Where We Rise

Dating coach Lilli Bewley joins Khalila for a powerful conversation about healing dating patterns, attracting aligned love, and becoming the woman God created you to be. Lilli shares how her inside‑out approach helps smart, successful women break cycles of people‑pleasing, over‑achieving, and abandoning their needs in relationships. Together, they explore feminine dating archetypes, root‑cause wou...

In this episode, Khalila sits down with Coach Tammy Nicole — a licensed clinician with 22 years in the mental health field who now coaches high‑capacity women navigating people‑pleasing, emotional labor, overfunctioning, and identity loss. Tammy shares how many women lose themselves by living out the identities others choose for them, and why reclaiming your voice begins with learning to love, val...

In this episode of Where We Rise , Khalila sits down with award‑winning author and world traveler Meg Stafford to explore how curiosity, courage, and connection shape a life of adventure. Meg shares the stories behind her book Who Will Accompany You? , the travels that shaped her, and the journeys her daughters took that stretched her heart in new ways. You’ll hear Meg reflect on: The curiosity th...

In this special group episode of Where We Rise , we’re talking all things marriage — the beauty, the challenges, the growth, and the daily choice to love. I’m joined by four incredible women from my former fourth‑grade teaching team as we sit down for a marriage roundtable filled with honesty, laughter, and real‑life wisdom. Together, we explore how our definition of love evolves , what it means t...

Why do we get stuck, lose motivation, or avoid the very things we say we want? In this powerful episode, international speaker and author Kam Knight breaks down the psychology of internal resistance — the hidden mental blocks that keep us from taking action, reaching our goals, and living out our purpose. Kam explains how internal resistance shows up as fear, procrastination, perfectionism, over‑p...

In this conversation, Erica Lynn shares her journey of finding purpose through podcasting and motivational speaking. She discusses the importance of overcoming adversity, the techniques for healing, and the role of personal growth. Erica emphasizes the need for honesty, for building a support system, and for protecting one's peace, while encouraging listeners to pursue their passions and not...

In this heartfelt conversation, Allaina Maria shares the profound impact of her sister Yolanda's life and tragic loss due to domestic violence. Through memories of Yolanda's kindness, community service, and the love she shared with her family, Allaina Maria reflects on the complexities of grief, the importance of honoring one's feelings, and the journey of healing. The discussion em...

In this captivating conversation, Carmen Leal shares the raw truth of her medical crises — from a devastating car accident and life-altering head injury to battling suicidal thoughts and the emotional toll of chronic pain. You’ll discover how her dog, Coconut, became her unexpected savior, offering her love, loyalty, and a new perspective on life. Through her story, you'll learn that the grea...

In this heartfelt conversation, Khalila McCoy and Debbie Simmons delve into the themes of intentionality and resilience in the face of life's challenges. Debbie shares her personal journey, which includes the profound loss of her quadruplets and the subsequent lessons learned about grief, faith, and the importance of asking the right questions. She emphasizes the shift from asking 'why&a...

In this episode, Shelley Meche'tte shares her powerful story of surviving three strokes in a single day and the transformational journey that followed. She opens up about the moments leading up to the strokes, her experience in the ER, and how recovery reshaped her perspective, her healing, and her sense of purpose. Shelley reflects on the emotional impact on her family, the importance of hon...

In this episode, author Lynn B. Stone discusses the importance of end‑of‑life planning and the emotional realities of navigating grief after the loss of her husband. Drawing from her book, ’Til Death Do Us Part: A Practical Guide to Preparing for the Inevitable , Lynn offers practical insights on organizing personal affairs, understanding the stages of grief, and building supportive systems during...

In this heartfelt episode, Ann Harikeerthan shares her inspiring journey of navigating chronic pain, autoimmune challenges, and the transformative power of storytelling and community. Her story highlights the importance of reframing suffering, self-care, and the healing found in creative expression. Connect with Ann: Instagram: @annharikeerthan Facebook: Ann Harikeerthan LinkedIn: Ann Harikeerthan...

*** Please be aware that this episode is a discussion around suicidal ideation.*** In this conversation, Khalila McCoy talks with Earnest James, a mental health advocate, speaker, and podcaster. Earnest shares his personal journey through mental health struggles, including suicidal ideations, and emphasizes the importance of discussing these topics openly, especially among men. He introduces a fra...

In this episode, Khalila sits down with Edie Weinstein — writer, speaker, interfaith minister, and the beloved “Hug‑Mobster.” Edie shares what surviving a heart attack at 55 taught her about slowing down, listening to her body, and choosing compassion. She also reminds us how powerful a simple, intentional hug can be. If you’re needing encouragement, connection, or a reminder to care for yourself...

From Adversity to Faith: In this heartfelt conversation, Khalila McCoy reconnects with Chauncey Harris Sr., who shares his journey of facing kidney failure and the profound impact it has had on his life and family. He recounts personal experiences of overcoming adversity, including a life-altering car accident that led him to a deeper relationship with God. Through trials, he found grace, forgiven...

In this conversation, Greg Arnold shares his journey of shifting from self-doubt to self-worth.  He emphasizes the significance of commitment, celebrating small wins, and embracing challenges as opportunities for growth. Greg also discusses the impact of relationships on personal development and the importance of healing from past traumas. His insights aim to inspire others, particularly men, to e...

Dr. Nicole Rochester shares her personal journey of self-discovery and transformation, focusing on her experiences with marriage, divorce, and personal growth. She discusses the challenges she faced in her marriage, the impact of her parents' divorce on her life, and the realization of her own worth and identity beyond societal labels. Dr. Nicole emphasizes the importance of community, faith,...

Navigating Life as a Military Spouse In this conversation, Chelsea Thomas shares her experiences as a military spouse navigating the challenges of geo-baching, where families live apart due to military assignments. She discusses the emotional toll of separation, the importance of community support, and the founding of her nonprofit organization, Family in Flight, which aims to assist families in s...

Navigating the Foster Care System: In this conversation, Buneka Lucas shares her journey from a challenging childhood in the foster care system to becoming a nurturing mother and advocate for teens in similar situations. She discusses the importance of making choices, building relationships, and the impact of caregiving on her life. Buneka emphasizes the need for community support and the role of...

Discover how music serves as a source of joy, healing, and connection in this inspiring episode with singer and entertainer Katanya Brewer. From her journey to performing on the streets of Columbus to profound moments with seniors and those experiencing life's challenges, Katanya shares her story of resilience, purpose, and the transformative and joyful power of music. Connect with Katanya: I...

In this episode, I engage in an inspiring conversation with Erika Cartledge, a successful entrepreneur and stylist. We explore the journey of embracing failure as a stepping stone to success, highlighting how initial setbacks can fuel personal and professional growth. Erika shares her experiences of launching a styling business, emphasizing the importance of resilience, authenticity, and the coura...

Embracing Fatherhood and Faith In this episode, Khalila sits down with her husband, DJ McCoy, to explore the transformative journey of becoming a father, navigating a new life, and staying grounded in faith. Their honest reflections emphasize the importance of community, intentionality, and divine guidance. Connect with DJ: YouTube: @CustodialChristian678 Send Khalila a message! Connect with Khali...

In this inaugural episode of 'Where We Rise', host Khalila McCoy introduces the podcast's mission to foster genuine conversations and reflections among everyday people. She emphasizes the importance of listening, understanding diverse perspectives, and the growth that comes from sharing personal stories. Khalila aims to create a community where listeners feel seen and heard, encoura...

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