Wholly Ourselves

Josh shares a recent sermon from Pentecost, analyzing the parable of the generous landowner and what it teaches about inclusion in the church.    Become a Patron: https://patreon.com/whollyourselves Subscribe to Josh's Monthly Substack: https://whollyourselves.org/#substack Ask a question or send a message: https://www.whollyourselves.org/podcast Credit: Our Theme Song is "Leave it All Behind" by...

Meg Baatz — the OG guest of Life on Side B and co-founder of Kaleidoscope — joins Josh to talk leadership in faith and sexuality spaces. Fresh off stepping away from her role at Kaleidoscope, Meg unpacks the real difference between influence and leadership, why trust in pastors and institutions has collapsed across generations, and what integrity looks like when your public and private life are on...

It's Pride Month! Rachel and Josh sit down for a discussion about Pride Month, its origins, their evolving relationships with the celebrations, and the reaction of Christians to the month.   Become a Patron: https://patreon.com/whollyourselves Subscribe to Josh's Monthly Substack: https://whollyourselves.org/#substack Ask a question or send a message: https://www.whollyourselves.org/podcast Credit...

Rachel and Josh talk about purity culture, where it comes from, the ways it impacted them differently and the residual effects of it in our world today.    Become a Patron: https://patreon.com/whollyourselves Subscribe to Josh's Monthly Substack: https://whollyourselves.org/#substack Ask a question or send a message: https://www.whollyourselves.org/podcast Credit: Our Theme Song is "Leave it All B...

Josh sits down with Dr. Beth, spiritual director and teacher at Kairos University, to explore  spiritual direction. Together they unpack what spiritual direction actually is, how it differs from therapy and pastoral care, and why creating sacred space for God to speak is more powerful than any advice or answer a director could give. Whether you're curious about finding a spiritual director or cons...

Bill Henson, president of Posture Shift Ministries, joins Josh on the podcast to discuss the rising trends of culture war on LGBTQ issues in churches, the signs and impacts, and how best to respond to promote a gospel and missional posture. Check out Posture Shift's article "The Identity Crisis" here: https://postureshift.com/theidentitycrisis/ Posture Shift will be presenting at Exiles in Babylon...

A new Supreme Court ruling on conversion therapy could have far-reaching consequences—not just for LGBTQ people, but for how we understand therapy itself. In this episode, Josh and Rachel break down what actually happened, why it matters, and how it impacts faith, mental health, and the lives of queer Christians.   Become a Patron: https://patreon.com/whollyourselves   Subscribe to Josh's Monthly...

We all want deeper relationships but few are willing to pay the cost. Josh and Lin explore the hidden dynamics of commitment, loneliness, and the surprising ingredients of lasting community. Check out Church of the Sojourners: https://churchofthesojourners.org/ Nurturing Communities Network: https://www.nurturingcommunities.org/   Become a Patron: https://patreon.com/whollyourselves Subscribe to J...

This week, Josh is back for a solo episode with follow up thoughts from the last three interviews discussing sexual identity, Christian acceptance, and generational trauma. He then gives thoughts on the Epstein Scandal and what the response of many Christian leaders says about the state of Christian credibility on matters of sexuality. Check out Russel Moore's article that Josh referenced here: ht...

In this episode, Josh sits down with Dr. Sandra Anderson, therapist, author, and HIV advocate, to explore transgenerational trauma, epigenetics, and the ways shame and unhealed wounds echo across generations. Together they discuss how healing happens through radical acceptance, spiritual renewal, and the church becoming an ICU of love where people are restored to wholeness. Learn more about Dr. An...

In this episode, Josh is joined by Karen Keen, biblical scholar, spiritual director, and co-editor of Christlike Acceptance Across Deep Differences, for a rich conversation on faith, sexuality, and disagreement in the church. Together they explore how Christians can hold truth and dignity together, cultivate resilience in conflict, and remain rooted in Christ while navigating deep theological diff...

In this episode, Josh sits down with Dr. Mark Yarhouse, professor of psychology and head of the Sexual & Gender Identity Institute at Wheaton College, to talk about his and Dr. Julia Sadusky's new book Emerging Sexual Identities. Together they discuss how sexual identity language is changing, why younger generations are using new terms, and how churches can respond with curiosity and pastoral...

In this episode, Josh reflects on the growing backlash against queer Christians, exploring how fear, shame, and legalism shape Christian responses to LGBTQ identity. Become a Patron: https://patreon.com/whollyourselves Subscribe to My Monthly Substack: https://whollyourselves.org/#substack Ask a question or send a message: https://www.whollyourselves.org/podcast Credit: Our Theme Song is "Leave it...

In this episode, hear a sermon from Josh on spiritual formation and soul care, exploring what it truly means to become whole before God, ourselves, and others. Drawing from the opening chapters of 2 Corinthians, this reflection invites listeners to consider how God forms us not through strength or certainty, but through presence, suffering, and deep care for the soul.   Become a Patron: https://pa...

In this episode, I share a sermon reflecting on Jesus’ parable of the Good Samaritan and its deeper connection to the command to love our neighbor. Drawing parallels between how Samaritans were viewed in Jesus’ time and how queer Christians are often treated in the church today, this episode is an invitation to re-examine who we imagine as “neighbor,” how Jesus consistently redefines belonging, an...

In this episode, I'm sharing a sermon I preached earlier this year. Drawing on musical theater, I explore the question: What is the difference between a man and a monster? Together we trace how fear, power, apathy, and self-preservation shape the monstrous patterns we see in Scripture, in history, and in ourselves. And yet, through the humility and mercy of Jesus, we discover a God who refuses to...

In this solo episode, Josh reflects on what it really means to be in process in our sexuality and spiritual formation. He explores why Christians often struggle to make room for growth, especially when shame, purity culture, and unrealistic expectations around “having it all together” get in the way. Josh unpacks the difference between performative integrity and honest integrity, the ways power an...

I sat down with therapists and hosts of The You-Turn Podcast, Sarah Claire and Adam, to explore how Internal Family Systems (IFS)—often called “parts work”—can deepen both our relationships and faith. Together we unpack how understanding the “parts” within us leads to healing, humility, and love, and how the language of IFS resonates with Jesus’ invitation to love God, neighbor, and self.   Check...

In this episode, Josh is joined by three friends, Michelle Disarno, Johana-Marie Williams, and Nick Rivard. One thing they all share in common...their love for Lord of the Rings. They explore the intersection of faith, sexuality, and gender through the lens of J.R.R. Tolkien's works, particularly Lord of the Rings. They discuss personal connections to the story, the significance of death, hope and...

Josh sits down with his friend Rachel Dowda to explore the themes of community, friendship, and identity, particularly within the queer context. They highlight the significance of casual intimacy, the complexities of building and maintaining friendships, and the role of conflict in personal growth.   Learn more about Rachel's work at www.bungalowcounseling.com   Become a Patron: https://patreon.co...

In this episode, Josh is joined by Simon Kent Fung, host of the Dear Alana podcast, to unpack the upcoming U.S. Supreme Court case Chiles v. Salazar, which challenges Colorado’s ban on conversion therapy for minors. Together they share their personal experiences with conversion therapy, explain what an amicus brief is and why Josh submitted one, and discuss the deep impact these practices have on...

I am back for another solo episode reflecting on the last few interviews and sharing updates about the podcast and the Patreon page. I delve into the impact of the Pulse nightclub crosswalk removal as an example of minority stress within the LGBTQ community. Additionally, I share about the Safe Religious Spaces event and the significance of Christ's empathy for sexual violence survivors. And final...

I sits down with his friend Emily Blaylock, Outreach Coordinator for Palm Beach County Victim Services, to have a conversation about sexual violence in faith communities. We share stories, reflect on personal experiences, and preview the upcoming Safe Religious Spaces Panel, an event bringing together clergy, therapists, and advocates to equip faith communities in responding to sexual violence wit...

Josh is joined by Timon Lee as we delve into the complex world of minority stress, focusing on its profound impact on LGBT+ Christians. Join us as we explore the unique challenges and hidden effects of minority stress on mental health and spiritual well-being. Discover strategies for resilience and community support that empower LGBT+ Christians to thrive despite the pressures they face. Tune in f...

For the first interview of Wholly Ourselves, I am joined by Destyn Land, author of "The Rules We Live By: Stories and Reflections on Unlearning Patriarchal Masculinity" to explore the complexities of masculinity, particularly patriarchal masculinity, and its impact on individuals and society. We discuss the need for open dialogue about sexual shame and the importance of understanding trauma in sha...