Mia Schachter and Risdon Roberts

You're Doing It Wrong

Education EN ↓ 18 episodes

A twink, Mia Schachter (Consent Wizardry), and a whore, Risdon Roberts (Out Beyond Intimacy), talk consent 2.0, beyond yes and no.

Author

Mia Schachter and Risdon Roberts

Category

Education

Podcast website

consentwizardry.com

Latest episode

Apr 15, 2026

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Episodes

Power, Responsibility, and Chat GPT 15.04.2026

Mia Interviews Risdon for their upcoming book! Video version on YouTube with subtitles. We have YOU’RE DOING IT WRONG hats !!! Upcoming classes . Preorder Mia’s upcoming book, How to Do Consent (Without Sounding Like A Robot) . Coming in the Fall! Mia Schachter (they/them) is a writer, Consent Educator , Intimacy Coordinator for TV, Film, and Theater, multi-disciplinary philosopher- artist, musici...

Mia Interviews Risdon 02.12.2025

Mia Interviews Risdon for their upcoming book! Video version on YouTube with subtitles. We have YOU’RE DOING IT WRONG hats !!! Upcoming classes . Mia Schachter (they/them) is a writer, Consent Educator , Intimacy Coordinator for TV, Film, and Theater, multi-disciplinary philosopher- artist, musician , and Tinder’s Resident Consent Educator living in their hometown of Los Angeles. They teach group...

Intimacy coordinators discuss justin baldoni vs. blake lively 12.03.2025

wtf is going on here? We share our takes as intimacy coordinators. Video version on YouTube with subtitles. We have YOU’RE DOING IT WRONG hats !!! Upcoming classes . Mia Schachter (they/them) is a writer, Consent Educator , Intimacy Coordinator for TV, Film, and Theater, multi-disciplinary philosopher- artist, musician , and Tinder’s Resident Consent Educator living in their hometown of Los Angele...

Kelly talks about the Left Eating Our Own 20.11.2024

Kelly comes on to talk about shutting down a social justice project because of Cancel Culture and the ways the Left eat our own. Video version on YouTube with subtitles. We have YOU’RE DOING IT WRONG hats !!! Consent Wizardry’s Upcoming classes . Mia Schachter (they/them) is a writer, Consent Educator , Intimacy Coordinator for TV, Film, and Theater, multi-disciplinary philosopher- artist, musicia...

Daddy? 24.09.2024

This episode was recorded before our last episode. We published them out of order because Mia wanted to wait to secure the rights to their canceled book, Unsolicited Advice, now available on Substack . We talk with Mischa Byruck about men and all the worst things you've ever done. Video version on YouTube with subtitles. We have YOU’RE DOING IT WRONG hats !!! Upcoming classes . Mia Schachter (they...

We got too high and had sex anyway 11.09.2024

We talk about getting high and having sex anyway, regret, blame, and punishment. Video version on YouTube with subtitles. We have YOU’RE DOING IT WRONG hats !!! Upcoming classes . Mia Schachter (they/them) is a writer, Consent Educator , Intimacy Coordinator for TV, Film, and Theater, a podcaster , artist, musician , living in their hometown of Los Angeles. They teach group classes online. You can...

My needs don't change because of your needs 23.05.2024

Video version on YouTube with subtitles. We have YOU’RE DOING IT WRONG hats !!! Upcoming classes . Mia Schachter (they/them) is a writer, Consent Educator , Intimacy Coordinator for TV, Film, and Theater, a podcaster , artist, musician , living in their hometown of Los Angeles. They teach group classes online. You can follow their work on Instagram @consent.wizardry and you can subscribe on Substa...

Brad Stops By 19.04.2024

Our friend Brad stops by. He runs @nature.is.not.metal on IG. Video version on YouTube with subtitles. Mia Schachter (they/them) is a writer, Consent Educator , Intimacy Coordinator for TV, Film, and Theater, a podcaster , artist, musician , living in their hometown of Los Angeles. They teach classes to individuals, couples, and groups online. You can follow their work on Instagram @consent.wizard...

The One About Incest 29.03.2024

CW: Incest, CSA. We talk about incest, taboo, the moralization of science, and so much more. Video version on YouTube with subtitles. Mia Schachter (they/them) is a writer, Consent Educator , Intimacy Coordinator for TV, Film, and Theater, a podcaster , artist, musician , living in their hometown of Los Angeles. They teach classes to individuals, couples, and groups online. You can follow their wo...

Literal Violence 16.02.2024

We talk about when your body does stuff that confuses your mind, how being allowed to change your mind also comes with having to stand by the choices you make, and literal violence. Video version on YouTube with subtitles. Mia Schachter (they/them) is a writer, Consent Educator , Intimacy Coordinator for TV, Film, and Theater, a podcaster , artist, musician , living in their hometown of Los Angele...

People Pleasing, Regret, and Fingers in Butts 01.02.2024

We talk about people pleasing, regret, dry fingers in butts, retroactively being upset, consent not taking place vs being violated, and members of oppressed groups thinking they can oppress others. Video version on YouTube with subtitles. Mia Schachter is a Consent Educator , Intimacy Coordinator for TV, Film, and Theater, a podcaster , artist, musician , and writer living in their hometown of Los...

When Consent Is Not the Priority 02.11.2023

We talk about mosquito slaps, cults, facilitating makeouts, boarding school, and when consent is not the top priority. Video version on YouTube with subtitles. Mia Schachter is a Consent Educator , Intimacy Coordinator for TV, Film, and Theater, a podcaster , artist, musician , and writer living in their hometown of Los Angeles. They teach classes to individuals, couples, and groups online. You ca...

The Falleability of Memory 26.10.2023

We talk about the fallibility of memory, believing women, and whether or not mia can make risdon orgasm on command. Video version on YouTube with subtitles. Mia Schachter is a Consent Educator , Intimacy Coordinator for TV, Film, and Theater, a podcaster , artist, musician , and writer living in their hometown of Los Angeles. They teach classes to individuals, couples, and groups online. You can f...

Mia Gets Canceled By Israel 19.10.2023

We talk about Gigi Hadid and the Israeli government’s IG account resharing Mia’s post, surveillance, surrogate partner therapy, and cognitive dissonance. Video version on YouTube with subtitles. Mia Schachter is a Consent Educator , Intimacy Coordinator for TV, Film, and Theater, a podcaster , artist, musician , and writer living in their hometown of Los Angeles. They teach classes to individuals,...

Be/Do, Bisexuals, and RENT 13.10.2023

We talk about the queer be/do phenomenon, biphobia, RENT the musical, being shy, and making out. Video version on YouTube with subtitles. Mia Schachter is a Consent Educator , Intimacy Coordinator for TV, Film, and Theater, a podcaster , artist, musician , and writer living in their hometown of Los Angeles. They teach classes to individuals, couples, and groups online. You can follow their work on...

Capacity 05.10.2023

Two people who are doing capacity wrong talk about capacity, dishonesty, and the veil between you and yourself. We can’t figure out wtf is wrong with our mics. We are working on it. Video version on YouTube with subtitles. Mia Schachter is a Consent Educator , Intimacy Coordinator for TV, Film, and Theater, a podcaster , artist, musician , and writer living in their hometown of Los Angeles. They t...

Repentance 28.09.2023

Mia Schachter (Consent Wizardry) and Risdon Roberts (Out Beyond Intimacy) talk consent 2.0, beyond yes and no. We talk about Yom Kippur, cycles of harm and repair, mercy, and our own list of murderable offenses. Video version on YouTube with subtitles. Mia Schachter is a Consent Educator , Intimacy Coordinator for TV, Film, and Theater, a podcaster , artist, musician , and writer living in their h...

You're Doing It Wrong! 21.09.2023

Mia Schachter (Consent Wizardry) and Risdon Roberts (Out Beyond Intimacy) talk about consent, sex, sex work, cancelation, divesting from binaries, and leftist pillow talk. We introduce ourselves, talk about how we got into this work, our approaches, and what consent means to us. Video version on YouTube with subtitles. Mia Schachter is a Consent Educator , Intimacy Coordinator for TV, Film, and Th...

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