Your Extraordinary Life & Dating After Divorce

This week on the #RemarriageClub I interviewed Karen Anderson on how she conquered her past trauma and early difficult relationships and divorce. Karen has been happily remarried for 23 years. She shares with what it took to overcome desperation, leave a toxic marriage, and learn how to set boundaries. Here’s What You Will Learn:  How Karen began her coaching journey  What contributed to her break...

In this episode, I interview Dr. Viola Pierce about her journey through dating after divorcing her first husband twice. When she finally put the marriage behind her, she created powerful clarity and vision for her future relationship leading her to a very happy second marriage. Featured on the Show: Dr. Viola Pierce Dr. Viola is the CEO and the founder of the VP Nursing Leadership, Training and Co...

C. Rene Washington is a Coach for Women in Midlife. When her marriage of 21 years fell apart in spite of her best efforts and a major impact on her health, she decided to never put herself last again. She got rid of all the "shoulds" and "oughts" and learned that prioritizing herself was the path to rediscovering herself and living life at the highest level. It was also the pat...

In this episode, I interview Biljana Vishnagara about her dating and remarriage journey. Biljana is a Human Design Specialist and Confidence Coach for Women in Midlife. She is happily remarried to a loving and patient man after her divorce who is an amazing stepdad to her daughter and together they have a new baby. She shares how confidence to go for the life she wanted without worry about what ot...

Dr. Trina Dorrah shares her experience dating after her divorce after infidelity in her first marriage. Dr. Dorrah was introduced to her first husband by relatives, but met her 2nd husband online, showing that where you meet your spouse doesn't matter, it's your ability to love yourself and evaluate your partner that matters most. Dr. Dorrah was inspired to become a self-love and body ac...

When you're ready to move forward fully after your divorce, you have to learn to dream again. You want to slowly permit yourself to dream big again, to set new goals or recapture old goals you left behind. In this episode, Sade Curry gives 3 steps to setting goals and living your best life after your divorce. Discover Your "Core Values Dating Blueprint" And How You Can Use It On:  D...

Are you waiting for justice or closure or vindication from things that happened in the divorce? This may be holding you back from moving forward after your divorce and creating the life and relationship you want. In this episode, Sade Curry discusses why we feel the need to get closure and how to transcend that need to move into the life you want. Discover Your "Core Values Dating Blueprint&q...

In this episode, I talk about the journey of starting over again after a divorce. How fast or slow you go when achieving your post-divorce goals depends on your thinking. I share my story of how choosing a my thoughts and perspective carefully has helped me accomplish so many post-divorce goals within 5 years of getting divorced - kids, business, remarriage, friendships, credit score - all of thes...

Does your self-love ebb and flow when you are dating? Do you feel good about yourself one day and then feel awful when something goes wrong? Healthy self-Love is a critical component to recovering from divorce and dating successfully after divorce. When you master loving yourself, you will have the ability to feel amazing about yourself and your value no matter what the circumstances are. In this...

Ever thought about how CEOs get hired? Apparently it's a super extensive process that can take months and isn't open for just anyone to participate in. In this episode Sade Curry draws lessons from the process of hiring a CEO to teach how to uplevel your dating decisions in four steps: 1. Know Your True Value 2. Build Belief that There is a Person Out There for You 3. Don't Look for...

In this episode we talk about the art of being unattached. This is not the same thing as being detached. When you are attached to the people that you date, and you begin to rely on them for attention, validation, intimate connection and love too early in the process. Dating can be a roller coaster that exhausts you and you burn out. In this episode, Sade Curry breaks down how to have your own back...

You meet strangers when you're dating, but you don't want to marry a stranger. How do you gather the right data from your interactions to know if a person is emotionally healthy and a good fit for you? How do you prevent being so distracted that you fall for the wrong man? This episode covers how to ask the right questions so that you have everything you need to either commit or walk awa...

This episode teaches you how to create your own feeling of love so you can show up with more joy, aliveness and passion to you your life and your dating journey. The brain has a negativity bias and you will tend to slide into discouragement and pain unless you intentionally take control of what you think. Listen on to learn the skill of creating your own feelings of love so that you can accelerate...

Being successful at any goal requires commitment to be successful. Getting remarried after a divorce is no different. This episode covers 5 steps to creating the commitment you need to successful at dating again all the way to getting married again. Discover Your "Core Values Dating Blueprint" And How You Can Use It On:  Dating Apps Text Messages  and Social Events To Meet & Attract...

If you are experiencing multiple disappointing situations when dating, you might not have a well-trained intuition to balance your decision-making. Your intuition is an important component of a successful dating journey. Your subconscious is equipped with information not available to your conscious mind. Your ability to tap into this information can transform your dating journey and keep you from...

Have you ever considered that your soulmate is also currently looking for you? And if he is looking for you, are you visible enough for him to find you? In this episode Sade Curry talks about what it really means to "put yourself out there" in a way that connects you quickly with the partner you are looking for. Discover Your "Core Values Dating Blueprint" And How You Can Use I...

This is the third installment in the series about your thoughts. Your thoughts about yourself make up your self-concept. What you think about yourself determines how you show up in your dating journey. If you're not getting the dating results you want, and meeting the high quality men you want, it's a good idea to take the lid off how you think about yourself and see if your unconscious...

What are your thoughts about men? Our brains have a negativity bias and tend to lean into the what's wrong and what's not working. If you're dating and wanting to meet more high quality men, You have to believe that they exist and are available to you. But, if your subconscious thoughts are working against you, it will feel like you have one foot on the accelerator and one foot on t...

Sometimes the dating process feels out of your control. But this isn't completely true. While other people in your process are out of your control, your thoughts, feelings and actions are within your control and are the true indicators of the results you achieve. In this episode, I discuss how to your unconscious thoughts can impact your mood, attitude and influence your actions which in turn...

Knowing what you want is critical to choosing your ideal partner. Knowing what you want is dependent on how well you know yourself. Then when you know what you want, it's essential to give yourself permission to go for it In this episode, I discuss how to explore your real desires without editing and using them to create the relationship you want. Discover Your "Core Values Dating Bluepr...

As a follow up to the last episode, this episode discusses 21 characteristics to look for in a healthy dating relationship. Discover Your "Core Values Dating Blueprint" And How You Can Use It On:  Dating Apps Text Messages  and Social Events To Meet & Attract Eligible Men Who Match You Dating with your Core Values helps you Easily Connect With Your True Match Partner (without chasing...

Do you struggle with knowing when a man is right for you? How will you know if you will be happy with him? What questions do you need to ask and when? How do you observe a man well enough to make a decision about him? In this episode, I share with you the process of getting to the truth of who a man is and making decisions about commitment with clarity and confidence. Discover Your "Core Valu...

EPISODE 11 - Embracing Break Ups We see breakups as a bad thing, but they are actually good for us. A breakup means that you’re not staying with the wrong person. On your dating journey, you’re going to meet many men who are not a fit for you, and breaking up with them is just a part of the journey. In this episode I cover the four things you need to do learn the skill of breaking up gracefully, f...

When you want something versus desiring it, it feels optional and non-essential. You would like it, but you can also do without it. When you want something, but getting it feels hard, you procrastinate and avoid it. When you desire something, however, the feeling is completely different. You can't wait to have it, it feels compelling and you are full of excitement and anticipation at the plea...

In this episode, I bring awareness to the impact of relationship trauma on dating patterns after a divorce. For individuals who experienced childhood trauma or trauma in a prior marriage, taking the time to heal is critical for creating a new healthy and loving relationship. Discover Your "Core Values Dating Blueprint" And How You Can Use It On:  Dating Apps Text Messages  and Social Eve...