels broken. We get into why men shouldn’t post on Instagram or have TikTok, why dinner still matters on a first date, when texting backfires, how love bombing ruins things, and the three-month rule most peopl...

What if the problem isn’t you, it’s your zip code? In this episode, Murray Hill Guy changes his Hinge location and nothing else. Same photos. Same prompts. Eight cities. Eight dating ecosystems. From Miami’s lifestyle marketing to Charleston’s sleeper wife potential, this episode ranks America’s dating scenes and breaks down what actually changes when you change cities, and what doesn’t. Spoiler:...

This episode is about the 72-hour fantasy, the kind of perfect weekend that feels like a relationship and then disappears without explanation. A Thursday night drink turns into three straight days together. Breakfasts, errands, meeting friends, inside jokes, future pacing. It feels real, fast, and intoxicating. Then Sunday ends. Monday comes. And the silence starts. I walk through how intensity ge...

I break down the Triple Crown : overly political, overly online and the butterfly tattoo. I walk through the Hinge date that went sideways over politics, how Instagram content farm girls slowly reveal their real vibe, and why guys keep confusing chaos for chemistry. I also talk about the Tea app, the dating safety app where people call out red flags, and how the loudest critics usually ignore thei...

Murray Hill Guy finally explains the Beautiful Mid Theory, why peace beats chaos, and how a Gem Saloon ten and an Upper East Side coffee date convinced him that a loyal seven is every man’s real dream.