Younique Yet Connected Podcast - Relationships - Apply the Laws of Love of Family Constellations

In the penultimate episode of our series on codependent behaviours in relationships, we delve into; Basing your mood on how someone else feels and not on your emotions.  When you truly value yourself and acknowledge your own emotions, while also showing empathy and understanding towards the feelings of others, you create a harmonious balance of emotional well-being. By maintaining this equilibrium...

Taking on too much in our partner relationships, whether it be in a romantic setting, business partnership, or work relationship, can have a detrimental impact on the dynamic of the relationship. It can often lead to one person taking on a parental role, while the other person becomes the child in the relationship. This shift in dynamic can create resentment and conflict between the individuals in...

  In this episode, we are unpacking the co-dependent behavior; taking on too much.  The compulsion to take on too much can be driven by a fear of rejection or abandonment. By being indispensable and constantly in demand, individuals with codependent behavior such as; taking on too much, believe they can secure their place in the lives of others. This underlying fear can lead to a perpetual cycle o...

**Content Warning** This episode contains conversations on sexual molestation that some people may find disturbing or triggering. In this episode we continue to unpack co-dependent behavior; doing things for people that make you uncomfortable to make them happy. An important thing to point out as we talk about doing things that make us uncomfortable to make other people happy; is that this is a pe...

In this insightful episode, we delve into the detrimental patterns and deep-rooted beliefs that have impeded progress in our nation, and how systemic interventions can facilitate transformative change on a societal scale.   By collectively exploring the unhealthy patterns and unconscious beliefs that have held our country back, and embracing systemic interventions to address them, we can pave the...

Transform your life, transform your relationships.   In this episode Younique Yet Connected Podcast we continue to unpack the co-dependent behavior; doing things for people that make you feel uncomfortable just to make them  happy   Where do you think this action is coming from? Why would you choose this action? Are you trying to avoid confrontation? Why don’t you want to say no? Are you afraid of...

Transform your life, transform your relationships.  In this episode we unpack the co-dependent behavior; doing things for people that make you feel uncomfortable just to make them happy Where do you think this action is coming from? Why would you choose this action? Are you trying to avoid confrontation? Why don’t you want to say no? Are you afraid of the mood of the other person? Is it more the p...

Transform your life, transform your relationships. In this episode, we open up a co-dependent behavior; Needing to control, including making decisions for others or managing them. We often end up counter-controlling each other in the relationship and expecting the other to change their priorities according to our priorities. The truth is we don’t see the things that are important to our partner un...

In this episode we opening up a codependent behaviour; Needing to control, including making decisions for others or managing them.  What does making a mistake mean for you? Do you try to hide it when you make a mistake? Do you punish yourself when you make a mistake?  Do you allow others to make mistakes? Do you allow yourself to make one?    Check out our website for the courses that resonate wit...

Transform your life and connections with Younique Yet Connected Podcast. In this episode we continue with a codependent behaviour; Feeling like you've lost yourself... Are you a social chameleon? Do you change your personality according to the group of people you are with? Check out our website for the courses that resonate with you as well as our free subscription to access tools and insights...

  In this episode we opening up a codependent behaviour; Feeling like you've lost yourself...   Do you constantly feel like your attention is turned outside yourself instead of inside yourself, tuning in to who you really are?  Check out our website for the courses that resonate with you as well as our free subscription to access tools and insights to help you in your journey of transforming y...

Transform your life and connections with Younique Yet Connected Podcast  In this episode, we explore the following questions;  Do you worry a lot?  Are you constantly on the lookout for danger? Check out our website for the courses that resonate with you as well as our free subscription to access tools and insights to help you in your journey of transforming yourself and your relationships ⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠w...

Transform your life and connections with Younique Yet Connected Podcast  When we try to fill a void for someone else even with our best intentions we will fail. This is because by default, we make assumptions that the other person’s needs are the same as ours.  Check out our website for the courses that resonate with you as well as our free subscription to access tools and insights to help you in...

Transform your life and connections with Younique Yet Connected Podcast    The codependent behaviours in this epsiode are;  1. Apologizing or accepting blame to avoid conflict?  Do you apologize to your partner when you have done nothing wrong? Do you check in with the other person and ask for permissions even about a daily task? Do you apologize when someone loses his temper with you in an attemp...

Transform your life and connections with Younique Yet Connected Podcast If your partner is feeling down and it doesn't faze you in the slightest, it's worth pondering whether you might be on the other end of the spectrum from codependency, perhaps a bit too distant. On the flip side, if you find yourself completely immersed in your partner's sorrow, you risk merging their narrative wit...

Transform your life and connections with Younique Yet Connected Podcast  “Life is too short to waste any amount of time on wondering what other people think about you. In the first place, if they had better things going on in their lives, they wouldn’t have the time to sit around and talk about you. What’s important to me is not others’ opinions of me, but what’s important to me is my opinion of m...

Transform your life and connections with Younique Yet Connected Podcast. According to Nagy, "being in a relationship is the essence of Self, as Self can exist only because of the other. Someone has to see, hear, and feel us, thus confirming our existence. This fact makes us fundamentally dependent on the other. Thus, in reciprocity, in the exact same way, the other is dependent on us” Check o...

Transform your life and connections with Younique Yet Connected Podcast With every development stage, we go through a so-called identity crisis and come out with a newly developed ego strength. This crisis is very important and necessary and pushes us to grow. When the crisis has been successfully dealt with, we come out of it stronger and wiser than what we were before the crisis hit us. This str...

Transform your life and connections with Younique Yet Connected Podcast “When two people meet and fall in love, there's a sudden rush of magic. Magic is just naturally present then. We tend to feed on that gratuitous magic without striving to make any more. One day we wake up and find that the magic is gone. We hustle to get it back, but by then it's usually too late, we've used it up....

Transform your life and connections with Younique Yet Connected Podcast When we accept that there is a lot more than what catches the eye in driving our behaviors and expectations leading to a happy or unhappy life. And as it’s true to us it’s also true to our partner. We all bring a whole family history and relations into our marriage. The unseen triggers, expectations and yearnings will stay hid...

Transform your life and connections with Younique Yet Connected Podcast Love and romantic relationships seem to be fleeting. Our emotions are changing all the time. Is there a book on how to stabilize our relationships? Yes there is, the basic principles of systemic family constellations, the Laws of Love are a guide book to happy relationships. Implementing them in our love life helps us in our q...

Transform your life and connections with Younique Yet Connected Podcast "Children often try to atone for their parents' actions or to bear the consequences of their guilt. Actually, this is presumptuous on the part of the child, but children are unaware of their presumptuousness  because they are acting out of love".  Check out our website for the courses that resonate with you as we...

Transform your life and connections with Younique Yet Connected Podcast A child must not interfere in the parents' affairs. It burdens the children to know about their parents' happiness or unhappiness in their relationship to one another, and the parents shouldn't tell the child anything about their intimate relationship. It's none of the children's business. The best thing fo...

Transform your life and connections with Younique Yet Connected Podcast When the child is in the position of mom’s partner what happens with the child’s personality? The child often becomes full of pride and judgmental on the outside and insecure on the inside. The child becomes bigger than he should be. Check out our website for the courses that resonate with you as well as free subscription to a...

Transform your life and connections with Younique Yet Connected Podcast Are you receiving the life that's been gifted to you fully or you keep fasting taking a little bit in because you don't think you deserve to enjoy the fullness of it?  Bert Hellinger says "The most beautiful path to innocence in giving and taking is the contentment that follows a plentiful exchange of giving and t...