Younique Yet Connected Podcast - Relationships - Apply the Laws of Love of Family Constellations

Transform your life and connections with Younique Yet Connected Podcast.  The dynamic of guilt and innocence is in every relationship. It serves all our relationships since both giver and taker know peace only when both have given and taken equally. This part tells us about how the give and take is in or should be in a constant movement of changing positions from giving to taking. Stopping this mo...

Transform your life and connections with Younique Yet Connected Podcast. Most of the time the key matches the keyhole. Maybe the one person looks to fulfill the need to be needed and the other one wants to be seen. The one whose aim is to be needed fusses around the one who wants to be seen and gives, gives and gives. The one who wants to be seen says give me more so I feel more and more that I do...

Transform your life and connections with Younique Yet Connected Podcast. "As soon as someone who has become personally guilty admits to and acknowledges guilt, the guilt becomes a source of strength and the guilty feeling disappears." Bert Hellinger Check out our website for the courses that resonate with you as well as free subscription to access tools and insights to help you in your j...

In systemic wisdom atonement has nothing to do with committing a sin and atoning for it. It is the so called hidden loyalty towards our ancestors' fate and actions. This guilt will materialize in our inability to live our lives to the fullest.  Music: Africa by Kirrya Beat

Transform your life and connections with us.  There are 3 needs; the need to belong, the need for equal give and take and the need to be safe in society. These needs sometimes work together, but most of the time they compete with each other. In this episode we explore how guilt and innocence feel in the 3 different cases of needs. Check out our website for the courses that resonate with you as wel...

There is an interesting dynamic that happens in the couple's relationship setting and Hellinger Institute states; “The disorder that conscience can cause in a couple can be seen in the fact that each partner tries to convert the other to their conscience. They measure the behavior of the other according to their conscience and judge it as good or bad. This applies to both partners. It reduces...

In this episode we explore the innate motivation that compels us to fulfill the need to belong or the need for equal give and take or the need to be safe in society. The fulfilment of these needs creates an internal pressure in us and these pressures influence our behaviour. Which means that these needs are our motivators in making choices. This also means that, none of the choices that we make ar...

When we look at guilt or innocence they have more to do with being safe than with actual evil or good deeds. Taking on responsibilities. Trying to balance scales. Inclusion or exclusion. They all have to do with guilt and innocence. All life and system altering decisions and events have to do with the perceived guilt or innocence. Thank you For Listening Nolitha & Kinga Music provided by Kiiry...

When we look at guilt or innocence they have more to do with being safe than with actual evil or good deeds. Taking on responsibilities. Trying to balance scales. Inclusion or exclusion. They all have to do with guilt and innocence. All life and system altering decisions and events have to do with the perceived guilt or innocence. Thank you For Listening Nolitha & Kinga Music provided by Kiiry...

Up to this point in most of our conversations, when we talked about a system we meant the family of origin. In this episode, we will look into what ways the different systems are interlinked with each other in our family system. Thank you For Listening Nolitha & Kinga Music provided by Kiirya Beats. Instrumental: "Africa" by Kiirya Beats Channel: http://bit.ly/2NuMylJ The Hierarchy B...

Up to this point in most of our conversations, when we talked about a system we meant the family of origin. In this episode, we will look into what ways the different systems are interlinked with each other in our family system. Nolitha & Kinga Music provided by Kiirya Beats. Instrumental: "Africa" by Kiirya Beats Channel: http://bit.ly/2NuMylJ The Hierarchy Between Systems Part 1

In this episode we the hierarchy that follows the chronological order in which the members of a family or extended family entered the system. This hierarchy  is according to origin. Everything that exists is structured by time. Those who came first in the family have priority over those who came later. Nolitha & Kinga Music provided by Kiirya Beats. Instrumental: "Africa" by Kiirya B...

In this episode we the hierarchy that follows the chronological order in which the members of a family or extended family entered the system. This hierarchy  is according to origin. Everything that exists is structured by time. Those who came first in the family have priority over those who came later. Nolitha & Kinga Music provided by Kiirya Beats. Instrumental: "Africa" by Kiirya B...

In the law of “Hierarchy”, everyone in the family has their rightful place. It is our Unique place and it’s not interchangeable with another member of the family. Music provided by Kiirya Beats. Instrumental: "Africa" by Kiirya Beats Channel: http://bit.ly/2NuMylJ The Order of Hierarchy

This episode explores how and when non-biologically linked people become part of the family system, or it might be better to say are entangled or bonded with the fate of your family's soul. Nolitha & Kinga Music provided by Kiirya Beats. Instrumental: "Africa" by Kiirya Beats Channel: http://bit.ly/2NuMylJ Who Belongs to the Family System Part 2

A personal existential peace is experienced when the first Order of Love is honored by accepting and allowing this equality to be our way of life. This is the reason  why the most important law is the law of belonging. Nolitha & Kinga Music provided by Kiirya Beats. Instrumental: "Africa" by Kiirya Beats Channel: http://bit.ly/2NuMylJ Who Belongs to the Family System? Part 1

We talk about the Gift of Belonging and how the systemic conscience that seeks to balance the system as a whole by guarding the right of every member to belong to the system. In Xhosa ndinezihlwele meaning that I’m not alone, the infinite tribe of my ancestors is with me at all times. Music provided by Kiirya Beats. Instrumental: "Africa" by Kiirya Beats Channel: http://bit.ly/2NuMylJ Th...

Love’s own truths-  is about the natural laws constraining love in human relationships. Love succeeds only when we understand these natural laws and align ourselves with them. When love comes to understanding and following these laws, it becomes the fulfillment of our longing. This knowing love has a healing and gratifying effect on us and on those around us. Music provided by Kiirya Beats. Instru...

In this podcast series, we share the wisdom of systemic family constellations and translate them into a practical language that all of us can easily understand. This week we’re exploring how the invisible bonds within a family or system become visible in a constellation in the  2nd part of "What are systemic and family constellations and how does it relate to you and me?" Music provided...

Hello Brilliant Soul The work of Bert Hellinger has revolutionized the concept of the individual. Clients experience the way an individual is embedded in a system and how the presence and proximity of each individual has an effect on every other individual in the system. Nolitha & Kinga Music provided by Kiirya Beats. Instrumental: "Africa" by Kiirya Beats Channel: http://bit.ly/2NuM...

Hello Brilliant Soul Sustainable solutions and permanent changes are available only once we become aware of what is contained in our mindset concerning the themes of relationships and love. This is part 2 of our theme on Relationships and Family Systems, to get the most out of this theme start by listening to episode 3.  Thank you For Listening Nolitha & Kinga Music provided by Kiirya Beats. I...

Hello Brilliant Soul Look at the whole picture, the relational context of the whole family, and truly become able to begin to process underlying relationship issues. Thank you For Listening Nolitha & Kinga Music provided by Kiirya Beats. Instrumental: "Africa" by Kiirya Beats Channel: http://bit.ly/2NuMylJ Previous title Relationships and Family Systems Part 1

Hello Brilliant Soul What is unique about constellations is that they reveal, correct the cause of relationship issues, improve relational skills and heal our relationships Thank you For Listening Nolitha & Kinga Music provided by Kiirya Beats. Instrumental: "Africa" by Kiirya Beats Channel: http://bit.ly/2NuMylJ

Hello Brilliant Soul  We are excited to start this journey of translating the wisdom of systemic family constellation into a practical language that we can all understand.  Thank you For Listening  Nolitha & Kinga Music provided by Kiirya Beats. Instrumental: "Africa" by Kiirya Beats Channel: http://bit.ly/2NuMylJ previous title Allow us to introduce the podcast

Hi there!! We, Nolitha and Kinga can't wait to meet you. Be sure to catch us on the seventh of August 2022 at 10 am SAST. Own your Gift of Belonging! Transform your life.