Your Secret's Safe With A

Grace and Vikki reunite in Blacksburg, which naturally turns into four days of drinking, feral energy and questionable decisions. From jumbo margaritas, tailgate mimosas and a tent flooding Grace, to visiting Adrian’s gravesite and introducing Sandy to her first “haircut shot,” the weekend was unhinged in all the best ways. Vikki gives a full update on Moroccan Man, exclusivity confusion, cultural...

This week, Grace and Vikki get brutally honest about the gray area between being exclusive and being official and why the line gets blurry, messy and low-key emotionally dangerous. Vikki kicks things off with a full recap of her one-week exclusive era: commitment panic, self-sabotage, a drunken breakup and a dinner-date “are we okay?” pending. Meanwhile, Grace returns from a chaotic New York weeke...

It’s spooky season, and Grace and Vikki are dressed up, delirious and oversharing as always. From wild listener date stories to gas station disasters and actual good-date miracles, this Halloween episode has it all: chaos, laughter and maybe a little trauma bonding. 🎃 ⭐ Rate us 5 stars or we’ll haunt your Hinge profile.

It’s spooky season, and Grace and Vikki showed up in full clown glam (aka dressed as their exes) to tackle a haunting modern mystery: why don’t men approach women in bars anymore? 🤡 This week, they unpack listener submissions, debate whether women actually want to be approached and share some of the best (and worst) bar pickup attempts ever witnessed. From fear of rejection to ego death, it’s a c...

Grace and Vikki are diving into love, sex and the chaos of modern dating. From dating app disasters (and why half of you lied on our poll 👀) to therapy breakthroughs, booty calls and crying at the zoo, we’re spilling it all. Whether you’re swiping, single, or settled down, this one’s for you. ⭐ Rate us 5 stars or we’re adding you to the dating app graveyard.

What do you do with your ex’s stuff—keep it, burn it or “allegedly” charge a little something to their card? In this episode, Grace and Vikki spill on what they’ve kept (and torched) from exes, from luxury rings and cozy hoodies to sex toys, streaming logins, and even a Peloton. They share their own chaotic stories plus wild listener submissions about shopping sprees, Amazon revenge orders, and th...

We were supposed to record this episode together in Nashville… but tequila, Broadway and exhaustion said otherwise. Whoops. Instead, you’re getting the full weekend recap: nights out, hangovers, peak chaos moments and Grace meeting all of Vikki’s new Nashville friends. It’s messy, it’s hilarious, and it’s basically one long drunk diary entry. 🎧 Listen now and don’t forget to rate us 5 stars—we ne...

The stars have aligned… for chaos. In this episode, Grace (our resident Leo) and Vikki (our stubborn Taurus) roast their own zodiac signs, spill on dating compatibility disasters, and confess which signs they’d cancel completely. From main character syndrome and nap addictions to petty astrology opinions, we’re dragging ourselves—and you—through the horoscope drama. 🎧 Tune in now and don’t forget...

Lucky number 13 came with zero planning and maximum chaos. Grace and Vikki ditched the script and went full unhinged—from reflecting on exes’ birthdays and wild dating escapades to parenting advice from two women without kids (but plenty of opinions). We also cover therapy breakthroughs, relationship icks, and even a quick dive into politics (because apparently that’s who we are now). Oh, and yes…...

In this episode, we dive into the world of situationships and the complexities of modern relationship dynamics. Join us as we explore the "what are we?" and "what if?" moments, share personal stories, and offer insights into navigating the gray areas of dating. Whether you're in a situationship or just curious, this episode is packed with relatable content and advice. Tune in for a candid conversa...

Grace and Vikki are back with unhinged texts, hatfishing horror stories, and dating chaos galore. From “man meat” DMs to fist bumps after sex—nothing is off-limits. Laugh, cringe, and rate us 5 stars!

We made it to double digits! Episode 10 is here—and we brought in our very first guest, the iconic Alayna, to help us dissect all the dating flags: green, red, and the increasingly chaotic beige. Why do vibes make us overlook behavior? And what counts as a beige flag vs. a straight-up ick? From room-temp Mountain Dew to suspicious tampon drawers, nothing is off-limits. Along the way, we share mess...

In this episode of Your Secret's Safe With A , Grace and Vikki dive deep into attachment styles, sharing personal insights, hilarious stories, and a few life updates. Vikki opens up about her dramatic breakup and how her attachment style shifted throughout the relationship. Grace reflects on her own experiences with attachment, discussing her struggles with self-sabotage and the emotional chaos th...

Math might be fake, but the mental gymnastics we do to justify our choices? Very real. In this episode, we’re breaking down the chaotic equations that somehow make perfect sense in our heads. From Girl Math (“$100 jeans don’t count if I return something else”) to Boy Math (“6’0” on Hinge actually means 5’9” with confidence”), and of course, the most dangerous of all—Toxic Math (“If he liked my sto...

In this episode of Your Secret's Safe With A , Grace and Vikki are back together in person and things are as chaotic as ever. They talk tattoos, from ink that celebrates friendship to ones with deeper meanings (including the infamous "sad toast"). Along the way, they share funny stories from their high school days, family drama, and how their understanding of mental health has evolve...

We're going there this week—and no, it's not just about the ick. It's about all the unspoken turn-offs women experience when dating and sleeping with men. From having to give repeated tutorials on how to make a woman orgasm (it's 2025… learn) to bedroom blunders that make us question our life choices, Grace and Vikki are holding nothing back. We're unpacking the moments that kill the vibe, the "Di...

⚠️ Trigger Warning⚠️: This episode includes discussions about mental health, therapy, medication, suicide and self-harm. Please listen with care, and remember to prioritize your well-being. If you need support, don't hesitate to reach out to a trusted friend, therapist or mental health resource. Ever had a therapy session go so sideways it felt like a sitcom? Or realized your antidepressants are g...

Ever found yourself in a threesome, waking up mid-cuddle wondering how you got there? In this week’s episode of Your Secret’s Safe With A, we’re diving deep into the wild world of trio dynamics—whether it’s friendships, flings, or full-on thruples. From spicy stories about vibrating nipple clamps and unexpected p*nis pumps to emotional confessions and threesomes gone hilariously wrong, we’re shari...

Grief is weird, messy and sometimes… kind of hilarious? In this episode, Grace and Vikki open up about losing Adrian and how that heartbreak unexpectedly made their friendship even stronger. From chaotic adventures together to Adrian’s legendary inability to take a shot without immediately throwing up, they share the raw, funny and painfully honest side of grief. But don’t worry—it wouldn’t be You...

This week, we’re getting real about society’s weird double standards when it comes to casual relationships. Why is it that a guy can be a player, but if a girl loves sex and dates casually, people start clutching their pearls? We’re breaking down the taboos, sharing our own “hoe phase” moments (and how we were our own worst enemies), and calling out the BS of it all. We’re also spilling tea on tox...

So, how did Grace and Vikki become that duo? In this episode, we’re spilling the tea on our first awkward encounter (spoiler: it involved zero grace and a lot of Vikki), the wild ride we shared with Adrian and why we thought starting a podcast was a good idea. Expect laughs, some "oh no, they didn’t" moments, and a reminder that sometimes the best way to honor life’s messiness is to talk...

What if we told you that life’s chaos is always entertaining—even when it’s messy? In Your Secret’s Safe With A , we’re your unapologetic best friends tackling love, sex, relationships, and the gut-punch moments of grief with equal parts honesty and humor. Ever wondered how humor survives alongside heartbreak? You’re not alone—6 in 10 adults say laughter after loss is their lifeline. We’re here to...