Whiskey Bent & Spellbound

This week, Jaki and Rachael are fully in their Adult Beginner Era… and it's humbling. From Rachael's adult beginner ballet class (aka her "weekly humiliation ritual") to both of them learning chess and attempting French on Duolingo, they're unpacking why starting something new — even something you want to do — can feel so uncomfortable. Why does being a beginner bruise the ego? Why are we more afr...

Resolutions are cancelled in 2026. This week, besties Jaki and Rachael are doing things differently—ditching outdated "new year, new me" rules and stepping fully into intention. They each reveal their Word of the Year, what it means, and how they're setting themselves up for real success (not just January motivation). From mindset shifts to bold moves and long-game planning, this episode is all ab...

It's time for Jaki and Rachael's annual Besties Year in Review —drinks poured, last year's episode reviewed, and honesty fully unlocked. The girls revisit their December 2024 selves to see how they actually did: what they accomplished, what they forgot they even wanted, and which goals quietly fell by the wayside. They reflect on how they've changed emotionally and mentally over the past year, wha...

What happens when men are taught that feelings equal weakness and competition equals worth? This week, Jaki and Rachael dive into how the patriarchy boxes men in—limiting emotional expression, discouraging mental health support, and rewarding dominance over connection. We talk about how these expectations impact men's relationships, their inner lives, and society as a whole—and why healing this sy...

This week on Whiskey Bent & Spellbound , besties Jaki & Rachael are pouring a glass and stepping into their Soft Girl Self-Focused Era — intentionally, unapologetically, and with receipts. Jaki opens up about her decision to decenter men completely , sharing the moment she realized that dating was draining her magic instead of adding to it (and yes, she's sticking to it!). Meanwhile, Rachael refle...

Besties Jaki and Rachael are back, and Jaki's fresh from her unforgettable trip across the pond! From exploring London and cozy English pubs to wandering the streets of Paris, Jaki shares how this adventure turned into something deeper — a trip of sisterhood, self-discovery, and falling in love with herself. Pour a glass and join the girls for a heart-filled catch-up full of laughs, reflection, an...

We're back for part two, besties, and it's getting real . Jaki, Rachael, and our friend Madeline pick up where we left off, diving deeper into life after heartbreak, redefining what you want in a partner, and embracing your single era unapologetically. 💅 This episode is all about choosing you first—whether that means jumping back on the apps, dating intentionally, or saying "nah, I'm good" and fo...

Besties Jaki & Rachael are back, and we're diving headfirst into the wild world of dating! 💔➡️❤️ After a breakup, deciding whether to date—or intentionally not date—can feel like a whole journey. We're joined by our friend Madeline, who's back on the apps after three years of being happily single, while Rachael debates whether it's time to jump back in or stay out of the game entirely. Meanwhile,...

It's Part 3 of the You're Dead to Me series and this one's from the vault , baby! 📦 Jaki & Rachael unearthed a never-before-released episode recorded after Rachael's first breakup with Deadpool—and whew, the red flags were waving in HD. Why didn't we release it then? Because we were still in our "maybe he'll change" era. But now? No more protecting dumbass men. We're reading receipts, roasting be...

Welcome back to the You're Dead to Me series, where Jaki & Rachael stop protecting men who absolutely don't deserve it. In Part 2, Rachael officially ends things with Deadpool—for the final time. What finally pushed her over the edge? Oh, just the small matter of her paying for an amazing vacation… only for him to ask her to make his car payment when they got home. 🚩 Baby, no. Grab your whiskey a...

Welcome to You're Dead to Me —a brand new series where Jaki & Rachael stop protecting the men who should've been exposed ages ago. In Part 1, "The Eagle" swoops in with a shocking message that crashes and burns a nearly 30-year friendship. What did he say that made Rachael react with surgical precision and zero regret? Don't worry, besties—she's reading every text and spilling all the tea. No more...

While Jaki & Rachael soak up some much-needed vacation time, we're rewinding it all the way back to where it started—our very first episode! Whether you're a longtime listener or just joining the coven, enjoy this throwback gem: Just Xennial Girls in a Millennial World. We'll be back soon with fresh chaos, spellbinding stories, and whiskey-fueled rants. Until then, press play and relive the magic...

It's a wild ride this week on Whiskey Bent & Spellbound as besties Jaki & Rachael play the ultimate game of Eff, Marry, or Friendzone —but with a twist. From cartoon villains to gothic heartthrobs, no one is safe from their hot takes. Who's getting friendzoned? Who's getting wifed up? And who's just getting... well, you know. Pour yourself a stiff one and prepare for unhinged debates, unexpected c...

In this episode, Jaki and Rachael dive into the messy, personal, and often misunderstood concept of closure. From romantic breakups to professional goodbyes, they explore why closure isn't something you get from other people—it's something you create for yourself. Jaki shares what she's going through after a recent breakup, including the techniques she's using to gain peace and move forward. Wheth...

This week, we're talking about relationship rollouts: soft vs. hard launches. Jaki's a soft launch girlie, Rachael's holding out for a ring—and a marriage license. We break down what each type means, why boundaries matter, and how to share your love without oversharing your life. 🥂💅 Featured on the Podcast: Uncle Nearest Premium Whiskey Fancy Sprinkles Edible Glitter Follow us on Patreon for ear...

This week on Whiskey Bent & Spellbound with Black & Whitefield, Jaki & Rachael are diving into a breakup that didn't quite break—because Jaki just got quietly quit on. Yep, we're talking quiet quitting in relationships: what it looks like, how to spot it, and what the heck to do when someone emotionally clocks out but forgets to tell you. Plus, the tarot reading this week? Oh, it's LOUD. Spirit is...

This week on Whiskey Bent & Spellbound, your favorite besties Jaki & Rachael are catching you up on all the juicy life updates. Rachael spills the tea on her brand-new tech job (hello, boss babe energy!), how she's juggling her loyal nail clients, and whether or not she's rekindling things with a familiar flame—yes, we're talking about Deadpool 👀. Meanwhile, Jaki shares a heartfelt story about a...

Buckle up, besties! This week on Whiskey Bent & Spellbound , Jaki schools Rachael (and all of us) on Karmic Cycles —what they are, how they shape our lives, and why you might be repeating the same patterns again and again . Rachael had no idea about this cosmic concept, but Jaki, our resident guru, breaks it all down in a way that makes total sense. And because we love to get a little witchy, we'r...

Besties Jaki & Rachael dive into Mel Robbins' Let Them theory and how embracing it can be truly freeing. When you stop trying to control others, you create space to focus on what actually serves you. They share real-life moments where they put this mindset into action—sometimes effortlessly, sometimes with a struggle—but always with growth. From dating to friendships to family, learn how letting t...

Besties Jaki & Rachael are diving deep into the dark world of narcissistic abuse—how to spot it, how to survive it, and what to do if you think you might be in it. Jaki shares her own escape story, while Rachael talks about the people in her life still caught in the web of both overt and covert narcissistic abuse. From love-bombing to gaslighting to the brutal discard phase, we're pulling back the...

New year, new... wait, maybe not. Besties Jaki & Rachael are kicking off the year with a chat about setting intentions—well, sort of. Jaki's got her goals locked and loaded, building on last year's wins, while Rachael's taking a more go-with-the-flow vibe, processing life as it comes because, hey, sometimes the New Year's timing is just off. They remind us that it's okay to skip the "word of the y...

Besties Jaki & Rachael are ringing out the year with a magical rundown of all things 2024! How many countries did Jaki cross off her travel bucket list? (Spoiler: It's impressive!) What new opportunities did the universe make room for in Rachael's life? And most importantly, how did the dynamic duo level up in ways they never saw coming? Grab your whiskey and join the celebration as they reflect o...

Pack your mouse ears and join us for a magical episode as Jaki and Rachael relive their recent friend-cation to Disneyland! From f'ing up Fantasyland to rekindling the magic of friendship, these two besties prove that a Disney adventure isn't just good for your heart—it heals your soul. Whether it's the rides, the snacks, or the wild mishaps along the way, their Disneyland rundown is sure to leave...

The clocks have turned back, the days are shorter, and the winter gloom is creeping in—but you're not alone! In this insightful and relatable episode of Whiskey Bent & Spellbound with Black and Whitefield , besties Jaki and Rachael dive into the real talk about depression. They explore the different types we all might face, from situational and Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD) to chemical imbalan...

Grab a mimosa (or three) and settle in as Jaki & Rachael dive deep into the shock, frustration, and fierce resilience sparked by the latest election—yep, Trump's back in office. The besties unpack what this means for women's rights, our everyday lives, and the future of our voices in a world that feels a bit upside down. From immediate hot takes to exploring where we can go from here, this episode...