Your Life, Your Rules!

You are good enough. Please do not write yourself out of the position. I know fear can keep you from having the desires of your heart. Feel the fear and embrace who you are and what you want. That position you are eyeing, apply for it. I don’t care that you cannot do 100% of the job. You can do some of it and that’s good enough. Are we connected: Grab your free six figure blueprint call: https://c...

Embrace Imposter Syndrome or Lose Six Figures… You can no longer ignore imposter syndrome and not apply for the positions you desire. Imposter syndrome causes you to lose money and delay your goals. Embrace imposter syndrome. And embrace who you are and what you bring to the table. Are we connected: Grab your free six figure blueprint call: https://calendly.com/makingmindsetshifts/breakthroughcall...

Hiring a resume service? It is a waste of time. Editing your resume should take 5 minutes or less. If you are wondering why you shouldn’t hire a resume service and how to write a stand-out resume, the episode was created with you in mind. Make sure you grab your pen and paper before you sit down and listen. Are we connected: Have you received your free six figure plan from me? Schedule your call T...

If you are ready to level up in every area of your life, this episode is FOR YOU. Anjelica is sharing tips on how to show up, serve, and live purposefully. You can wear many hats and continue to live purposefully. Anjelica is THAT GIRL: a person, wife, mother, singer and songwriter, a corporate girlie, and a beautiful child of God. Chiiiile, make sure you have your pen, paper, and tissue next to y...

Is six figures possible for you? Chiiiile, six figures is your birthright. I want to know if you are willing to bet on yourself and step out as THAT GIRL? Six figures is waiting for you as long as you can do these three things. Bring your pen, paper, and put your phone DND! Are we connected: Schedule a breakthrough call to help you land a six-figure position. https://calendly.com/makingmindsetshif...

The questions you hate to answer during an interview. I already know interviewing can be nerve-wracking and you like to rehearse your answers. I am going over the four most hated interview questions and guidance on how to answer them. You will be prepared for your next interview. Check it out. Are we connected: Schedule a breakthrough call to help you land a six-figure position. https://calendly.c...

Are you wondering about the ins and outs of applying for a job? What’s right? What isn’t? In this episode, I share everything you need for your job search! When you should apply, how to apply, questions to ask during an interview, and what to do immediately after an interview. Sis, I gotchu. Are we connected: Schedule a breakthrough call to help you land a six-figure position. https://calendly.com...

Sis, did you know you can get a job without applying? The secret sauce is successfully networking. This episode I am spilling the tea on The Networking Game. This game will change your life and get you in new rooms. Your network will put you on and help you land a six-figure position. This episode was created to give you the tools to step out of your comfort zone in unfamiliar territory and meet n...

Hey Sis! Are you feeling overworked, unpaid, and stuck at work? I am truly sorry. Have you thought about implementing workplace boundaries to help you have a work-life balance? Boundaries at work will invite peace and ease into your life. Let’s goo. I love that for you. This episode was created with you in mind. Give it a listen. Are we connected: Schedule a breakthrough call to help you land a 6-...

What does it mean to choose you? So often, we look outside of ourselves for validation. To know we are worthy, loved, accepted, and chosen. Sis, you are all of those things because God said so. God created you! Let’s discuss three ways to choose yourself and see yourself like God sees you. In the episode, I have a special offer for three ladies. I am so excited to chat with you. Are we connected:...

Jerrica Lewis! THAT GIRL!! Jerrica is sharing HER Truth and OUR Truth. Chiiiile, this is for my Christian girlies who are struggling to be Christ-like and their authentic self. Sis, if you were raised like Jerrica or me, sometimes we struggled with finding our way in Christ and being in this world. Let’s just say Jerrica is ripping off all of the bandaids and showing us how to be THAT GIRL. Her st...

Hey Sis Hey! Are you ready to own your job interviews this year? Giiiirl, it is your year to secure a job you will enjoy while making more money. HELLO. This episode is sharing the best 5 interview questions to ask! I have tested these questions with over 30 women and received great feedback. Respond and let me know which question you liked best. Are we connected: TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@n...

Giiiirl, 2024 is close. Like days away! And I don’t know about you, but I am thrilled for the new year. How are you feeling? Are you wondering how you are going to accomplish your goals? Yay!! This episode was created with you in mind. I am sharing 5 tools to help us plan for 2024. These tools helped me have the best 2023. I accomplished all of my goals. This will be you and me in 2024. After list...

Tis the season to be jolly. Fa-la-la-la-la, la-la-la-la. RIGHT? Maybe not though. Are you dreading going home for the holidays? Are you dreading spending the holidays with your family? Are you concerned about what your family members will say? This episode was created with you in mind. I am sharing some boundaries you can take into the holidays to end the season screaming CHECKMATE!!! This season...

The only flex you need in your life is vulnerability. We live in a world of highlight reels, surface-level relationships, and feeling alone. That’s not life! That’s not helpful! God calls us to be in community with people we love! It starts with you. Do you love you? Are you showing up unapologetically? Giiiirl, listen to this episode and watch how your life changes. It’s good, impactful, and shor...

Are you worth it?! You say you are worthy and what does that look like? As you feel stuck in your career, finances, relationships, and health, what steps are you taking to feel worthy? How are you investing in yourself? This episode shares how I felt stuck and eventually, was sick and tired of being stuck. I decided to choose me. Through my story and stuck experience, I am sharing 5 reasons why yo...

You’ve been told a lie! Whose voice are you listening to? Words hurt! That’s the truth even though we were raised with “sticks and stones may break my bones, but words can never hurt me.” Somebody told a fib. It’s time to acknowledge the unkind words people said to you and own your truth! You get to define who you are, what you want, and the people you want around you. Your Life, Your Rules! My Yo...

Sis, sometimes the best way to deal with a toxic boss is to WALK OUT! God did not create you to suffer on the clock. Chiiiiile bye. In this episode, I share three tips to help you get unstuck and choose you. Don’t spend another day choosing your boss, the company, or your fears of being a job hopper. Your well-being is more important. Choose you, Sis! 🎉PSA🎊 I am hosting a masterclass soon! It’s...

Podcast summary Chiiiile, you are focusing on the wrong thing. Being a job hopper ain’t bad AS LONG AS you have a story to tell. Do you know what’s a trip, technically, I was a job hopper. However, that never crossed my mind until yesterday, and it has never stopped me from getting a job. As a job hopper, I have increased my salary by about $37,000. Because I focus on what I am good at and am conf...

Are you at a crossroads and wondering where God is? Our good Sis Nedra Nelson Wright has the answer. Nedra is a powerhouse. She has a gut-wrenching story - molested, attempted suicide, and a failed marriage. This could've taken her out and SHE DECLARED WAR! While on the floor and screaming, “God, I need you” Nedra’s life forever changed. She birthed “She Declared War,” which is helping women heal...

Are you dreading how early it gets dark? Are you thinking about winter and which shows you are going to binge-watch? Season depression is real! The latest episode of my podcast Your Life, Your Rules gives you 7 tools to help you fight seasonal depression. Are we connected: TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@njaninegates?_t=8g19VMbjmf9&_r=1 Instagram: https://instagram.com/njaninegates?igshid=MzMyNGUy...

Talk yo ish!!! Now! I am so excited for the latest Your Life, Your Rules podcast episode. You have been conditioned to play small and not speak your truth. Not sharing the goodness that you are is hurting you. It doesn’t allow people to really know you, it’s hard for you to market yourself, and negotiate. I need you to talk yo ish! I need you to ask for what you want! I need you to go after what y...

Recently, I shared a goal of mine and the person laughed in my face. Giiiirl, I don’t know if the knuck if you buck Janine should’ve come out or not. She didn’t. Who are you surrounded by? Can you share your goals with them? Are they laughing in your face, projecting their fears, or stopping you in your tracks? This episode will help you find like-minded people who are excited to see you win! Are...

I am sooo excited for you to hear this conversation between Sam and me. We go deep!! I love Sam’s vulnerability: straying away from God, healing her father's issues, connecting with God, and so much more. She’s ready to step out and be all God calls her to be. She is so kind, sweet, and THAT GIRL! Make sure you give Sam some love by listening to this episode and following her. 💜🙏🏿🥰 Ways to con...

Giiiirl, have you ever tried to stay in the present moment? I know you’ve been struggling with staying present and not getting the bag or that next position. Sis, you chasing success is causing more stress than happiness in your life. I want to let you know that there are benefits to staying present. Listen to this episode to learn 5 ways to stay present and have a work-life balance. Are we connec...