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This week we're continuing our journey through Thessalonians with chapter 2. As Paul reflects on his time with the Thessalonian believers, we get a glimpse into what authentic ministry really looks like. His goal wasn't popularity, approval, or personal gain—it was faithfulness to God and genuine love for people. Together, we discuss what it means to share not just the gospel, but our lives with o...

Welcome to the first episode of our Thessalonians series! We're doing things a little differently this time. No studio. No outlines. No matching podcast outfits. Just us, our Bibles, and God's creation as we read through Scripture together. In this episode, we dive into 1 Thessalonians chapter 1, where Paul celebrates a church whose faith was impossible to ignore. We discuss what it means to have...

You had takes. We had thoughts. After the first Hot Takes episode, we asked for your opinions—and you did not disappoint. In this episode, we're reacting to your hot takes, unpopular opinions, and thought-provoking questions. Some had us laughing, some sparked deeper conversations, and a few left us completely divided. From lighthearted debates to heavier topics, this episode is full of honest rea...

We're starting with the easy stuff... and ending with opinions that might get us in trouble. In this episode, we're sharing our hot takes—starting with lighthearted debates and harmless unpopular opinions before slowly making our way into some more controversial territory. From everyday preferences and random pet peeves to bigger conversations about culture, church, relationships, and faith, nothi...

We all say we trust God—until His plan starts looking different than ours. In this episode, we talk honestly about control, ambition, surrender, and the struggle of wanting God’s will while still clinging tightly to our own life plans. In a world constantly telling us to hustle harder, chase success, and make things happen for ourselves, how do you actually live surrendered to God instead of obses...

Music has always shaped us more than we realized. In this episode, we have a fun and honest conversation about the impact music has had on our personalities, emotions, identity, and faith over the years. From the catchy songs we used to make dances to as kids—to now actually hearing the lyrics and wondering how we missed them—we unpack just how powerful music really is. We each share one Christian...

Becoming a Christian doesn’t magically erase questions, fears, or uncertainty. Sometimes faith begins with excitement—but then reality hits: Is God actually real? Is He good? Why do I still struggle? What if following Jesus changes everything… or worse, nothing at all? In this episode, we’re talking honestly about doubt, fear, and why Christian community matters when faith feels fragile. If you’ve...

You accepted Jesus… now what? For a lot of people, that moment feels powerful—but also confusing. What does it actually mean to surrender your life to God? How do you build a real relationship with Him? And if you’re a “new creation,” why does life still feel so familiar sometimes? In episode two of How To Christian , we talk about what comes after salvation. This conversation walks through what i...

What do Christians actually believe? And why has this message changed millions of lives for thousands of years? In episode one of this three-part series, we go back to the very beginning and walk through the foundation of the Christian faith—from the Garden of Eden to the cross of Christ to the invitation of new creation. We talk about free will, sin, surrender, redemption, and why humanity’s sepa...

This might be hard to hear.. but it’s freeing once it sinks in: it’s not about you. In this episode, we have an honest, humbling conversation about what happens when we stop placing ourselves at the center of everything. The pressure to control, to perform, to carry the weight of the world. There is freedom in realizing that this life, this world, and everything in it doesn’t revolve around us, bu...

 In a world obsessed with numbers, success, and influence, it’s easy to wonder if one life really matters. But the truth is that Jesus has always cared deeply for the one. The one who feels lost. The one who is hurting. The one who thinks they’ve gone too far. This is the heart behind this podcast: to reach one person, impact one life, and point one heart to Jesus. Because if one eternity is chang...

Stress, anxiety, and constant pressure are realities we all face, but Philippians 4 offers a powerful alternative. Paul encourages believers to replace worry with prayer and discover a peace that only God can give. In this episode, we explore how gratitude, trust, and a renewed mindset lead to a life of contentment. Even in uncertain circumstances, God offers a peace that guards our hearts and min...

Grades, popularity, accomplishments, achievements—our world constantly tells us these things define our value. But in Philippians 3, Paul flips that idea upside down and shows us that none of it compares to knowing Jesus. In this episode, we talk about letting go of the past, redefining success, and chasing what truly matters. WATCH: VLOG SERIES: Godly Girl Diaries CONNECT: @tori___mae @abbi.motsi...

Philippians 2 challenges the way we think about greatness. Instead of self-promotion and pride, Paul points us to Jesus—who humbled Himself and served others. In this episode, we discover why in God’s kingdom, lower is greater , and how living with humility reflects the heart of Christ. WATCH: VLOG SERIES: Godly Girl Diaries CONNECT: @tori___mae @abbi.motsinger SUPPORT: Venmo @godly_girls — or sim...

Most people chase success, comfort, or approval—but Paul had a completely different goal. In Philippians 1 he says, “To live is Christ and to die is gain.” In this episode, we talk about what it means to live a life that’s truly centered on Jesus, how our purpose changes when Christ becomes our focus, and why following Him gives us a hope that nothing in this world can take away. WATCH: VLOG SERIE...

We’re taking the month of March for our annual reset — a time to rest in the Lord, refocus our hearts, and seek where He’s leading us next. This season of pause is intentional, sacred, and needed — and while we’re away, just know you will be deeply missed. 🤍 While we’re resting, catch up on past episodes and walk through our series playlists:  👉 https://www.youtube.com/@xoxogodlygirls/playlists...

Culture says sex is just physical. God says it’s spiritual. In this episode, we unpack why waiting for marriage still matters, even after failure, and how God restores what feels broken. Sex is a gift, and God gave us boundaries for it... but why? What happens when those boundaries are broken? Are you forever tied to someone because of sex? Are you “married in God’s eyes”? If you’ve already done i...

So many people don’t just want marriage—they’re longing for it. But why? Is it love… or is it loneliness? Security… or social pressure? Rom-coms sold us a fantasy. Social media sells us a highlight reel. But marriage is something else entirely. In this episode, we talk about unrealistic expectations, cultural lies about love, and how God’s design for marriage is deeper than romance. Connect with u...

It’s the question we all ask when feelings start forming and the talking stage gets… confusing. In this episode, we dive into God’s design for dating and why dating was never meant to be aimless or casual. We talk about the purpose of dating, the importance of being intentional, and how knowing what you want actually protects your heart. We also get real about attraction—does it matter, how much s...

Singleness looks different when you stop seeing it as a delay. This episode dives into the purpose of singleness and how God uses this season to shape identity, faith, and intimacy with Him. We talk about loneliness, desire, and the reminder that feeling lonely doesn’t mean you’re doing something wrong. Whether you’re content, struggling, or somewhere in between, this conversation reframes singlen...

Where are the godly guys? 👀 This episode, the guys take over the podcast—bringing honest answers, side notes, and real conversations. We talk about what a godly guy actually looks like, beyond titles and talk. For the girls listening, this is insight into what to look for, what matters, and what’s worth waiting for. For the guys listening, it’s a challenge to step up and become the kind of man Go...

Wisdom only time can teach. In the final episode of our generational series, we sit down with our grandmas to hear the stories, lessons, and faith that have carried them through life’s hardest seasons. They share how faith has changed over the years, what they’ve learned through loss, advice they would give their younger selves, and the hope they hold for their grandchildren. This episode is a bea...

It’s hard being set apart—especially in high school. In this episode, we sit down with two of our small group girls for an honest conversation about what it’s really like to follow Jesus in today’s world. From navigating friendships and peer pressure to balancing faith, technology, and social expectations, these girls share their real struggles, victories, and questions. If you’ve ever felt differ...

What if faith didn’t have to be so complicated? In this episode, we sit down with some of our favorite kids to hear their honest, hilarious, and surprisingly profound perspectives on God, faith, and life. No filters. No overthinking. Just pure, childlike belief. Through lots of laughter and sweet moments, we’re reminded of the kind of faith Jesus talked about—the kind that trusts easily, loves dee...

Every year we pick a word and hope it magically changes everything. This year, the word is peace —but what happens when life stays loud, pressure stays heavy, and stress doesn’t disappear overnight? In this episode, we talk about what peace actually looks like when God is developing your character. Not the aesthetic kind. Not the denial kind. The kind of peace that’s formed when you stop trying to...