You Will Be OK

Does he actually like you? Why did he suddenly pull away? Why does he act interested but won't commit? And what are you supposed to do when his words and actions don't match? These are the questions that launched my career as a relationship writer back in 2009, and in this episode, I'm going back to my roots. I'm sharing the conversation that completely changed how I understood men and dating, and...

In this episode, we take a different turn and go behind the scenes of a live session from my 8-week course, You Will Be OK. We dive deep into childhood wounds, attachment styles, and the subconscious patterns that shape how we navigate adult relationships. We break down the core dynamics of the mother and father wounds, emotional attunement, and why so many people get trapped in the "healing fanta...

- Why do we keep repeating relationship patterns we know aren’t good for us? In this episode, I sit down with Sabrina Zohar to talk about what’s actually happening underneath the people we chase, the relationships we struggle to let go of, and the dynamics we swear we’ll never repeat again. We get into how childhood experiences create what Sabrina calls our “bullshit blueprint” — the subconscious...

In this episode, I’m diving into one of the hardest questions in relationships: when do you accept a relationship for what it is, and when is it time to let go? It’s so easy to stay hooked on the memory of how things felt in the beginning or to keep waiting for someone to become the person you believe they could be. But at some point, you have to stop making decisions based on the past or the pote...

Dating is supposed to be fun… so why does it make so many of us feel completely exhausted, anxious, and miserable? In this episode, I’m joined by Serena Kerrigan, author of the just released book "Let’s F*cking Date". We talk about what it really means to “be the prize,” how to stop letting rejection destroy your confidence, why you need to stop dating someone’s potential, and how to take the pres...

Is the fear of rejection secretly running your life? In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on rejection and exposing it for what it really is: a childhood "boogeyman" that only holds power because of the story we attach to it. Whether you're holding back in your career, walking on eggshells in relationships, or constantly doubting your self-worth, I want to give you a powerful shift in per...

Money impacts far more than just our bank accounts—it plays a central role in who we date, our relationship dynamics, and how safe we feel in our own lives. In this episode of You Will Be OK, I’m joined by personal finance coach Whitney Hansen to break down the intersection of money, mindset, and relationships. We dive into how childhood experiences shape your money story, the financial red flags...

If your life doesn’t look the way you thought it would by now, how do you make peace with where you are without giving up on the life you still want? In this episode, I’m talking about grieving the life you thought you’d have, feeling behind in life, and learning how to move forward when your life hasn’t gone according to plan. Maybe you thought you’d be married by now, have children, be further a...

Is "the one" actually a myth? In this episode, I’m joined by wedding planner and relationship expert Alyssa Pettinato for a candid, no-BS deep dive into modern love, dating apps, and what it really takes to build a lasting relationship today. Having worked closely with countless couples through the highs and lows of planning their big day, Alyssa brings a unique, behind-the-scenes perspective on w...

We want relationships to make sense: He either loved me or he didn’t. The chemistry was real or it was a lie. But the truth is rarely black and white. In this episode, we’re diving into what it means to hold two truths at the same time—and why tolerating emotional complexity is the key to healing and moving on. In this episode, we cover: Why someone can genuinely like you and still not want a rela...

In this episode, I sit down with bestselling author, journalist, and podcaster Jo Piazza to dive deep into what it really takes to navigate creative success, modern womanhood, and the publishing world. Jo shares the inspiration behind her prolific writing career, including how she uncovers women historically forgotten by time—like her deep dive into the story of "Joe Van Gogh." Together, we pull b...

What if detachment has nothing to do with becoming cold, distant, or pretending you don't care? In this episode, I break down one of the most misunderstood concepts in relationships and personal growth: healthy detachment. So many people think detachment means shutting down your emotions or acting like someone doesn't matter. In reality, true detachment is about letting go of control, releasing th...

What if the life you've worked so hard to build isn't actually the life that's making you happy? In this episode, I sit down with therapist and former Hollywood producer Jane Garnett to explore the journey from external success to authentic fulfillment. Jane shares how she walked away from Hollywood to become a therapist and why so many of us spend our lives performing instead of truly living. We...

When I was single and heartbroken at 29, I never could have imagined that within a year I'd be engaged, married, and pregnant. If you are currently healing from a breakup, navigating the modern dating world, or feeling discouraged that everyone else is moving ahead while you’re standing still, this episode is for you. I'm sharing the raw, personal story of how my life completely transformed—and wh...

Dating can feel like a horror movie sometimes—and in this episode, we're embracing that idea in the best way possible. I'm joined by Rory Uphold, author of A Final Girl's Guide to the Horrors of Dating, for a conversation about heartbreak, healing, confidence, and what it really means to become the "final girl" in your own life. We explore how the horror movie archetype mirrors so many of the chal...

In today's episode, I'm celebrating the release of my new book, The Feminine Code: The Unspoken Laws of Power, Magnetism, and Self-Respect, and sharing the personal story that inspired it. I take you back to the relationship that broke me. The one that left me questioning my worth, doubting my reality, and completely disconnected from myself. It was also the relationship that became the foundation...

If you've ever felt exhausted, discouraged, or strangely addicted to dating apps, you're not imagining it. In this episode, I take a deep dive into the psychology of dating apps and explain why so many people walk away feeling rejected, anxious, and emotionally drained. The problem isn't necessarily you—it's the environment you're operating in. I explore how dating apps gamify the search for love,...

In this fascinating conversation, I sit down with Rabbi Manis Friedman, one of the world's most respected spiritual teachers, to discuss the deeper questions many of us struggle with: What gives life meaning? Why do so many people feel unfulfilled despite having everything they thought they wanted? And what does it take to build a truly lasting relationship? We explore the difference between happi...

In this episode of You Will Be OK, I’m talking about the father wound — the invisible emotional imprint left by an absent, emotionally unavailable, critical, inconsistent, or unsafe father figure, and how it shapes nearly every area of our lives long after childhood. I break down the different forms the father wound can take, how it impacts self-worth and attachment, and why so many people unknowi...

Do you constantly seek validation or feel like you’re never enough no matter how much self-work you do? In this episode of You Will Be OK, I’m diving deep into the mother wound — the hidden root behind perfectionism, anxious attachment, people-pleasing, emotional dependency, and chronic self-criticism. I talk about how emotionally unavailable, critical, controlling, neglectful, or inconsistent par...

Most people think getting healthy is about willpower, restriction, or finally becoming “disciplined enough.” But real transformation usually starts somewhere much deeper. In this episode, I sit down with health coach and creator Ailin Salem to talk about fitness, confidence, mindset, and what it actually takes to create lasting change in your life without obsessing, burning out, or hating yourself...

If you feel exhausted all the time—even when you’re not doing that much—this episode will hit. I sat down with Kamini Wood, a human potential coach, to talk about what’s actually behind burnout, overthinking, and feeling like you’re never doing enough. We get into: - Why burnout is emotional, not just physical - How perfectionism keeps you stuck and drained - The impact of childhood conditioning a...

Being single isn't most women's end goal, but it's a chapter you'll never get back, and how you spend it shapes everything that comes next. In this episode, I'm making the case that genuinely loving your single life isn't a consolation prize. It's actually the energy that attracts a healthy partner in the first place. I break down the Law of Detachment from my book "Detached"— including what it ac...

If you keep getting attached too fast, overthinking everything, or chasing someone’s attention… this is the episode you need. In this episode, I’m breaking down 10 powerful shifts to help you become a detached, high-value woman — not by playing games, but by changing your energy at the root. Because here’s the truth: Detachment isn’t about not caring… it’s about not needing a specific outcome to f...

In this episode, I’m sharing my nearly 50-pound weight loss journey—what actually worked, what didn’t, and what I wish I had understood sooner. I talk about my experience using GLP-1, how my body changed after pregnancy and breastfeeding, and the lifestyle shifts that finally made things click. But this isn’t just about weight loss—it’s about hormones, identity, mindset, and the patterns that were...