WHET NIE?!

Let’s talk about something real for a second…Why do people get into relationships already leading with what they won’t do? Like… before anything even has a chance to grow, it’s ‘I’m not doing this,’ ‘I’m not going for that,’ ‘I’m not changing this.’ And then later on, you’re sitting there wondering why it didn’t work out.   It’s confusing to me. Because yeah! Boundaries matter! Standards matter! I...

In the past, we’ve had conversations centered around the negative sides of relationships. The pain, the lessons, the things that didn’t go right. But growth requires honesty… and accountability. Today, I’m doing something I haven’t done before. After putting in the work and doing some real self reflection, I want to formally apologize to a ex. Not just in words, but in understanding. This episode...

The episode where receipts are ignored, lies are doubled down on, and everybody acts confused like you didn’t see what you saw. We’re talking cheating with confidence, denial with a straight face, and the wild choice to stay after the disrespect hits its peak. Gaslighting, fake apologies, “that’s not what happened” energy, and the emotional circus that keeps people stuck. It’s petty. It’s toxic. I...

Join me as I recount the adventure of traveling from Florida to Texas. A journey filled with unexpected detours, memorable moments, and the lessons learned along the way. 

Have You Ever Been the Cheater… or the Cheated? Let’s be real! almost everyone has been touched by cheating in some way. Tonight, we share opinions, experiences, and perspectives on infidelity, loyalty, and relationships. No judgment, just honest talk about mistakes, lessons learned, and how cheating changes people forever.

In this episode, we dive into the frustration of dealing with people who always make plans, promise to show up, swear they’ll be on time… but never follow through. They confirm, they reassure, they say “I’m on the way,” yet somehow they’re always late, cancel last minute, or disappear altogether. We talk about the emotional toll that kind of inconsistency takes. How it shifts from disappointment t...

In today’s world, traditional relationships are being redefined. With the rise of polyamory, open relationships, threesomes, and even sex-positive communities, it’s worth asking, is monogamy still the end goal? Or has it become an outdated ideal that no longer fits modern love and desire? 👀

In this episode of The WHET NIE Podcast, we dive into one of the spiciest and most complicated questions in relationships: what happens when your partner asks for a threesome? We talk about the emotions, boundaries, and expectations that come with the request. How would you feel if it came up, and what would be your response? From the excitement and curiosity to the potential challenges and insecu...

This week on WHET NIE?!, I’m tackling the tough topic of ending a friendship that drains you. Done being nice and sweeping shit under the rug. You’ve never truly been a real friend. You’re a weird BITCH and this is GOODBYE.

Ever notice how birthdays and holidays bring out the long lost friends/scandals. This episode jumps into the mixed bag of emotions that come with those reconnects, and then it touches on the saying, "God gives his hardest battles to his strongest warriors." We unpack the idea of strength, struggle, and the moments when you just want to throw in the towel."

Ever notice how some folks only pop up when they need something? This week on WHET NIE?!, we're diving deep into the world of convenient connections. We're talking about those family members and friends who are MIA until they need a favor, a shoulder to cry on, or just a little boost. Is it selfishness, bad timing, or just the way some relationships are.

Can you really make new friends while being in a relationship? KingPrime and I explore how new friendships can either strengthen your bond or, if not navigated carefully, lead to unexpected challenges. Tune in as we discuss the do's and don'ts of new friendships while in a committed relationship and how to ensure everyone benefits.

LHey everyone, welcome back to the pod! This week, Bubbles and I are diving deep into the world of hookup culture. We're talking about everything from the apps that fuel it to the impact it has on relationships and mental health. Is it empowering or just a recipe for heartbreak? We'll share our own experiences, dissect the pros and cons, and try to figure out if hookup culture is really all it's c...

In this episode, I share the story of how I developed my alter ego and how it's helped me evolve into a better version of myself since childhood. We'll explore the origins of this persona, the ways it's shaped my identity, and the incredible impact it's had on my personal growth. Tune in to discover how embracing an alter ego can unlock your full potential and transform your life! GAAAAAYYYYY! LOL...

Ever feel drained after hanging out with certain people? It might be time to evaluate who you're letting into your inner circle. This week, we dive deep into the importance of being intentional with your personal space and energy. We'll explore how to identify energy vampires, set healthy boundaries, and cultivate relationships that uplift and support your journey. 

In this heartfelt and hilarious episode, your favorite duo, London and Bubbles, take a walk down memory lane as we spill the tea on our past gay relationships—the good, the bad, and the “what was I thinking?!” From first loves to unforgettable flings, we share raw, real, and ridiculous moments that shaped our views on romance. Then, things get steamy as we each paint the picture of our ideal lover...

When a friendship turns sour, the pain can run deep. In this episode, we dive into the story of a friendship that crumbled under the weight of constant mistreatment, boundary violations, and one-sided favors. We explore the warning signs that were missed, the breaking points that led to the split, and the difficult journey of healing and setting new boundaries for future relationships. If you've e...

In this episode, we dive deep into the complexities of friendship. Celebrating what makes a great friend and examining the painful transitions that can occur when those bonds weaken. What happens when a friendship diminishes? We explore the emotional turmoil of feeling betrayed, how misunderstandings can turn friends into perceived enemies, and the impact it has on our mental health and how to hea...

Welcome to another episode of "Timeless Tales," where we dive into the beauty of cherishing every moment of our youth. Today, we're exploring the idea of not rushing to grow up and the importance of staying connected to our inner child. Growing up is inevitable, but that doesn't mean we have to leave behind the joy, wonder, and creativity of our childhood. In our fast-paced world, there's often pr...

In this episode, we dive into the sensitive and often dangerous topic of exposing a man living on the down-low (DL). We explore the complex emotions and potential repercussions involved, including the impact on personal relationships, mental health, and community dynamics. Through real-life stories and expert insights, I aim to shed light on the hidden struggles and the importance of empathy and u...

In this episode, we delve into the deeply complex and emotionally charged topic of abortion. 

In this episode, we uncover the heartbreaking tale of a family torn apart by blind faith. When allegations of molestation arise against a trusted pastor, the family chooses to believe in the pastor's innocence over the cries for help from their own kin. This episode delves into the emotional turmoil, betrayal, and the devastating impact of misplaced trust within a family.

In this episode, we dive into the emotional and often overlooked experience of breaking up with a friend. We'll explore the reasons friendships can end, the impact it has on our mental health, and how to navigate the complex feelings that come with saying goodbye to someone who once played a significant role in our lives. Join us as we share personal stories, expert insights, and practical advice...

Join London Knight on a heated discussion around the complexities of modern relationships, identity, and the struggles of finding authentic connections in the dating world. From enduring the scorching heat to the challenges of navigating gay relationships, London opens up about waiting for what you deserve instead of just settling. He shares personal experiences and frustrations about the expectat...

In this episode, we dive into the hidden world of men living on the down low. We explore the complex reasons behind their secret lives, the impact on their relationships, and the societal pressures that keep them in the shadows. Join us for an eye-opening discussion on identity, secrecy, and the search for acceptance.