Wonderland - Beyond the Looking Glass

Does it feel like you're wasting your time in a relationship that's going nowhere? This episode we'll discuss Keisha's pick in what wasting time looks like. We talk about signs, how to address them and what actionable advice you can take to move forward. Plus, stories from the crew and how we all have been in similar situations, so you can learn from our experiences. We answer the question about w...

This week on our podcast, we'll be discussing those relationships that might have been worth fighting for. We'll explore when to stay and when to leave, helping you reflect on the choices you've made in your past relationships and think about how they may or may not have been the right ones. So let's talk – did you ever regret leaving a relationship too soon? #Relationships #Choices #Regret Clip:...

Do you know the difference between someone who is compatible with you and someone who is suitable? Does it matter? In this week's episode, we discuss the difference as it relates to long-term relationships. We also talk about reasons you put in the work and fight for a relationship and ways to identify connections that are only meant for a season. Clip link: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTRsY6MrH/ The...

We're Backkkkkk....with our 1st episode of Season 5! Who is your #1? This episode talks about time importance of priorities in relationships. Come join in on the conversation and learn what the Wonderland crew feels is important and what priority they feel they should be. Chris leads this episode so come on in and join the conversation.  Clip link: https://youtube.com/shorts/RGq5qR4F3GU The w...

Are some break-ups easier to process and move on from than others? Do you keep a few ex-partners in the "In Case of Emergency, Break Glass"? Come chat with us as we discuss why some people are easier to let go of and others stick with you forever. We are saying goodbye to Season 4 as we close it out with this episode. Come join in on the conversation.  The world is a wonderland...the same one...

How many previous partners have you taken back? Listen to the Wonderland Crew as we discuss the concepts of taking an ex back. Is breaking up with someone an indicator of a healthy relationship; if you can make it work after the break-up? Let's talk about it.  Watch the clip here .  The world is a wonderland...the same one Alice found herself in. Everything is distorted, and nothing appe...

To smash or not to smash...that is the question. Is there a right or wrong way to enter into a sexual relationship? What about body count...does that still matter? How soon is too soon? So many questions...come listen to the answers. Learn who has a new nickname and who is "persistently" chasing butterflies...oh yeah, and a bit of Sunday school too. Another episode to get you talking; come join in...

Be careful what you ask for...a phrase we all have heard once or twice. What happens when that "perfect" partner enters your life and is the answer to all your prayers? Screw it up right?  What does self-sabotage look like? How do you stop doing it? Oh, and find out who the habitual line-crosser is...  The world is a wonderland...the same one Alice found herself in. Everything is distort...

This episode, much like all the Mad Hatter episodes, will be exploring some graphic stories and details that may be a trigger so please consider your own trauma stories and experiences when deciding to listen. Mad as a Hatter. Do you know the story behind the phrase? The insanity behind the character? The phrase was used to describe someone who’s crazy or prone to unpredictable behavior. Between t...

The phrases dating and courting are often used interchangeably.  However, is that the correct way? Jump down the rabbit hole with us to hear about what we feel the difference is and why it is important NOT to TAKE a drink from Chris.  Come on in and join the conversation. The world is a wonderland...the same one Alice found herself in. Everything is distorted, and nothing appears real, while the f...

If you are a regular podcast listener, then you know we use Maya Angelou's wisdom a lot. So much we dedicated a whole episode to her lesson of "When someone shows you who they are, believe them."  Who is to blame when you decide to ignore the warnings? Can you ever change someone's behavior? Is it worth it? Come on in and join the conversation.  The world is a wonderland...the same one A...

This episode, much like all the Mad Hatter episodes, will be exploring some graphic stories and details that may be a trigger so please consider your own trauma stories and experiences when deciding to listen. Mad as a Hatter. Do you know the story behind the phrase? The insanity behind the character? The phrase was used to describe someone who’s crazy or prone to unpredictable behavior. Between t...

In the world of dating in today's age; there are many options you can pick from. We discuss poly, open, long-distance, and age-difference relationships. We talk about what ones each host can and has participated in and the ones that are a hard pass. From relationships to Olaf; this episode is truly a comical trip down the rabbit hole.  The world is a wonderland...the same one Alice found hers...

We all have heard the saying, "Men are from Mars; Women are from Venus." What does that mean for communication? Conflicts in communication can bring abrupt endings. Is it possible that communication could be based more on personality rather than gender? Come chat it up with the Wonderland crew and join in on the conversation. The world is a wonderland...the same one Alice found herself in. Everyth...

This episode, much like all the Mad Hatter episodes, will be exploring some graphic stories and details that may be a trigger so please consider your own trauma stories and experiences when deciding to listen. Mad as a Hatter. Do you know the story behind the phrase? The insanity behind the character? The phrase was used to describe someone who’s crazy or prone to unpredictable behavior. Between t...

What does healing look like to you? Is it different when you are dating? How do you stay authentic to your healing while allowing yourself to be vulnerable with someone new? Come chat it up with the Wonderland crew and join in on the conversation.  The world is a wonderland...the same one Alice found herself in. Everything is distorted, and nothing appears real, while the fakest thing can fee...

Have you ever been told that you have “daddy issues” or been called a “mama’s boy” What exactly does that mean? What does it mean for you and your relationships? In this episode, we begin a conversation about what these terms actually mean, ways to identify the behaviors, and how to address them before they hurt your relationship. Spoiler alert…one of the hosts, has both! Can you guess who? The wo...

This episode, much like all the Mad Hatter episodes, will be exploring some graphic stories and details that may be a trigger so please consider your own trauma stories and experiences when deciding to listen. Mad as a Hatter. Do you know the story behind the phrase? The insanity behind the character? The phrase was used to describe someone who’s crazy or prone to unpredictable behavior. Between t...

Come chat it up with the Wonderland Crew as we talk about the challenges of "Dating After Divorce". We talk about our own experiences and respond to some questions from others. Also, grab some tips for those of you who find yourself in this experience of dating after divorce.  The world is a wonderland...the same one Alice found herself in. Everything is distorted, and nothing appears real, w...

We're backkkkkkkkkkk! Season 4 has officially arrived!  Come chat it up with the Wonderland Crew as we talk about what being "too" single is. Is that really a thing? Studies suggest that it is. We open the season with a discussion that is full of laughs and revelations that being single too long can actually shorten your lifespan!!! What?! Share your thoughts on the topic? Can being single fo...

Welcome to the "In-Betweens" a series of episodes between Seasons 3 and 4. Anything goes and the topics will be lighter but just as educational and engaging. This episode welcomes Tim from the " Real Talk with Tim " podcast as we go down the rabbit hole asking the question; is loyalty a learned behavior. We also take a look at the research that suggests cheating could be genetic. Below you will fi...

Welcome to the "In-Betweens" a series of episodes between Seasons 3 and 4. Anything goes and the topics will be lighter but just as educational and engaging. This episode is based on a video selection that discussed how "like attracts like". We take you down the rabbit hole in a discussion with Mr. Blackovation about how the main person to blame for our issues with others is....wait for it...OURSE...

This is the “official” last episode of our mini-series this season. We had to come back and finish with a merging of two episodes that got you all talking. In this episode we welcome back Davian from Season 1 Episode 6; “Matching Mindsets” and Mr. Blackovation (Darrell Barnes) helps to address the highly debated topic of overly masculine women in the black community and the imbalance that is being...

Come chat it up with the Wonderland Crew and special guest and longtime friend M.Perry as we look at what vulnerability looks like in the black man. However, somewhere around the 25-minute mark, the train goes off the track. Come listen to an honest conversation between both genders asking and answering some tough questions about relationships. How many "Trigger Moments" can you count? That should...

The Our House Is On Fire Monthly Series will take a look at various issues impacting the black community. The purpose is to discuss areas that have been overlooked or not given attention to and seek solutions. The goal is healing and moving forward from a place of unity and understanding. This episode is a Podcast Collaboration with Mr. Blackovation, host of the All Things Black Podcast. We will t...