Wisdom of Impermanence

·        Today, we are joined by the incomparable Dr. Kerry Burnight, a leading gerontologist and author of the New York Times bestselling book,  Joy Span: The Art and Science of Thriving in Life's Second Half . We delve into the nuanced journey of aging, exploring the intersection of growth, connection, adaptation, and the power of giving. Dr. Kerry shares her extensive experience from her decade...

Why do we suffer, even when life seems to be going well? In this episode, we delve into the Second and Third Noble Truths, examining how craving, clinging, and aversion subtly influence our daily lives. From career ambitions and relationships to old grudges and unexpected setbacks, we'll examine how our attachment to outcomes creates stress—and how the Buddha's teachings point toward genuine freed...

Roughly half of the people around you have, at some point, had what they'd call a spiritual awakening — a moment when the floor of ordinary life gave way and something quieter and more real opened underneath. Most of them have never told anyone. In this episode, we explore what spiritual awakening actually is — how it feels, what it changes, and the surprising statistics on just how common these e...

Margaret Meloni welcomes grief counselor Gyani Richards ( https://ourgriefpath.com/ )   to discuss the intricate landscape of grief - not just as a response to death, but as an intimate part of the human experience that encompasses various forms of loss, from the death of loved ones to the bittersweet transition of becoming an empty nester. Gyani shares his deeply personal journey with grief that...

Your host Margaret Meloni explores the First Noble Truth—the foundation of Buddhist teaching that so many Western practitioners initially reject. She shares the remarkable story of growing up as a questioning Catholic, becoming an atheist, and ultimately finding a spiritual home in Buddhism. But more than that, discover how the loss of her parents and her partner transformed her understanding of s...

Explore the complex journey of grief, guided by the heartfelt reflections of your host Margaret Meloni as she shares her personal experiences of loss and healing. Grief, often perceived as a backward glance filled with sorrow and regret, is instead revealed as a forward-looking process. It's about squinting through tears into an uncertain future, attempting to rebuild a life shattered by the loss...

Margaret Meloni welcomes back the esteemed Bhante Sumitta, a Theravada Buddhist monk and educator. Bhante, who faced multiple losses from a young age, shares his insights on impermanence and how our understanding of it can transform our relationship with life and death. Throughout their conversation, Margaret and Bhante explore the "glorious uncertainties" of life, touching on the natural cycles o...

Drawing from the revered Mahāparinibbāna Sutta, we reflect on the last teachings of the Buddha, who emphasized that all component things are impermanent and ever-changing. As we navigate the complexities of our daily lives, understanding impermanence enables us to cultivate resilience and mindfulness, offering us the tools to gracefully handle life's inevitable ups and downs. While change is often...

Host Margaret Meloni invites listeners to embark on a deeply personal journey through themes of death, grief, and spiritual awakening, all anchored in Buddhist wisdom and her own lived experiences. Margaret opens the episode by reflecting on her first encounters with impermanence, tracing back to her childhood memories of losing her beloved pets and family members. Through these poignant stories,...

In today's episode, Margaret Meloni engages in a profound conversation with the inspiring Kate Manser, also known as "the alive Kate."  As they explore the delicate balance between mortality awareness and the celebration of life, Kate shares her transformative journey from grappling with the fear of death to embracing the vibrant essence of being alive. Through heartfelt storytelling, Kate recount...

Welcome to the inaugural episode of the  Wisdom of Impermanence Podcast , where host Margaret Meloni invites you to embark on a transformative journey through the profound themes of death, grief, and spiritual awakening, all viewed through the lens of Buddhist wisdom. In this intimate and heartfelt conversation, Margaret sets the stage for a deeper understanding of impermanence - an essential aspe...

Everything changes. Everything ends. And in that truth lies profound freedom.*   Welcome to The Wisdom of Impermanence—a space to explore death, grief, and spiritual awakening through the lens of Buddhist wisdom and lived experience. This podcast invites you into intimate conversations about mortality, loss, and transformation.   Each episode features authentic storytelling, interviews with spirit...

Welcome back to the Death Dhamma podcast. It's time to make some changes to the podcast, and the discussions that we will have as move forward together. It's all about helping one another along the path, and being human while being Buddhist. 

This episode weaves together the major threads from Season 5: Equanimity vs. Apathy Emotional resilience and spiritual courage Practical tools for chaos and anxiety The path from anger to compassion Mindful restraint in an overstimulated world The Bodhisattva's quiet strength Whether you're meditating in stillness or navigating modern life's storms, equanimity becomes the thread that holds it all...

Together, let's explore the profound terrain of jhāna —a Pali term meaning "meditative absorption"—and how equanimity emerges as a central force in its deepest stages. These states of deep concentration are not just about peace or bliss, but about arriving at a radical stillness where distractions dissolve and the mind becomes clear, unwavering, and impartial. We delve into: ·        The progressi...

Delve into the concept of equanimity as articulated by the ancient Buddhist scholar Buddhaghosa in his seminal work, the Visuddhimagga. Explore three distinct types of equanimity: equanimity as a feeling, equanimity about insight, and equanimity as specific neutrality. Through this exploration, Margaret discusses practical meditation techniques and mental exercises that cultivate a balanced and ne...

Join us as we unpack three distinct types of equanimity: equanimity as an enlightenment factor, equanimity of energy, and equanimity about formations. Margaret's insights into these essential aspects of Buddhist philosophy provide listeners with practical tools for maintaining emotional balance in the face of life's ups and downs. Key Highlights: ·        Equanimity as an Enlightenment Factor : Th...

Margaret takes a closer look at the work of the renowned 5th-century monk, Buddhaghosa, and his influential text, the Visuddhimagga, or "Path of Purification." With a focus on two specific types of equanimity—the "six factored equanimity" and equanimity as a Brahmavihara—listeners will gain insight into how these concepts can help us develop mindfulness and clear comprehension in our daily lives....

As we approach the end of the season, Margaret shifts the focus of her discussions on equanimity from a largely pragmatic perspective to a deeper exploration of its role in Buddhist practice. Drawing on the work of Anne Murphy from the Department of Buddhist Studies in Colombo, Sri Lanka, she introduces us to the concept of the "Ten Kinds of Equanimity" as outlined in the Visuddhimagga by Bhikkhu...

In this episode, you'll journey through the trials and tribulations faced by the Bodhisattva, who was born into wealth yet felt increasingly disconnected from the material world. As he sought to embody the perfection of equanimity, he chose to leave behind his riches and venture into a life of simplicity and self-discovery. Through his interactions with disrespectful children and wise villagers, w...

Margaret reflects on the common human tendency to imagine how deceased loved ones would respond to current events. Through poignant examples, such as wishing a parent could witness significant life milestones or expressing relief that they are not around to witness troubling times, Margaret explores the emotional complexities associated with these thoughts. These reflections are not merely nostalg...

The Kumma sutta, a Buddhist parable about a tortoise and a jackal, can help remind you how guarding your sensory experiences can help you maintain inner peace and protect yourself from negative influences (symbolized by Mara) during challenging or "interesting" times. Key Points 🐢 Sensory Protection: The tortoise's strategy of withdrawing into its shell serves as a metaphor for protecting yoursel...

Margaret Meloni shares a Buddhist tale about perseverance and resilience in the face of seemingly insurmountable challenges. The story follows a caravan traveling through a scorching desert, where the guide falls asleep and leads the group in a circle, leaving them stranded without water. The caravan leader demonstrates extraordinary leadership and determination by encouraging his team to dig for...

Host Margaret Meloni shares personal travel experiences as a metaphor for understanding equanimity and finding calm amid chaos. Through her journey of a challenging red-eye flight and navigating unfamiliar traffic patterns, she explores the concept of "one by one" - a mindful approach to accepting life's unpredictability and maintaining inner peace despite external uncertainties. Key Points 🛫 Tra...

In this episode of the Death Dhamma Podcast , we turn our attention to equanimity—not as an abstract ideal, but as a living, breathing practice woven into the fabric of daily life. From missed buses to difficult conversations, we explore how small, often unnoticed moments offer profound opportunities to cultivate balance and composure. Drawing on both personal experiences and Buddhist teachings, t...