Yours Druelee

Hey hey hey!!! Ya girl is back at it again with another episode!! Don’t waste your time reading this and go right ahead and listen to my very first episode after taking a long break. New life and podcast updates coming up so keep listening because you don’t want to miss this episode!! As always, stay love & bless! ❤️Yours Druelee

Lately, I’ve been feeling this quiet shift in my life. It’s hard to explain, but it’s like I can sense something changing—like one chapter is slowly coming to an end, and another one is waiting to begin. There’s this mix of emotions that comes with it. A little bit of fear, a lot of uncertainty, but also… peace. Almost like my soul knows it’s time to move forward, even if my mind hasn’t completely...

For a long time, I believed the key to life was something I had to go out and find. I thought it was hidden in the next big achievement, the right relationship, the dream job, or that “perfect” moment I hadn’t reached yet. I told myself, Once I get there… once I have that… then I’ll feel fulfilled, then I’ll finally be living the life I’m supposed to live. But here’s what actually happened. I reac...

If you were just like me, where growing up I did not like or took the time to learn and understand about the Hmong culture, to now being a lot older and realizing that the language, customs, and traditions—they were always just there in the background, like family photos you walk past but never really stop to study. I knew I was Hmong, but I didn’t know what that meant. Then life happened. I went...

I always preach about the good of being single and that for those who are in the point of their life of where they are giving the chance to live their single life is to embrace it and see the good in it. Of course being single is not always happy dandy because there’s always the bad side to singleness.  So on this episode, I’ll be sharing with you some of the bad things I’ve experienced as a singl...

The older I get, the more I realize—not everyone is meant to understand me. I used to think that if someone didn’t agree with how I lived my life, how I made decisions, or how I saw the world… then maybe I was doing it wrong. But now? I see it differently. I knew that from the beginning of creating my podcast, people who listen to my episodes will either understand where I’m coming from or they wo...

I recently had an epiphany about expectations—specifically, the ones I place on other people. For so long, I believed that if I voice my opinions, concerns, or emotions, they’d eventually become who I needed them to be. But I’ve come to realize that expecting others to change for me was never fair to them—or to myself. This shift in perspective helped me see that true connection isn’t about trying...

When you enter into a romantic relationship, you have the intention of giving your all—but in doing so, you slowly begin to lose yourself. You compromise your needs, silence your voice, and reshape your identity to fit your partner’s expectations, all while believing that love means sacrifice. The real issue? You never realized the importance of putting yourself first. I will admit, I am one of th...

After experiencing heartbreak and disappointment in past relationships to entering the single/ dating world, I’ve realized that I have been seeking men based on emotions rather than stability. I had been in relationship and dated men who lacked ambition, financial responsibility, which leaves me to feel unsupported and exhausted and feeling like I am the only one carrying the relationship. Since n...

From my previous episode where I talked about the 4B Movement, the red and blue pill community is just another movement or group of people who has been taken part of either moving away from the opposite gender due to the misbehaviors they have experienced in which they no longer want to conform to or refusing to do anything for them just to obtain a relationship, to be in submissions, or have acce...

We may live our lives masking a different person, whether we are a mom, dad, christian, muslim, catholic, heterosexual, homosexual, and tons and tons of titles we live by. But at the end of the day, when all those titles which we consider our identity is stripped away from us, can we truly be our authentic self, or are we just masking ourselves to portray to others that we are those things to trul...

The 4B Movement, originating in South Korea, is a cultural and social movement centered around four principles, no dating, no sex, no marriage, and no childbirth. Primarily led by women, this movement challenges traditional societal expectations by rejecting conventional relationship and family norms. The 4B Movement advocates for personal autonomy, encouraging individuals to prioritize self-fulfi...

Let's celebrate as we enter Sagittarius season! By the time you are listening to this mini episode, it’ll be my birthday already! Wishing all my Sagittarius and anyone’s birthday on November a happiest fulfilled birthday!! Along with that, let's not forget to give thanks on Thanksgiving day. Whether you celebrated it early, the day, or afterwards, I am thankful for each and every one of you for li...

The "no contact" rule, often used at the end of a relationship, is an effective strategy for healing and moving forward. By cutting off communication with an ex-partner, individuals can create the emotional distance necessary to process their feelings, regain independence, and break unhealthy attachment patterns. This period of no contact allows for self-reflection, reduces the chances of prolongi...

Although I did not get married legally, I did however get married culturally. I do see the benefit differences and both have good and bad perks when it comes to deciding whether or not to get marry legally or culturally.  This topic sparks my interest due to a recent social media drama that involved an oversea Hmong woman who came to America and got legally married when back in her homeland she ha...

Before you continue listening to this episode, I do want to warn you that this episode contains discussions of sensitive topics, including marital r&%e, SA, and explicit language which may be triggering or distressing for some listeners. I strongly advise you to proceed with caution and prioritize your well-being. Viewer discretion is advised, and I encourage anyone affected by these topics to...

It has been four years since my divorce and what better way to keep moving and creating a life that I know I deserve is to share some of the things I’ve learned to accept for myself and to bring forth only the good things in my life. Restarting life all over again has its good and bad times but all in all, I have no regrets choosing this path. I mean, I am living my best life and am looking forwar...

I don’t know about you guys, but growing up in an asian household and going to church and practicing the christianity religion,  the purity culture was something I was taught to follow in order to save myself for marriage. When I say save myself, I mean no sex till marriage. Now that I am a lot older, do I still believe and follow the purity culture? Keep listening because you don’t want to miss t...

Born and raised in the United States, I have lived my life to identify myself as Hmong and an American. Being the first generation in my family to intertwine both cultures and belief has made me feel conflicted as to who I truly identity myself and whether or not I may or may not belong to neither of those culture. The things I’ve learned and was taught in my upbringing were things I thought I was...

For those who have been with me from the beginning of my podcast, I started sharing with you the before and after of my marriage and restarting my life all over again as a single woman. Throughout the years of being single, I took the time to reevaluate my life as to what I could have done differently and to understand the situation from both parties. After going through this traumatic experience,...

This episode is near and dear to my heart. To know other Hmong women from families, friends, or acquaintances who went through similar life experiences and situations as I have, it is only right for me to express and share some knowledge of how you can become the best Hmong women in today's modern society. The things we were taught in our upbringings can either make us, or break us. These thin...

You’ve done the work to heal yourself from your past relationships. You’ve spend months and even years on being self aware of your mental stability and knowing what you truly want and need for yourself. You then ask yourself, am I ready to date again? When it's time to start dating, it often boils down to a combination of self-awareness, emotional readiness, and a genuine desire for connection...

When to stop settling for less in life involves understanding your worth and acknowledging when situations, relationships, or circumstances do not align with your values, aspirations, and well-being. It requires courage to break free from complacency and embrace change, even when it's uncomfortable or uncertain. By trusting your intuition, setting boundaries, and pursuing personal growth, you...

Recognizing and embracing our self-worth is crucial for living fulfilling lives and fostering healthy relationships. Our self-worth shapes how we perceive ourselves, navigate life's challenges, and interact with those around us. When we know our self-worth, we are better equipped to set boundaries, advocate for our needs, and cultivate authentic connections with others. By valuing ourselves, w...

Self-care is often associated with pampering oneself externally – indulging in spa treatments, taking relaxing  baths, or enjoying a peaceful walk in nature. However, true self-care is much more than just external indulgences. It's about nurturing both the external and internal aspects of our well-being to achieve a harmonious balance in life. Externally, self-care involves practices that cate...