Why Would I Say That!?

In this episode, of the "Why Would I Say That!?" podcast, I bring a new segment to the podcast called “What’s Tierra’s Take?” to help others with their struggles. Whether it’s advice, story times, or just a small message, ANYTHING GOES! "IF YOU OR ANYONE YOU KNOW IS DEALING WITH ANY OF THESE TOPICS DISCUSSED IN THE EPISODE PLEASE REACH OUT. YOUR LIFE MATTERS! I LOVE YOU ALL! THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR...

In this episode, of the "Why Would I Say That!?" podcast, I talk about why it seems that BPD "never gets better".... SPOILER ALERT!!! we can but some people are unable to see just how bad things once were. Better is better! Take the win! I am by no means excusing anyones behavior with this take because of course we should be shooting for recovery but the thing is you do not wake up magically recov...

In this episode, of the "Why Would I Say That!?" podcast, I bring a new segment to the podcast called “What’s Tierra’s Take?” to help others with their struggles. Whether it’s advice, story times, or just a small message, ANYTHING GOES! "IF YOU OR ANYONE YOU KNOW IS DEALING WITH ANY OF THESE TOPICS DISCUSSED IN THE EPISODE PLEASE REACH OUT. YOUR LIFE MATTERS! I LOVE YOU ALL! THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR...

SPONSORED BY BETTERHELP Use my code For 10% off your first month of therapy! https://betterhelp.com/tierralorain - In this episode, of the "Why Would I Say That!?" podcast, I tell you about my most recent (and current) BPD episode... "IF YOU OR ANYONE YOU KNOW IS DEALING WITH ANY OF THESE TOPICS DISCUSSED IN THE EPISODE PLEASE REACH OUT. YOUR LIFE MATTERS! I LOVE YOU ALL! THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR BEI...

SPONSORED BY BETTERHELP Use my code For 10% off your first month of therapy! https://betterhelp.com/tierralorain - In this episode, of the "Why Would I Say That!?" podcast, I update you on where I have been and what happened during my break, and girl... there is a lot to unpack here.. "IF YOU OR ANYONE YOU KNOW IS DEALING WITH ANY OF THESE TOPICS DISCUSSED IN THE EPISODE PLEASE REACH OUT. YOUR LIF...

SPONSORED BY BETTERHELP Use my code For 10% off your first month of therapy! https://betterhelp.com/tierralorain - In this episode, of the "Why Would I Say That!?" podcast, Tierra talks about her struggle with setting boundaries while having BPD. It’s so hard to be aware of if you are actually being rational and setting a normal boundary or if I am being irrational and flying off the handle. "IF Y...

SPONSORED BY BETTERHELP Use my code For 10% off your first month of therapy! https://betterhelp.com/tierralorain - In this episode, of the "Why Would I Say That!?" podcast, Tierra talks about her struggle with shifting self image and how it makes her feel like a fraud... "IF YOU OR ANYONE YOU KNOW IS DEALING WITH ANY OF THESE TOPICS DISCUSSED IN THE EPISODE PLEASE REACH OUT. YOUR LIFE MATTERS! I L...

SPONSORED BY BETTERHELP Use my code For 10% off your first month of therapy! https://betterhelp.com/tierralorain - In this episode, of the "Why Would I Say That!?" podcast Tierra talks about her most recent split. FYI, SHE IS BY NO MEANS PROUD OF THIS! She just wants to show you that you are really not alone and also share the things she practices when as she goes through a split. IF YOU OR ANYONE...

SPONSORED BY BETTERHELP Use my code For 10% off your first month of therapy! https://betterhelp.com/tierralorain - In this episode, of the "Why Would I Say That!?" podcast, Tierra reads a personal letter she wrote to her younger and undiagnosed self. It is so hard to be struggling with something you are unable to articulate. Tierra always wants to remind you that you are never alone despite how bi...

SPONSORED BY BETTERHELP Use my code For 10% off your first month of therapy! https://betterhelp.com/tierralorain - In this episode, of the "Why Would I Say That!?" podcast, Tierra talks about one of her past relationships where BPD was used against her after sharing her vulnerabilities. It definitely takes two in relationship but this her story she is finally ready to talk about in order to preven...

SPONSORED BY BETTERHELP Use my code For 10% off your first month of therapy! https://betterhelp.com/tierralorain - In this episode, of the "Why Would I Say That!?" podcast, Tierra talks about one of her past relationships where BPD was used against her after sharing her vulnerabilities. It definitely takes two in relationship but this her story she is finally ready to talk about in order to preven...

SPONSORED BY BETTERHELP Use my code For 10% off your first month of therapy! https://betterhelp.com/tierralorain - In this episode, of the "Why Would I Say That!?" podcast, Tierra talks about one of her past relationships where BPD was used against her after sharing her vulnerabilities. It definitely takes two in relationship but this her story she is finally ready to talk about in order to preven...

SPONSORED BY BETTERHELP Use my code For 10% off your first month of therapy! https://betterhelp.com/tierralorain - In this episode, of the "Why Would I Say That!?" podcast, Tierra discusses her personal struggles with Borderline Personality Disorder and the fear of abandonment. She also shares how she has been able to learn how to better manage these things. IF YOU OR ANYONE YOU KNOW IS DEALING WI...

SPONSORED BY BETTERHELP Use my code For 10% off your first month of therapy! https://betterhelp.com/tierralorain - In this episode, of the "Why Would I Say That!?" podcast, Tierra asks the question we all ask ourselves when we struggle... Is it really that bad? Am I being dramatic? Am I even sick enough to get help? SPOILER!!! The answer is if you are even questioning it, you are sick enough! IF Y...

In this episode, of the "Why Would I Say That!?" podcast, Tierra discusses what it is like when you disguise avoidance as healing. Avoiding is actually more common than really taking the time to heal, so let’s get into it! IF YOU OR ANYONE YOU KNOW IS DEALING WITH ANY OF THESE TOPICS DISCUSSED IN THE EPISODE PLEASE REACH OUT. YOUR LIFE MATTERS! I LOVE YOU ALL! THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR BEING HERE! SPO...

In this episode of the " Why Would I Say That!? " Podcast, Tierra discusses her current struggles and why she HATES healing culture! I know that may sound strange coming from her, but let's get into it... Also Available on Apple, Spotify, and Google Podcast OTHER PLATFORMS: TikTok @tierrahaas https://www.tiktok.com/@tierrahaas?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc Instagram @tierralorain https://w...

In this episode of the " Why Would I Say That!? " Podcast, Tierra discusses the difference between love and limerence. Limerence is so hard to deal with and she personally did not know how much this had a hold on her life! So, Let’s get straight into it… Also Available on Apple, Spotify, and Google Podcast OTHER PLATFORMS: TikTok @tierrahaas https://www.tiktok.com/@tierrahaas?is_from_webapp=1&...

In this episode, of the "Why Would I Say That!?" podcast, Tierra discusses how to go about being invalidated. This is YOUR story and YOUR truth. You know what you felt, and it is valid! IF YOU OR ANYONE YOU KNOW IS DEALING WITH ANY OF THESE TOPICS DISCUSSED IN THE EPISODE PLEASE REACH OUT. YOUR LIFE MATTERS! I LOVE YOU ALL! THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR BEING HERE! Also Available on Apple, Spotify, and Go...

In this episode, of the "Why Would I Say That!?" podcast, I answer commonly asked questions about Borderline Personality Disorder and my personal journey. Some of these questions are just commonly asked, and others are questions I felt strongly about. I typically ONLY address my supporters but for the this one time I am also addressing the trolls... IF YOU OR ANYONE YOU KNOW IS DEALING WITH ANY OF...

In this episode of the "Why Would I Say That!?" Podcast, Tierra discusses her past struggles with relationships and how her fear of abandonment has 'ironically' helped her gain the confidence of being alone. BUT, this has also put a halt in her healing due to avoiding relationships altogether. Most assume people with BPD fear being alone because of the symptoms including fear of abandonment, but t...

It's Tierra's Birthday! (kind of, she's still learning this podcasting thing...) In this episode, of the "Why Would I Say That!?" podcast, Tierra talks about her life long struggle of "just surviving"... This year she wants to change things around and shares the things that she is currently practicing to achieve a full life. We are no longer shooting for "just making it" we deserve a full life! (A...

In this episode, of the "Why Would I Say That!?" podcast Tierra discusses current and past struggles with how she was able to actually get better and improve her life. This may not the answer you wanted but definitely what is needed. Also Available on Apple, Spotify, and Google Podcast OTHER PLATFORMS: TikTok @tierrahaas https://www.tiktok.com/@tierrahaas?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc Inst...

In this episode, of the "Why Would I Say That!?" podcast Tierra discusses current and past struggles with how she deals with "analysis paralysis" and how to break these habits. Getting stuck in your head about what you said and who you are is a struggle that is rarely talked about. EVERYONE experiences this at one point or another so let's talk about it!

In this episode, Tierra talks about her current and past struggles with jealousy and how she changed her perspective into making it her superpower! Jealousy is a human emotion that EVERYONE experiences but is usually looked at as something you should ignore, push down, or even shame yourself over... But, That is far from true.

In this episode, Tierra discusses splitting and her own personal struggles with Borderline Personality Disorder. She dives deep into this topic, even going as far as to talking about the guilt and uncomfortable situations a split may cause. Splitting does NOT only happen to people struggling with BPD, it happens to almost everyone at some point in their lives! Tierra is not afraid to air herself o...